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writes:My girlfriend broke up with me this day 2 weeks ago(5th). We were going out for nearly 21 months and she broke with me saying she wanted to be single. I was fine with it at 1st but the last few days I've done nothing but think about her and cry. I'm still madly love with her and want to say it to her but I'm afraid of what she will say or if she really just doesn't like me anymore! I have 2 questions, Do I leave her be, or say it and find out what happens? And what did she mean when she said I want to try being single for a while?
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reader, babygurll  +, writes (19 August 2009):
 well u should tell her beause theres a story of a boy who loved a girl but never told her then them next day she died and dien not knowing he loved her so maybe you should take a chance
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reader, Six_Floors_Left +, writes (19 August 2009):
 I'm assuming that you didn't do anything that might have made her want to end the relationship. That said i also think that after nearly two years in a relationship she only wants a break. She probably knows that you still have feelings for her. Still it wouldn't hurt to act like you still love her. Just a little. She said she wanted to be single for a while so that is what you should give her. Let her have some time to be single. If she really loves you she'll come back to you.
Best of luck,
SFL
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reader, turtle86  +, writes (19 August 2009):
 Bud, I broke up with my girlfriend on July 31st. It was the most terrible thing ever. (We've been going out for roughly 7 1/2 months. It really sucks and I am sure I know how you feel. Life is hard to live, you think of her 24/7. But the thing is, is that she broke up with you right? Now I don't know she could be testing you. But That's just one thing. But if she broke up with you and said she wanted to be single it could mean that... She wanted to be single and flirt with guys and live life. Now...I would leave her alone and if she wants to come back to you than do what you believe is right. But time is what you need. Life feels terrible. Life is hell but it will mend back together. There are 3 1/2 billion other women in the world that you can hit on. And for sure many that are better it will just take you time to realise it. Just tell yourself that there are more girls and it was fun but you have to move on. [: Message me if more help is needed. [:
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