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I'm in a long relationship with my first boyfriend who's 19 years old from Thailand who love dearly with all my heart.
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He says he only cheated for sex...can this be true?
Q. My question is can a man (or woman)who cheats on their partner with the same woman and says it was only for sex nothing more over seveval years can it be true? He would go to her house for coffee and sex,and have gropes in the car if he gave her...
A. 28 April 2009: For 6 years that's a long fling. From what I can see through your words is that these people who share the same 'play' don't respond to each other's feelings like love so this is just sex, using each other for just the sake of pleasure and ... (read in full...)
How can I stretch my vagina in preparation for sex?
Q. My boyrfriend of a year and half are planning on having sex within the next two months. i was wondering how i can possibly stretch my vagina out as it is quite tight. yes, we will be using a condom....
A. 7 October 2008: Just play safe instead of doing anything to change it. It will come naturally.... (read in full...)
Pregnant on the pill? First time user needs reassurance
Q. Hey Been on microgynon 30 for almost 3 months now, and have only just started having sex just with the pill (only done it once on sunday, we're all in the clear regarding STIs etc) with my bf, but lo and behold I'm still worried. I've been on tim...
A. 7 October 2008: I was in your shoes when I took Microgynon 30 for at-least 4 months thinking what will happen but, taking it for 11 months now still nothing. As long you stay faithful to your time when you take it you won't get pregnant.... (read in full...)
Can I trust my boyfriend while he's away at the university?
Q. hi dearcupid, i'm having a hard time coping with my long-distance boyfriend when he goes off to uni next month. i love him as whole. of course, you have to make the effort but, i still want to keep the relationship strong. i trust him and he trust...
A. 27 August 2008: Sorry for the late replies and I appreciate both of your wonderful advices. I'm sorry it didn't work out for you 'anonymous' :( but, I wish you the best in the future.! PyjamaLama thank-you for encouragement. It's true what you said.
Thank... (read in full...)
Will the nurse give me a pregnancy test at the appointment?
Q. A couple of weeks ago, my boyfriend and I were cuddling without any clothes on … he pre-came near - but not in - my vagina. The next day, I got the morning-after pill, just in case. I’m on the contraceptive pill, and on my week break, but I’ve not ...
A. 30 July 2008: The chance of your pregnancy is very unlikely. I believe you haven't recieved your period yet is because, you took the morning pill whislt on contraceptive pill which could iterupt your cycle or either you've had alot of worry due to stress.
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My girlfriend cheated four times. Will she change?
Q. My grlfriend cheated on me four times,but I still love her and we got a child together.Do you think she will ever change?...
A. 26 July 2008: She's not faithful is she. You have a child to think about as well you need to settle down with a more even relationship because, it will really complicate yourself being with this woman. As to why her actions are so misbahving have you told her so ... (read in full...)
Me and my girlfriend want to have sex, but we're unsure about some things.
Q. I am 12 and me and my girlfriend want to have sex but we don't know were or when....
A. 27 June 2008: Don't. If you want to experiment adultry you just have to wait till' your mature enough to be in a older position even you can't deticate when or where to have it as your still too young.... (read in full...)
My mum wont let me stay the night at my boyfriends!
Q. how unfair is it to not let you'r 16 year old daughter stay at her boyfriends for one night? my mother wont trust me, even tho she was stayin over at my dads all the time when she was my age. she refuses me to stay over at my boyfriend. ho...
A. 27 June 2008: Your mum is not being unfair. She just has the respect for you like all mums for their children. If you have a reason to sleep over at your boyfriend's house such as; if your staying there for just a sleepover then your mum has a reason to decline. ... (read in full...)
I've tried everything to get rid of the acne! Any useful advice?
Q. I am so fed up of suffering with acne since my early teenage life....over the years I have tried so much-just about everything to get rid of it but nothing ever works! Firstly I am NOT stressed, I am a happy person and enjoy life. I do alot ...
A. 10 June 2008: The only solution I should recommened and suggest is a 'facial centre' done by a professional of course but, the price is quite high but, to say from experience (because, I suffered from acne condition as well) was worth it and my skin feels better ... (read in full...)
Any tips on disguising or ignoring the taste of cum?
Q. hi i just need some general advice.. well me and my bf have just started doing sexual stuff and when i gave him a bj i found out i really do not like the taste of cum! can anyone give me any tips on what to do to disguise the taste or not be ...
A. 10 June 2008: It really depends on his diet and how much level of alcohol he consumes. If he drinks quite alot then it'll taste quite bitter and sour I've read vegetables help the taste better.
If you do not like the taste don't use your nose as that's where yo... (read in full...)
Embarrassing skin rash that won't stop itching! Help
Q. Can somebody help me? For the past two weeks or so now, I have felt this horrible itching downstairs. As a result, this has developed into some sort of skin rash. This isn't the sort of thing I want to seek help about from a doctor, so does ...
A. 9 June 2008: This could probably be a yeast infection or vaginal thrush. There's this product called 'Canesten' which comes with a pessary and cream and it's free if you get a prescription from your doctor and works very effective. But, ask your doctor first on ... (read in full...)
This girl wants me to come over, is that slutty?
Q. I just recently started talking to this girl, we havnt hung out yet but she has already asked me to come over to her house, is that somewhat of a slutty thing to do? I really would like her to be my GF but it seems shes looking just for sex. Btw im ...
A. 3 June 2008: If you haven't gone out with her yet she invited you to hung out at her house it could naturally mean she found some sort of attraction towards you or (and) likes to get to know you better. It's usually always important to get to know the person ... (read in full...)
A guy asked me to watch a film with me...does this mean he likes me?
Q. Heyy. So this guy asked me to watch a film at the same time as him. I know this sounds silly but its sounds like something out of a love story watching things at the same time. Does he like me ? hurtagen xx...
A. 28 May 2008: Surely that's a sign. If he sparks out more entertainments then he's likely interested in you.... (read in full...)
Should I leave my wife because our sex life is virtually non existent?
Q. Hi i'm thinking of leaving my wife, i like her in many ways but our sex life is virtually non exsistance. I've met a wonderful woman aged 18 who is beautiful and works as a model. The sex is absolutely fantastic. Do think there is a chance for us, ...
A. 10 May 2008: If you choose to leave your wife for a young girl with a high sex drive then it's plainly see you aren't fitted to be in a relationship let along have the loyalty.... (read in full...)
Suggestions to spend QUALITY time with my boyfriend, not just stay together and ignore each other, for lack of better ideas...?
Q. I need ideas to make my relationship with my boyfriend more interesting. We live together and spend most of the time with eachother but never spend QUALITY time. The only things we do together are watch movies and have sex/cuddles, otherwise we're ...
A. 10 May 2008: It's summer now. Buy ice cream and have a picnic together at your local park even play some enjoyable light sports after like; badminton or frisbee till' it's sunset.
Also, if you always go to the cinemas why not rent a movie(s) and have varies of f... (read in full...)
I said awful things to my boyfriend. Should I just let it go even though I'm sorry?
Q. I broke up with my boyfriend half a year ago and haven't spoken to him in a month. The thing is I said some awful things which I am ashamed of now. I had just found out that he had lied and cheated with lots of other girls the whole time we were...
A. 1 May 2008: He deserved every damn word hun. You shouldn't be put in the blame for what you said espiecally, with someone who wasn't faithful and turned out to be a loser at the end. He isn't worth your life for good. There's still plenty of fish in the sea and ... (read in full...)
Any tips to get rid of bags under eyes?
Q. Hi i'm just wondering does anybody have any tips to get rid of bags under your eyes? i'm only 13 and i've had them for ages, even though i get enough sleep! ...
A. 27 April 2008: I use a eye mask which has a form of gel inside to help comfort your eyes. It's placed in the fridge for about 1 hour until cold (not too cold) then you can relax placing it over eyes. Anything cold such as ice cubes are good for the eyes. Cold ... (read in full...)
Some days I hate this lad and other days, I really like him! Why am I confused?
Q. im confused about my feelings over a lad! some days i really really like him, other days i hate him - there isnt even any reason for it! yesterday i really liked him, but today i cant stand him n the thought of him annoys me so much! im really ...
A. 24 April 2008: Because, maybe your drawn to him. No matter if you don't really like him there's a way for you to come back to his presence.... (read in full...)
Attracted to my little sister but I don't think it's wrong!
Q. So I am attracted to my little sister and I don't think it is wrong. i always have an erection around her and we are home alone a lot. she is just too sexy to ignore. i want to have sex with her but i don't think she wants it with me. if i can't ...
A. 20 April 2008: Your capable enough so, best wishes to you and in the future.... (read in full...)
He cancels dates and doesn't call me, only to act so nice and flirty afterwards, why?!
Q. If a guy isn't interested in you anymore why does he keep coming back. There is this guy that clearly doesn't like me anymore but he still talks to me at work. He still kinda* flirts. But its obvious he doesn't want anything with me. Examples, he c...
A. 19 April 2008: His confidence is high. Flirting just measures up his level. Grabbing your attention even as you said he shows no interest so, he's bit of a tease as he probably thinks you still have interest towards him.(?) Now it's your turn to show no inter... (read in full...)
Attracted to my little sister but I don't think it's wrong!
Q. So I am attracted to my little sister and I don't think it is wrong. i always have an erection around her and we are home alone a lot. she is just too sexy to ignore. i want to have sex with her but i don't think she wants it with me. if i can't ...
A. 19 April 2008: Listen. Youre young you need to know this world's boundaries once youre still growing in it. If you furthur move to your desire don't expect a happy relief. You only have sexual interest to your sister because, she is living in the same roof as you. ... (read in full...)
On BC. Can you still take the pills at your usual time even though, the clocks has changed?
Q. Hello, dear members. When the clock automactically sets 1 hour more because, of the the seasonal change do I keep taking my pills at the original time? For instance. My pill time should be always 6:05pm. Since, the clock changed it's 7:05pm. D...
A. 19 April 2008: Haha, I thought so. Thank-you kindly!... (read in full...)
I'm afraid I ruined my friendship with this girl by asking her out. It's ripping me apart!
Q. I asked this girl out a month ago. She didnt feel same. We were close friends. We did talk less after. I rang her few days ago to see how she was n she was out n busy obviously. So I said ring me wen ur free I'll call u bk. She hasn't n I txt askin ...
A. 19 April 2008: Give her space for a while. Calling and texting her would not solve the problem as she might be feeling uncomfortable still at the moment. You should wait for her to contact now. I know that might seem hard but, you have to be patience.
Altho... (read in full...)
Urgent! Pimples and blackheads advice needed!
Q. i need help!first i want to thank you for the help i already recieved!!!! how do i get rid of pimpels and black heads in my face???please its really depreasing so please help me...URGENT...
A. 16 April 2008: 1. Exfolitating
2. Facial
3. Drink lot's of water.
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1. I personally believe some products are a waste of money and the results don't come out clear. You should have a
facial by a professional. It's quite expensive but, it's worth it. For ... (read in full...)
My husband keeps asking me why my body doesn't look like the women in porn!
Q. My husband keeps asking me why my body doesnt look like the women in porn...I tried explaining to him that after a few kids things change...Im not at all overweight but womens bodies do change in ways that cant be helped after babies like stretch ...
A. 16 April 2008: You've answered your own question. Yes, leave him he isn't worth the energy. There's no need to be stuck with a person with a overgrown ego. He is disgraceful.
Best wishes. Sarah.... (read in full...)
Where would be a romantic place for us to have our first kiss, and how should I kiss him?...
Q. OK, I have this bf, and he brings me flowers, and gives me hugs and always shows his affection...and we've been on a few dates, and I want to give him a kiss(I'm his first gf, and he's my first REAL one.) First of all, I don't want to walk up to ...
A. 15 April 2008: A romantic place? Well, since your both are young you can't travel that much far away from your spot.
Have you got a favourite place? The park sounds like a good place and it's less crowded and more open. So you wouldn't have to be distracted on t... (read in full...)
Can I have anal sex while I suffer from hemorrhoids?
Q. can I have anal sex while I suffer from hemeroids? thank you...
A. 15 April 2008: Defientely a no. Pain or no pain. Isn't worth the risk. Let your condition settle and heal first therefore, you'll feel comfortable with your own body.... (read in full...)
Are my chances of pregnancy slim?
Q. Okay I'm just wondering if anyone can help me here... In feburary, I took the emergency contraceptive pill. My period was due around the 6th of march, and when it didn't come, i took a test that showed up negative. Eventually my period came arou...
A. 15 April 2008: Emergency Contraceptive Pill can delay your period. I remembered I expereinced heavy bleeding for a week when I first took it which caused me to have a missed period. That was 5 months ago. It's normal depending how your body works.... (read in full...)
I love my BF but he has a bad temper and last night hit me! Is it an excuse that he has problems at home?
Q. I love my boyfriend more than anything and i know he loves me to however he can be really childish and he has a bad temper last night he hit me only on my leg but still he hit me. he has alot of problems at home at the minute, should i end it?...
A. 14 April 2008: If he didn't mean it literally give him a warning. Although, there is no excuse for hitting a person espiecally, a lover out of rage because, he has personal problems at the moment. Give him space for a while until his issues are sorted and calmed ... (read in full...)
I'm annoyed that women flirt with my boyfriend, how can I handle this?
Q. i am jealous about my boyfriend and same as others it is making problems now and we might break up... i am trying to stop that and sometimes it works great. my question: i am sitting in a restaurant for example with him and suddenly a woman...
A. 14 April 2008: No. There is no need for a break up because, it's not him that's the reason. Aren't the people surrounding him is more of the reason? Does your boyfriend flirt back along with them? You haven't stated this in your post so, what's the problem? These ... (read in full...)
Why is he so selfish in bed, I do everything - but get nothing in return!
Q. My boyfriend is so selfish in bed, our sex is praciticly a routine. I do everything for him, i want to be a good lover to him and i put his pleasure first. He asks me to wear sexy outfits and underwear when we have sex, which is fine with me. He ...
A. 13 April 2008: Hun, you have to be in control now. He is taking control of you and not what 'you' want. I can understand you want to be a good girlfriend towards him but, remember you have your boundaries as well. It's not a balanced relationship where it's more ... (read in full...)
Do you only bleed a bit with your first intercourse?
Q. I had first time intercourse last night. We'd prepared well, and relaxed, and did lots of foreplay. We didn't expect too much. At first we fumbled and giggled our way through it!! But we enjoyed ourselves. I did bleed a bit but I expected it ...
A. 13 April 2008: The first time depends how your body works can bleed just lighty for a day and for another day. If it happeneds again. It's common as you should just let it adjust and get used to. It's normal.
Best wishes. Sarah.... (read in full...)
How often should I call my girlfriend the days I can't see her?
Q. After seeing my counsellor I realise now the only problem in my life is women. I have been on 3 dates in my entire life, longest relationship lasted 5 weeks. I now know it is because of low communication (i.e. when I didn't see her I would only send ...
A. 12 April 2008: There's no limit. You can call her anytime of the day or night as long as you don't go too far as it could be distracting for the person. Although, if you both do love the company in each other's present even when you can't see each other there is ... (read in full...)
Should a couple share ALL their secrets? What do you think?
Q. Do you think a couple should share everything in their mind? All their secrets? ...
A. 12 April 2008: Not necessarialy. If a couple feels comfortable with that why not? You don't need to tell everything if you don't desire too as long there's trust in the relationship.... (read in full...)
She's now married with kids, but She said when she comes into town we could have sex.
Q. I've known this girl for about 8 yrs, I've had feelings for her for about 8 yrs as well. She too has feelings for me, unfortunately we had lost contact at one point in time, and she ended up with someone else. She is now married with kids. She move...
A. 12 April 2008: Who's also the one being a smartass and uses sarcasm between his lines? Who's whining? More like ranting since, you keep coming back as if it's your victory. No hard feelings you just need to face facts and accept what people have said if you can't ... (read in full...)
She's now married with kids, but She said when she comes into town we could have sex.
Q. I've known this girl for about 8 yrs, I've had feelings for her for about 8 yrs as well. She too has feelings for me, unfortunately we had lost contact at one point in time, and she ended up with someone else. She is now married with kids. She move...
A. 11 April 2008: I appreciate you didn't get offended but, refrain yourself from calling those who you believe they're so perfect as if we trying to bash you down. Were only giving you right advices for goodness sake. Don't act immature. I hope your making the right ... (read in full...)
She's now married with kids, but She said when she comes into town we could have sex.
Q. I've known this girl for about 8 yrs, I've had feelings for her for about 8 yrs as well. She too has feelings for me, unfortunately we had lost contact at one point in time, and she ended up with someone else. She is now married with kids. She move...
A. 11 April 2008: Who said we were worried? Were just advising you what's best for you. If you listen to us you can avoid every detail of consequence. You can't predict at this rate. Certainly, not what your doing. You don't sound too happy about it either.... (read in full...)
Smelly vaginal discharge, sore boobs, what does this mean?
Q. i have a realley smelly vaginal discharge,my boobs are also sore when i lean or touch them,im very worried about the discharge,ive been with my partner for 5 years and have never cheated on him,he would never cheat on me either.. what is this ...
A. 11 April 2008: Do you discharge alot? Even you don't there's still a sign of thrush and infection. If you recentely or lately had unprotected sex also, state otherwise once you make a appointment (recommended) to your doctor.
Best wishes. Sarah.... (read in full...)
She's now married with kids, but She said when she comes into town we could have sex.
Q. I've known this girl for about 8 yrs, I've had feelings for her for about 8 yrs as well. She too has feelings for me, unfortunately we had lost contact at one point in time, and she ended up with someone else. She is now married with kids. She move...
A. 11 April 2008: I never give answers like this to anyone becuase, I never met someone here as obsessed and ignorant like you. I feel so sorry for the husband and children. Disgraceful. I hope to God he'll give you a future because, it's clear you have none. As ... (read in full...)
My brother is a bully and my parents are away
Q. my brother is a bully. he is terrible, horrible and he hurts me. my parents are in holiday so they can't see that. i do not want to go to police of course because its my brother. please help me!...
A. 10 April 2008: How old is your brother? If he was older than you such as his late teens then. Your dealing with a immature child. Take control not fight back but, head up high and not let him pester you as that's what he wants. To be in control which makes you ... (read in full...)
She's now married with kids, but She said when she comes into town we could have sex.
Q. I've known this girl for about 8 yrs, I've had feelings for her for about 8 yrs as well. She too has feelings for me, unfortunately we had lost contact at one point in time, and she ended up with someone else. She is now married with kids. She move...
A. 7 April 2008: It sounds to me she wants a first come first serve.
Her choice is rather self-centred I'm afraid you should be wise enough to understand she is in a relationship with children even though, it's quite tempting as the feelings still rely there.
My ... (read in full...)
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