Is it a good idea to get her a going away gift before she leaves for Australia for 5 months?
Q. Me and this girl have been hanging out quite a bit recently. I got her number at a party a few weeks ago and weve talked a few times and hung out a couple but just recently been going over to her house, she invited me to a hockey game with her, and ...
A. 9 February 2010: Gifts like the one you mentioned are given by everybody.
You need to be unique and unpredictable.
Girls her age are often given the same things and that does not make you different from what others.
I am sure u can think of something u... (read in full...)
Copy of my ex and his new girl's conversations... can I get some opinions?
Q. Ok so this is a copy of what my boyfriend said to his new girlfriend just 2 months into there relationship. AND it is all the things he said to me but it took us time to build to these things and thats how they came to have such meaning. Anyw...
A. 8 February 2010: Well lets make it short and sweet. Some guys have pick up lines and then there are these lines are said after a few days of being together.
By now your ex thinks of himself as a player after tasting success with you, so he had opened one burger shop... (read in full...)
I've tried everything for 2 years and I STILL can't get over my ex!
Q. ok, so let me start off by saying what i've already tried. and this isn't to bash anyone's ideas or advice because trust me i really need them. I've tried hanging out with friends, visiting family. i even moved back in with my mother and am going ...
A. 8 February 2010: I understand exactly how you feel about your ex.
However, what I don't understand is why he is being apologetic and calling himself a jerk and then still not responding to your overtures.
Its time you asked yourself whether you really want ... (read in full...)
Did I deserve to be treated like this?
Q. This is my story. I came to know a girl by wrong number(she is 20 year), slowly we stared to like each other and she used to share everything to me( im 26)..i was feeling good ,she used to talk to me daily for 1-2 hours and i asked many time that ...
A. 28 January 2010: Hi, This Life is a very big, we meet a lot of new people everyday and some are good and some bad. As Human beings, God has given us the power to decide with whom we want to stay. However, you chose to stay with someone who may be pretty from outside ... (read in full...)
Can't handle girlfriend's sexual past!
Q. Alright. So I've been dating my girlfriend for 3 months. She's wonderful. I believe I'm in love with her. I'm 25, she's 21. At the beginning of our dating, I asked her how many guys she had been with. The number she told me shocked me. She said, and ...
A. 24 January 2010: I think when she is telling you everything, it clearly means take it or leave it and You Sir, have taken it. Which means now either be in an open relationship with her for the rest of your life, where u know that while you are working, you gf may be ... (read in full...)
Does this shy girl like me/
Q. There is this shy girl, who is the sister of one of my best friends, who lately seems to be showing some interest in me. I know she liked me in the past because one time she kissed me and said “I love you”. However, that was at least six years ago ...
A. 24 January 2010: Looks like you have a case here. It seems that this girl was trying to give you the bait and you did not take it. I can also see that most of your scenes are like from a silent movie, which means no dialogues or very less.You should start talking ... (read in full...)
In love with my manager but he has moved in with girlfriend
Q. So I love this boy and he was my manager. He is 25 and I am 24. Two years ago, he started working at the theatre since he replaced our previous manager that just got fired. In the beginning, we didnt really talk, the only time we even spoke was a ...
A. 23 January 2010: It seems you have taken mild office flirtations for love. You know this manager has his gf since 7 years and although there are ups and downs in his relationship he seems to be handling it quite well.Mild office flirtations often happen(even with ... (read in full...)
My b/f says he doesn't know what he feels for me
Q. My boyfriend says he doesn't know what he feels for me and needs to see me to help him decide. I went overseas and he had to move back to his hometown cos he lost his job. We had discussed we could manage a long distance relationship cos...
A. 23 January 2010: Your bf seems to have ongoing financial issues which are constantly on his mind, causing him to become a little unbalanced.The Low Self Esteem issues have to be rectified first and the earlier he work on this, the better for both of you.From what ... (read in full...)
How do you knock back a friends advances without losing the friendship?
Q. There's this boy in my year at school. We're good friends, but he's always hugging me and saying "Wuv you," and telling me how gorgeous I am and flirting with me... He hasn't actually asked me out yet, but, all my other friends think he will so...
A. 23 January 2010: Tell him the age old line:-)"You are a really nice person but at this point of time I am not looking at relationship material in you, but yeah you are one of my most cherished friends and I sincerely hope you won't break our friendship and continue ... (read in full...)
Is he over me now that he took my virginity?
Q. Ive been seeing a guy for about 8 months now, from the start he has been chasing me. he is 26 and i have just turned 20. We both have a lot in common and are comfortable around each other. we see each other as often as we can (3-4 times a week)and ...
A. 23 January 2010: Hi Princess, Your guy seems to be a caring person and I am sure he would not be over with you just yet. However, do understand that you have indeed managed to scare him a bit but remember he was scared not to hurt you in any way. So try to be ... (read in full...)
Dry and unable to orgasm. How can I fix it?
Q. dear sir/madam i was just wondering why im so dry when me and my sex partner have sex and why is so hard for me to cum. can somebody please give a suggestion wat i can do bout my situation....
A. 23 January 2010: Both you and your partner should concentrate more on foreplay. The longer the foreplay, the better the chances of you getting wet. Remember the mind controls all your acts....so feel it in your mind before you make your body work:-)... (read in full...)
He says he stayed with ex for his son. I don't understand why.
Q. Hi I need to know wether I am being a idiot or if its normal to feel how I do. My boyfriend has a son from a previous relationship and this situation is hard but we have a agreement regarding the visits. But my boyfriend has told me about the rel...
A. 23 January 2010: Your Boyfriend seems tired of his ex gf and seems to be looking for some new action which seems to be you. He is trying to justify his actions by speaking about his son. He may have become tired of her for many reasons mainly she may have gained ... (read in full...)
Can someone get pregnant without sexual intercourse?
Q. Hey, I'm pretty much messed up right now and way too worried. I'm still a virgin as I have not had sexual intercourse yet. However, the other day I was lying on bed with my boyfriend and we were playing around, we had our underwear on and...
A. 23 January 2010: No you won't get pregnant.Don't worry about it anymore.... (read in full...)
Virginity question
Q. Hi, I am in a relationship with a great guy,love him to bits. The problem is we had sex a while ago for the first time and we both said it was our first time. The thing is I had dated another guy (for like 2 years) before going out with the...
A. 23 January 2010: Hi, Do u play any sports? Go Trekking? Physical excercise or Work out? Ride Horses?(The Real Ones)or any other strenerous physical activity? If yes then there is an 80% chance that you lost your virginity doing any of the above. Regarding your ex ... (read in full...)
I'm attracted to my stepson.
Q. I'm 38 years old and married to an older man - he's 50. It's his second marriage and he's got 2 kids from his previous marriage. Over the past few months my attraction to my stepson has grown tremendously. We flirt a lot to the point it could be ...
A. 23 January 2010: Maybe you should really talk to him about your needs and maybe he might just give you permission to have an affair outside your family. But please spare your stepson.... (read in full...)
Guilt over not calling a friend the night before she died
Q. Again, I have another non relationship-related question, but I love the advice, so I figured I'd ask. On october 23rd of 2009, a dear friend passed away from ALS. I saw her for the last time ever on the 3rd of october, My last promise to her w...
A. 23 January 2010: Dear Evol, Remember your friend wanted to make the situation easier for you. By making it difficult for yourself, you are hurting her as she can still see you from her heavenly abode. Death is not the end. There is another world beyond this world ... (read in full...)
I'm giving off 'stay away' vibes to guys and want to change that
Q. I am a confident girl and I'm having trouble seeing why guys are not attracted to me. They never approach me or bother to look at me twice. However, the guys are not solely to blame. I will admit that I am intimidated by the opposite sex and it's ...
A. 23 January 2010: Work on yourself-Smile more, be natural and most important be yourself.If you had bad experiences in the past think that you paid off the bad karma of your past life:-)Look towards the future and dont be judgemental about anyone and especially about ... (read in full...)
I think its time I raised the subject of sex with my girl, but unsure how to do it!
Q. What would be a good way to bring up having sex to mu gf? We have been together for well over a year now. We have gone as far as dry humping with only our underwear on. So what would be a good way to bring up the topic of sex to her?...
A. 23 January 2010: The Older the whisky the superior the taste.Well I am not telling you to catch older women here:-)You should wait until you are 18 and it will not only be legal but also you will enjoy much more. Meanwhile you may use your hands to release your ... (read in full...)
He's my best friend, but I don't feel any love for him anymore. What should I do?
Q. Hi, I'm with my fiance for the last 3 yrs and everything was going okay...but never great. We never argue, we like the same things and i know he loves me very much. But i dont know if i love him as much as he does. I love him, but I'm not IN love ...
A. 23 January 2010: Glad I could be of assistance. Just 2 SMALL Fights in 3 Years is really boring:-)Its time to wake up and smell the coffee....look around and see how people are fighting like cats & dogs, cheating husbands & wives, flaring tempers and the works-read ... (read in full...)
Does she want a relationship or not?
Q. about two months ago, i went out with this girl for few weeks (btw we're both 19) and it seemed to be going well until she told me she 'wasn't ready for a relationship'. so we broke up and sort of drifted apart and stopped speaking. then suddenly, i ...
A. 22 January 2010: Shes wants to have the cake and eat it too:-)Which means she considers you as a good friend for now and maybe a boyfriend on the waiting list for later(Well not as long as someone else comes along).If you are ok with it, play along, dont try to hard ... (read in full...)
Should I confess everything to my husband?
Q. i am a wife n a mother. i have been married for the last 5yrs. my husband has gone for offshore job for 2-3 months. last sunday i had sex with my brother-in-law. from that time i am really feeling guilty. should i confess everything to my husband?...
A. 22 January 2010: It seems that you have some sort of enemity with your husband.1st you decieve him and then you tell him about it so that he can forgive you and so that you no longer feel guilt even at the expense of causing bad relations with his brother in the ... (read in full...)
He's my best friend, but I don't feel any love for him anymore. What should I do?
Q. Hi, I'm with my fiance for the last 3 yrs and everything was going okay...but never great. We never argue, we like the same things and i know he loves me very much. But i dont know if i love him as much as he does. I love him, but I'm not IN love ...
A. 22 January 2010: Hey Wake Up, this guy is the guy who keeps showing his affection, Loves you a lot, I assume buys you gifts & flowers, does as per your whim and fancies.....!Then why would you want to leave him....?
THE ANSWER is you liked all this when it was new,... (read in full...)
Should I let her back in my life?
Q. Hey. Heres the story... I have a friend lets call her *K* and we have been really close for just over 4 years. In september we moved up to college, and she was doing a diploma and i was doing A-levels. We didnt see each other as often but we still ...
A. 22 January 2010: 1stly do this small excercise..Slap Yourself hard whenever you hear u calling yourself a Nobody.
Nobody is a nobody in this world...every human being has a unique quality about him or herself.Even the most dyslexsic
(I dont care if this is a spelli... (read in full...)
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