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writes:I am 14 and in the 9th grade. Well my ex boyfriend is 17 and in the 12th grade. I could tell that he liked me, because I got kicked out of the classroom and he stood outside in the hallway with me and was flirting around with me. At that time I didn't really like him, until he just kept flirting around with me, and that made me like him more. Well he had known me from when we usd to ride the same bus, but he never really said anything to me then. Well one day I decided to get his number from a friend and text him, and he figured out it was me and started texting me back. One Monday night he called me, and was telling me how he liked me and wanted to go out with me. So I said yes. Well that next day, Tuesday, at school everything was going ok and he walked me to all my classes and even sat with me at lunch. We were holding hands, hugging, and he even kissed me. He is the one of the nicest guys you could ever meet and everyone likes him as a person. Well that Wednesday he was still walking with me, but he wasnt there to walk with me to all of my classes and he didn't even sit with me at lunch (he sat with his ex-girlfriend). And that same day my friend told me that she heard him say that he only went out with me because i was lonely and needed a boyfriend. So I broke up with him that day after my mom had picked me up from school, because I was crying so hard. Well since then we haven't gone back out but we still text eachother and call eachother. Since then he has also told me that he missed me and wanted to go back out with me. But some people tell me dont go back out with him because he is a whore, and some tell me to do what I want. I really like/love him and want to go back out with him. What should I do?
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reader, Six_Floors_Left +, writes (11 December 2009):
 Personally, I think that you should have asked him before breaking up with him if that is what he said because rumors can spread in an instant that are completely untrue. One of my close friends is going through almost the same thing and I keep telling her not to go back out with him because she's only going to get hurt again. But then I dated a girl who kept hurting me and realized that sometimes it's easy to forgive someone and move on. But seeing as how I don't know you or this guy personally, it's hard to determine exactly what you should do. He does sound like a nice guy though, other then some people calling him a whore. I think that you shouldn't have to rely on what other people say to make up your mind on what to do. If you really want to go out with him then I think that you should but the fact that you posted it on this website makes me think you have a little doubt about it. But really, what's the worst that could happen? You date him for a while longer and find out that what you thought he said is true so you break up again? It may sound bad now but it won't be the end of the world. The only other advice I have to give is that, since some people called him a whore, just don't do anything you don't want to if he pressures you to. Pretty common advice but it still works. Hope any of this helps you :]~SFL
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