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How do I control my insecurity?

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Question - (18 June 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 21 June 2011)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *harl.bri writes:

i have major insecurities and i feel like it will ruin my relationship, my boyfriend says it wont ruin our relationship and compliments me everyday, hes never cheated and the only thing we've had a serious arguement about is him watching porn and a certain women on porn who he says looks like his bestfriend, now i cant help but bring it up all the time and i feel so insecure in myself if he even looks at another celeb or girl in the street, how can i try and control this insecurity?

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A female reader, Charl.bri United Kingdom +, writes (21 June 2011):

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this is helpful but i am wondering if i can acutally move on from this, i would hate to lose him but i feel hes let me down so much..

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A female reader, SMARTERthaniappear United States +, writes (19 June 2011):

SMARTERthaniappear agony auntEvery girl is insecure at one time in her life. I don't think that you are insecure of yourself though but instead your boyfriend. He's the one who is making you think you're not good enough. It's the relationship that you are in that makes you feel insecure/unworthy. You CAN'T spy on him 24/7 to make sure he's not looking at other girls. You have nothing to control, but instead he does. He has to take control of his interests and rid of obstacles that are hazardous in your relationship. If you believe he's truely changed then trust him until you've got reasons otherwise.

HOPE I HELPED ^.^

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