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20 August 2009: The other night i was talking to my friend who's a girl and we got into the ever-so-popular "all guys are perverts" argument. She asked me why most guys usualy focus more on the looks or a girl than their personality. I had never really thought ...
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My fiancee does not want her parents told we are engaged. How do I build a better relationship with her parents? Kind answers only please!
Q. My girlfriend and I have been together for eight months and are now happily engaged. Seems simple enough, right? Well we are both 17 and out parents don't exactly approve. My father says that he is happy that I have found someone I would like to ...
A. 10 December 2011: Thanks for all the replies, some were helpful and others.. well, let's just say not so much. k c100, you gave me exactly what I asked not to give. You didn't give me advice, you just shot down my plans and told me what you believe. I've already ... (read in full...)
We're arguing every day how do I stop it?
Q. My girlfriend and I have been dating for 7 months now. We're both 17 and we both are interested in a long-term relationship. We've pretty much got it figured that we're going to be together forever. But lately I've been realizing that she's been ...
A. 10 November 2011: I love your idea of supporting her to find help, but she's against it. She took medication for depression for a few years and then went to see a counselor who, according to her, just called her fat and worthless. Now, I'm aware that her counselor ... (read in full...)
I usually date skinny girls, my girlfriend is bigger. I'm worried I won't be attracted once she's naked!
Q. Okay so this is a rather simplistic question. I am 16 dating a girl a month younger than me; just to provide you with an age. I usually only date girls who are pretty skinny but I recently fell in love and am dating my best friend who is a little ...
A. 3 October 2011: Today is my 6-month anniversary with the girl that I mentioned in this question. I'm happy to say that even though her body still looks relatively the same but we are sexually active and I think she's absolutely beautiful just the way she is. Thanks ... (read in full...)
I need a miracle!!!
Q. I have a major problem right now. There's an extremely long story that I would have to tell for you, reader, to understand exactly where I stand and to be able to give me 'perfect' advice. But right now I don't have the time to write it all out. ...
A. 5 April 2010: Thanks to all three of you. I think after reading your responces and after the talk I had with my first love last night, I'm completely over her and I'm ready to move on. Now I can finally look back on our relationship without regret, just another ... (read in full...)
Should I go back out with him?
Q. I am 14 and in the 9th grade. Well my ex boyfriend is 17 and in the 12th grade. I could tell that he liked me, because I got kicked out of the classroom and he stood outside in the hallway with me and was flirting around with me. At that time I ...
A. 11 December 2009: Personally, I think that you should have asked him before breaking up with him if that is what he said because rumors can spread in an instant that are completely untrue. One of my close friends is going through almost the same thing and I keep ... (read in full...)
How do I break the bad news to my Mom?
Q. this is not really sex or love or anything, but i need advice on how to break some bad news to my mum. see, i through being foolish got my laptop infected by a virus, and i sent it off the factory for other repairs hoping it would be fixed, which...
A. 11 December 2009: Honestly I think that she's going to be mad at you either way. But of course that would depend how much is going to have to come out of her pocket for the laptop. Just telling her the truth and that you didn't mean to do it is just about the best ... (read in full...)
She said she wanted to spend the rest of her life with me but now she has left me for someone else!
Q. Hey. I just found out last night that my gf of 2 years broke up with me. We've been kind of off and on because we live just far enough away that we can't see each other that often. Another reason we don't see each other is because my parents hate ...
A. 7 December 2009: Accidentally sent the last message before I was finished-
Honestly I really like what you wrote but the real problem I have with it is that I don't have a choice but to say not all of it is true. First of all my career is in the auto repair f... (read in full...)
She said she wanted to spend the rest of her life with me but now she has left me for someone else!
Q. Hey. I just found out last night that my gf of 2 years broke up with me. We've been kind of off and on because we live just far enough away that we can't see each other that often. Another reason we don't see each other is because my parents hate ...
A. 7 December 2009: Honestly I really like what you wrote but the real problem I have with it is that I don't have a choice but to say not all of it is true. First of all my career is in the auto repair field and i got a job at GMC already so I don't have to worry. I ... (read in full...)
She said she wanted to spend the rest of her life with me but now she has left me for someone else!
Q. Hey. I just found out last night that my gf of 2 years broke up with me. We've been kind of off and on because we live just far enough away that we can't see each other that often. Another reason we don't see each other is because my parents hate ...
A. 6 December 2009: There's one reply below for each person who posted. I don't like what the first anonymous person wrote because you really don't know how my mind works at all. I know what I want for the rest of my life and it is to be with this girl, no matter ... (read in full...)
He makes me feel worthless. What should I do?
Q. I really, really like this guy, but I don't know if he likes me. He is always starring at me, but when we speak on IM he says he has to go but never leaves. He is always flirting with other girls and he never speaks to me. He makes me ...
A. 30 November 2009: My guess would be that he is just a big flirt and usually when a guy is a big flirt and he doesn't flirt with you, it most likely means that he doesn't like you. Don't get me wrong, I am sure that there are hundreds of people that could prove me ... (read in full...)
Why would she wish that I was two years older?
Q. me and this girl are good friend tho shes 2 yrs older than me. we go to the same school so i see her every day (small school) but one day she started saying stuff about her wishing i was 2yrs older i was wondering wat she couldve met by that? and ...
A. 30 November 2009: Well it's pretty obvious that you like her, although I am sure that you didn't need some random person online telling you that. And in my opinion she likes you too. I would say that what she's saying is that your age posses a problem for her. Now, ... (read in full...)
Could this be the end?
Q. Hey people I have yet another question that I have no idea how to answer myself. I apologize for any typo's in this question but i just got a new netbook from school and the keybord takes some getting used to. I am 15 and Marry (not real name) is 14 ...
A. 25 October 2009: Thanks Shadow. Your reply plus the dream I had last night helped clear my mind a lot. I actually think now that this girl isn't as good as I thought she was last night. I won't get into details about the dream because that would take forever but I ... (read in full...)
Is it really worth giving up everything and running away with my girlfriend?
Q. Me and my girlfriend had sex and got caught by her parents that night and for the first few weeks her parents were mad at us but still wanted us to be together. but as time went on they completely have changed there minds and now wont let us talk or ...
A. 23 August 2009: I feel like i really understand where ur coming from. Almost a year ago i tried running away with my girlfriend. We had talked about it but one night we randomly decided to do it. It was a stupid idea because we didnt have anything planned. We got ... (read in full...)
Why was my boyfriend so horrible to me in front of his friends? It hurt me so much
Q. Help! I understand that guys will be jerks to you infront of their friends but can you just please tell me about it. I am very heart broken because my sweet boyfriend of almost 9 months was an arrogant asshole to me today, for the first time eve...
A. 22 August 2009: My guess would be that he might have thought something was going on between you and the friend that you went to the movies with. That is if it was a guy. Either way you should confront him about it what he did was more than just joking around with ... (read in full...)
What can I do to get girls to really like me?
Q. How do i get girls to like me? i need some tips and tricks. im 16 year old and alot of the time get on with girls but when i ask them to go out or meet up or do they like me more than a friend they say no they just want to be friends...Any advice?...
A. 22 August 2009: Ive been following the work of many men that are learning the real ways to get girls to like you and if theres anything ive learned is that its all about first impressions. If you like a girl then you want to aproach her like your interested in ... (read in full...)
I said something I shouldn't and I'm afraid hes going to split from me!
Q. I'm 17 years old and my boyfriend is 16. We met a while ago while he was on vacation here and we liked each other a lot, so he asked me out. He lives 7 hours away and we're in a long distance relationship. Before last night, everything was great. He ...
A. 22 August 2009: Well she answered the 1st part of the question so ill go ahead and tell you this. As a guy i know that when im suspecting something the longer its in my head the more blown out of propotion it gets. So if you dont talk to him soon then eventualy he ... (read in full...)
Was having sex with him a mistake? I can't get over him
Q. ok, there was this guy i met about a year back at a football game,, i have always thought i would never like him, well at least not as more then freinds. well one day he added me on myspace and had appeared to have changed..alott! we started talking ...
A. 22 August 2009: Many of my friends have had sex with their partner way too soon which have led to many breakups. Most often unless a guy is really emotionaly attached to you, sex will cause his feelings for you to fade or dissapear. Still there could be a number of ... (read in full...)
I was bullied and doubt myself...Does she like me?
Q. okay I'm 25 years old 6'3 brown hair not fat and workout and I have low self esteem due to being made fun of in school for being russian or whatever but when I was like 16 and walked around the streets girls always honked or yelled hey baby or ...
A. 21 August 2009: Dont worry about the odds of stuff like that. Just assume that shes single and interested and start talking to her. If shes not interested then thats that. And next time why dont you just ask her age instead of assuming that shes 17 or 18. I hung ... (read in full...)
My take on why guys notice looks more than personality!
Q. The other night i was talking to my friend who's a girl and we got into the ever-so-popular "all guys are perverts" argument. She asked me why most guys usualy focus more on the looks or a girl than their personality. I had never really thought ...
A. 21 August 2009: I like the point LonelyTwo made. Im pretty sure that everyone knows that stating the obvious over and over isnt going to get us anywhere. But how i see it is that there are people that have the ability to discover the problem, people to come up with ... (read in full...)
Our relationship is ending soon... but should we break things off earlier?
Q. I'm having a rough time just now. I'm in a relationship that is going to finish in a few weeks time, because we are both going off to Universities and neither of us want a long distance relationship. But for the past couple of weeks, I've found my ...
A. 21 August 2009: She probably wants to be with you more becaus she knows the end is near too and she wants to be with you as often as she can before the end. Ive had a lot of girlfriends that do the same thing and i know how annoying it can be. Still if your not ... (read in full...)
He is always saying other girls are cute and hot!
Q. he says he loves me but he will say that other girls are hot and cute when he posts a picture of someone famous he will say shes cute or hot and he does skype with another girl and and he says that im all he wants but idk it makes me feel bad bout ...
A. 21 August 2009: Just because he loves you doesnt mean that your the only hot or cute girl in the world. Of corse he's going to notice other hot n' cute girls. You should feel lucky that you are the one he chose to be with out of all the good looking girls in the ... (read in full...)
After a difficult break up, I still love my ex and can't move on. What can I do?
Q. This is probably going to be a long one so prepare yourself. About a year and a half ago I was hanging out with a friend in my apt circle like i did most days. I happened to go over to her house one day and she had a friend over. Now, back then i ...
A. 21 August 2009: Thanks jack20. I spend an hour trying to find her myspace last night and i sent her a msg. i didnt say anything other then whats up but im going 2 make sure she still uses her myspace before i tell her how i feel. Thanks again, i think that ive been ... (read in full...)
I was bullied and doubt myself...Does she like me?
Q. okay I'm 25 years old 6'3 brown hair not fat and workout and I have low self esteem due to being made fun of in school for being russian or whatever but when I was like 16 and walked around the streets girls always honked or yelled hey baby or ...
A. 21 August 2009: Encounters like this happen every day. Unfortunately most often neither of the people involved have the courage to take it any further. If you think that you might have a chance with her then go for it. Go back to subway and if she's there try ... (read in full...)
The ex or the new lover?
Q. i have recently split from a relationship that i have a disabled child with of 4years. i met someone else and rushed into things quite quickly.i love my new lover to pieces and am happy with him, my son loves him too. my new lover recently proposed ...
A. 20 August 2009: i messed up in the 1st sentence of my answer. i meant wouldn't, not would. sorry... (read in full...)
The ex or the new lover?
Q. i have recently split from a relationship that i have a disabled child with of 4years. i met someone else and rushed into things quite quickly.i love my new lover to pieces and am happy with him, my son loves him too. my new lover recently proposed ...
A. 20 August 2009: If your ex wanted you back bad enough he would have waited until you where engaged with another man to tell you how he felt. You have made it this far in your new relationship without knowing how ur ex felt. A relationship built on regret and sorrow ... (read in full...)
I'm 15 and in love with my 33 year old teacher
Q. Well I am 15 years old and am madly in love with my 33 year old teacher, and i know most of you will probably say it’s just a stupid crush, to stop being so stupid and move on, but honestly i know for sure it isn’t a stupid crush, and believe me i ...
A. 20 August 2009: Last year i had this teacher who almost every girl in my school had a crush on. He was really flirty too and was confronted by the principal about it more than once. The only girl that actualy had the courage to tell him how she truly felt got shot ... (read in full...)
I asked her out and told her to think about it. It's been a day since, shall I phone her or wait?
Q. i left another post saying about a girl well she told me friend that she really likes me and she dont love this other boy. So last night i asked her out and she said i dont know and i said ok can u think about it and she said ok. I havent spoke to ...
A. 20 August 2009: You should NOT call her. give her time to think. if you call her then you will seem desprate and girls dont like guys that they can walk all over. they want a challenge. so you should just wait for her to call. Hope she calls soon!
~SFL... (read in full...)
This guy I've been talking to on msn has told me to choose between him or my boyfriend! What should I do?
Q. i have been talking to this guy for about 4years on msn and a really do like him like actually soo much but he lives soo far away and he wants us to be more than friends but i just cant see it working because of the distance and hes away on holiday ...
A. 20 August 2009: I can tell you right now that unless this guy moves closer to you the relationship is not going to work out at all. If you like your boyfriend then you should stay with him. Dont let this guy pressure you into chosing between him or your boyfriend. ... (read in full...)
I can't stand being with him when I don't love him...so how do I break up with him?
Q. Hi So I've been going out with this boy for about a month now. He asked me out a few times and he really likes me eventualy I said yes as I thought I liked him but I have found out that I only like him as a friend. To add to this I was alre...
A. 20 August 2009: You should get his number (if you havnt already) and call him. Just tell him how you feel and explain that you only like him as a friend. Once its done though you may want to wait a couple days before persuing this other guy to avoid a confrontaion ... (read in full...)
Being friends with an ex. Why is everyone against it?
Q. im friends with my ex ...i am genuine about my friendship and she matters to me a lot as a friend ...but her friends and wellwishers are against this friendship and tell her to break it off because they dont believe in it ...she says she is on my ...
A. 20 August 2009: Most people are against being friends with your ex because either the relationship ended badly and you wouldn't be friends to begin with or it ended with the idea of remaining friends. When this happens usualy one or both of the people involved will ... (read in full...)
Questions about sex and dating from a lovesick virgin...
Q. i have 3 questions. first say there is a girl who wants to have sex with me and i want to also, how do we consent i'm 15 male but i want to be ready when the situiaion comes up. second there is this girl i've know since i was 9 and i like her a...
A. 20 August 2009: 1st- just to get your stamina up so you'll last longer. Also it might be a good idea to take care of yourself first (if you know what i mean) so it will last longer. Still it is your first time and 9 times out of 10 its not how you pictured it would ... (read in full...)
Why do guys like to grab girls' behind?
Q. ok so i just started dating this guy and we have talked for about a month...the other day we were talking about how far we have been (i told him i had never kissed anyone before him) and he said that he wants to wait till marrage for sex...he went ...
A. 20 August 2009: Im here with a couple of my friends who are also guys and we agreed that its usualy a spir of the moment thing. Its not like we put too much thought into it we just do because we can.... (read in full...)
Still in love with her. Should I just say it and find out what happens?
Q. My girlfriend broke up with me this day 2 weeks ago(5th). We were going out for nearly 21 months and she broke with me saying she wanted to be single. I was fine with it at 1st but the last few days I've done nothing but think about her and cry. I'm ...
A. 19 August 2009: I'm assuming that you didn't do anything that might have made her want to end the relationship. That said i also think that after nearly two years in a relationship she only wants a break. She probably knows that you still have feelings for her. ... (read in full...)
Is it normal for him not to care about sex?
Q. ok, so i've never been the type to be in a serious relationship, and here i am almost two years with a guy. without skipping all the details we both decided we were ready to lose our virginity, about 7 months ago. i do not regret this deision at ...
A. 11 August 2009: It sounds like he just doesn't want sex to change the relationship. I do the same thing in most of my relationships. He probably doesn't want sex to become the center of the relationship instead of love. That and he might just feel that he doesn't ... (read in full...)
13 and lovesick!
Q. okay, to start things off, i am 13. yes, yes i know very young for love, but the more we become closer the more i begin to relize hes not worth my time, he could care less, iv tried and tried i have enough stress, i cant b around him and his ...
A. 11 August 2009: You should try to get time alone with him. Anything from a stude date to going to a movie just as friends. Most guys would act differently when they're with a girl instead of a group of people. If he doesn't show any sign of liking you as more ... (read in full...)
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