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writes:After seeing my counsellor I realise now the only problem in my life is women. I have been on 3 dates in my entire life, longest relationship lasted 5 weeks. I now know it is because of low communication (i.e. when I didn't see her I would only send 1 text a day)I was wondering that, for my next girlfriend, how often should I call her in a day?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2008): Hi Hunny
Its a 2 way thing it takes two people to show an interest in each other, Yes I no ive heard that argument from my sons friends oh he hasnt text me! maybe he doesnt want to see me anymore...Im thinkin my god yea I remember sitting by the phone on occation for my b/f to call but if it hadnt happened when he said off Id go and busy myself, Young love...Just let her no your thinking of her hunny and cant wait to see her, There is no rule I dont think as everyone is different..I had a guy who used to txt me like 15 times aday oh boy HELP!!!!So just go with the flow hunny, I dont think its women as much as mobile phones that is the problem, Take them away and your problem is halved...TAKE CARE SWEETHEART WITH LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXX
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reader, Deema +, writes (12 April 2008):
 How often do you feel like calling her in a day? Its all down to that. You just do what you feel. If you feel like calling her 10 times a day and she really fancies you she'll be thrilled, but if she doesn't she won't respond, so you'll soon know. Theres no hard and fast rule. Its down to you and how you feel. Good luck.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (12 April 2008):
 I think this question can't have the same answer for everyone. Some women will want more than one text a day, and others will not. I guess you will have to start with little and find the comfort level for her, not for you. The caller, man or woman, will have to adjust to the comfort of the person receiving the call, with a certain "tolerance", of course, meaning that perhaps she will be called more often that she would like but less often than you would want, or viceversa.
This is not your question, but I think that no person in this world has only one "problem". It seems like you expect a "technique" or a "methodology" to deal with women. I'm not sure a relationship can be reduced to "do this and you will get that".
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reader, sarah_s +, writes (12 April 2008):
 There's no limit. You can call her anytime of the day or night as long as you don't go too far as it could be distracting for the person. Although, if you both do love the company in each other's present even when you can't see each other there is no harm to communicate within the phone. That's just to show you or they care.
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reader, oldbiker +, writes (12 April 2008):
 Hi,It can be difficult to know how often to call, it can be overdone and she feels swamped. It may help if you tell her that you'll call her tomorrow and assuming she says OK, then make sure you do. Keep on this line on each call, say that you'll call, making sure that it's OK with her to do so. If you do set up a routine, make sure you stick with it. If there's some reason that you can't, make sure she knows why. If your calls are too often for her, she should let you know. You have to play it by ear, but don't ignore her. Best of luck.Oldbiker
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reader, korculan queen  +, writes (12 April 2008):
Mate if you like a woman call her as often as you like. My current partner and I are going through a rough patch thanks to his ex meddling in our lives and I just really love hearing his voice. If a girl is smitten with you then the more you call her the more she knows you like her. I am not saying call her 20 times a day as this may be stalking but maybe call her monday text her a good night on tuesday call her wednesday make plans to get together and have a long chat text her thursday and see her friday. Whatever mate but go with your heart cause life is too short to waste time.
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