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30-35,
anonymous
writes:If a guy isn't interested in you anymore why does he keep coming back. There is this guy that clearly doesn't like me anymore but he still talks to me at work. He still kinda* flirts. But its obvious he doesn't want anything with me. Examples, he cancels dates; doesn't call me or text me; sometimes tries to avoid me. But then he acts soo nice and flirty. If he doesn't like me anymore then why doesn he act like that!! Why doesn't he just leave me alone so I could start getting over him? Any advice?
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reader, sarah_s  +, writes (19 April 2008):
 His confidence is high. Flirting just measures up his level. Grabbing your attention even as you said he shows no interest so, he's bit of a tease as he probably thinks you still have interest towards him.(?) Now it's your turn to show no interest. Period. You still have your life ahead of you so, you don't need him anymore. Block less of the contact between you two and move on from his presence. Go out with friends, meet new people, do what you love.etc.Best wishes. Sarah.
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reader, love girl  +, writes (19 April 2008):
 do the same thing , stop talking to him and live your life , why get attached with him and when he doesnt my advice stop talking to him
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2008): I would say that just ignore him but ignore him in a way that he'll think "damn i know she gives me attention but i feel ignored" who knows.But on the other hand maybe he's dating someone else? ah you should think that maybe he flirts with you to get a confidence boost? idk but like my mom told me "If someone ignores you 99% of the time ignore BACK!" i know it may seem cheesy but it's pretty handy. But anyway if he tries to like talk to you or start any convo i would turn the other way and walk but make sure you do this when you know that he's coming your way.I hope i givin a good advice towards this and goodluck!
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