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writes:I asked this girl out a month ago. She didnt feel same. We were close friends. We did talk less after. I rang her few days ago to see how she was n she was out n busy obviously. So I said ring me wen ur free I'll call u bk. She hasn't n I txt askin if I shud call n no reply. I know she has credit but she hasn't bothered to reply. Its ripping me apart. Any suggestions? Reply to this Question
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reader, sarah_s +, writes (19 April 2008):
 Give her space for a while. Calling and texting her would not solve the problem as she might be feeling uncomfortable still at the moment. You should wait for her to contact now. I know that might seem hard but, you have to be patience.
Although, she shouldn't take this too personally. Like, I said be patience. If you see her again talk to her but, if the distance is still there I'm afraid to say move on if she continues to react like this to you. As a close friend she shouldn't run away from it but, comfort. It's not your fault and it's certaintely not fair she put a barrier between your friendship.
Best wishes. Sarah.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2008): Well, honey if she isn't mature enough to handle the fact that you liked her as more than a friend & she doesn't want to be friends anymore then, to hell with her. I know that does not make you feel any better. Do you ever see her, at school or anywhere else? If so, just ask her what is wrong next time you see her. Tell her that it's fine that she doesn't return your feelings and that you wish you would have never told her you like her b/c you don't want to ruin what you had. Which was a really good friendship. If you don't see her on a reg. basis, I would give it a few days and if she still doesn't reply, then call her again & tell her what I suggested. Maybe she's just real busy or maybe she met a boy and doesn't want to hurt your feelings by you finding out. It will work itself out though. Don't get too bent out of shape over it.
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