What do you Scottish/English guys think of us American gals?
Q. Hello I'm moving to Scotland... Just wandering about you scottish/english guys out there... what do you think of American girls? How do American and Scottish women differ? and... is there anything I should know about Scottish/English ...
A. 13 December 2008: we are whatever you make of us, although our accent gets veeeery boring after a while (English and especially Scottish!!!) kidding......... i think American girls are the same as any other girls to be honest, i have no reason to think otherwis... (read in full...)
Does dildo take away virginity?
Q. I need to know if you already masturbated with a dildo but u didn't bleed at all does that mean you are still a virgin? Help please!...
A. 10 December 2008: yes you are still a virgin in the definitionof the word but it sometimes does depened on your own view of virginity. Dont worry about it... (read in full...)
Any techniques that will help me last longer?
Q. Hey there, I just wanted to ask you guys if you knew any tips or techniques on how to make sex and masturbation last longer. It doesn't take me very long to cum, and I was wondering what I could do to lengthen the pleasure. ...
A. 5 December 2008: Well with masturbaton i think thats a bit redundant, i think the best thing about masturbation is you are alot more free to stop and start again so you dont have to finish as soon as you feel the urge!
with sex you should masturbate (or let your... (read in full...)
I always have to have a boyfriend because I'm lonely and unloved if I don't.q
Q. Hi, yeah I'm pretty young and I have this huge problem that affects me a lot and I need some help. I guess you could say that I always have to have a boyfriend because I'm lonely without one and I just don't feel loved. But the thing is...I haven't ...
A. 4 December 2008: lonleyness is a normal human feeling, we all feel it at some point. Nerves you will get over.
and by the way whats the rush, im 18 and havent had a girlfriend since i was 14!
im not lonely! of course i am sometimes but i accepet that it ... (read in full...)
Should I shave my pubic hair for a first time fingering?
Q. im a fourteen year old girl, and today a boy asked me if id like him to finger me. i think i would, but i feel self conscious because i have very small boobs, only a 34AA/A. also, my friends say they shave all their pubic hair, but i dont. i dont ...
A. 4 December 2008: hmmmmm tough one to answer but............ i know this sounds creepy but i went through a stage of experimenting with shaving down there when i was younger and as long as you dont mind a little bit of itchiness i think its ok..................and ... (read in full...)
How do I REALLY pleasure him?
Q. I'm a virgin.. my boyfriend isn't. I know what to do.. but not how to really pleasure him like he does me. I want to make it good for him too.. e.g.; like I know how to touch him but what would he really like?? Sorry if that's a little graphic ...
A. 2 December 2008: First talking to him about what you like helps, but really its expirence that will help you find out what you both like. Dont be too shy, he will like that... (read in full...)
Will her tightness go away?
Q. Well this is kind of a reply to this question I asked a week ago http://www.dearcupid.org/question/will--my-true-feelings-interfere-with-us.html . Things have been going great with her after our first date we hit it off and this sunday we were ...
A. 2 December 2008: mate i had the same problem exept when i had sex for the first time it was 2006 and i did it once and regreted it, i aint had any for aaaages.......... i felt the same way then but i cannot say anymore as i have no more to say... (read in full...)
What do call clean sex & dirty sex??
Q. In sex,what do call a clean sex and dirty sex?? Does blowjob/licking a girl's vagina important in sex? ...
A. 26 November 2008: there is nothing wrong with oral, anal or any kind of forplay/sex that you want to do. The only thing would be too make sure you both want to and 100% enjoy it. dont let people put sex into catagories, clean and dirty sex are whatever you want them ... (read in full...)
Does anyone out there have any pointers on courting a girl whom you really like?
Q. Back in August this insanely hot girl who kept smiling at me came into the store where I work and I didn't ask for her number, but another guy who also works there asked and she gave it to him. For months I've been wallowing in regret thinking of ...
A. 26 November 2008: Treat her as you would like to be treated.
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Am I just being too anxious here?
Q. Well, I have been dating this girl for a month now, we hang out a lot, and we have a great time together. We are at the point where we will greet each other with a kiss and leave with a kiss, we give each other massages and fool around a little ...
A. 26 November 2008: Maybe the problem is that you need to speak to her more about these things. Dont be anxious, she may feel the same way. Just enjoy it as much as you can, i think that is the most important thing.
xx... (read in full...)
I keep hearing my parents having sex and it puts me off! What to do?
Q. I need some advice, I keep hearing my parents having sex and it's driving me mad, I know it's natural and all that but it is freaking me out. It's actually putting me of sex. And why do they always go to the toilet once they have finished???...
A. 25 November 2008: yeah uncle phil isnt the best guru of advice. eventually your parents wont be having as much sex as they used to or you will live somewhere else. dont worry, i used to hate it too but i hear nothing now. If they want to have sex i dont think they ... (read in full...)
I'm so skinny and I hate it! What can I do to gain some weight?
Q. Im so skinny and i hate it. Im a 15 year old girl, 5ft4, and weigh about 6stones 9pounds. I hate being soooo skinny. I eat sooo much and im stil the skiny stik i alwayz have been. People can make such horible comments. 1)Erghhh, your arms a...
A. 25 November 2008: well you are underweight.
the worst thing you could do is too start trying to put on weight by doing what unhealthy people do, some people are naturally skinny but if you are underweight you should really talk to your parents about it. the inte... (read in full...)
Does it hurt the boy to have sex for the first time?
Q. ok i have a few questions about sex does it hurt a boy when they hav sex for the 1st time and does it really really hurt for a girl?? my second question is when you bleed when you have sex for the first time would it be embarrasing because ...
A. 25 November 2008: well they have all said all the answers but please for god sake dont do it unless you are really 100% sure you want to and that you will atleast not regret it! Talk about it with him, its like alot of things. The more you know the better.
i am ... (read in full...)
Why do so many men have double standards?
Q. Why do so many men have double standards? My b/f is always clicking on sexy videos of hot females in his free time, a habit which greatly annoys me. So I decided one day to simply set up my own account and start watching sexy videos of hot men. He ...
A. 25 November 2008: When you say "Why do so many men have double standards?" don't you mean why does my boyfriend have double standards? I am really upset at how men are seen in this light, I would always ask a girl if she was all right with that sort of thing first. ... (read in full...)
My husband is obese and isn't willing to diet or exercise, what should I do?
Q. My husband is obese and isn't willing to diet or exercise, what should I do? He is not willing to seek outside help, doctors said our sexless marriage is because of his weight, as being obese reduces a man's libido, also he suffers from sleep ap...
A. 22 November 2008: well if he did exercise he liked then you will be surprised, even though its very expensive, sking is very fun and keeps you very lean.
if he wants to then get him to join a boxing club (non contact) and the weight will fall off. i am only 18 ... (read in full...)
There are things my boyfriend does that upset me, am I too sensitive?
Q. Hello, I have been with my boyfriend for a year in febuary. Thursday night we we're on the phone talking about someon on the telly and he said what the one with masive boobs and I said yeah, how do you know shes got massive boobs and he said well ...
A. 22 November 2008: i dont know if im the only one but i would never dream of saying that to a girl who i really respected if she liked me the same way. my brother says things like that to his gf of 9 years and im i am always amazed at how someone could be that nasty. ... (read in full...)
What should I get my boyfriend of six months, for Christmas?
Q. What do i get my bf of 6 months for christmas? thanks!...
A. 22 November 2008: anything aslong as you mean to make him happy... (read in full...)
An anyone tell me what it means when a guy has "blue balls"?
Q. Dear Cupid - I'm in this wonderful relationship with my boyfriend (I'm a virgin, he's not, but it's not a problem for either of us). Although we're not having sex yet we often do things like dry humping, fingering me etc. And I just heard abo...
A. 21 November 2008: Well damn this "blue balls" thing sounds crappy, i hope it doesnt happen to me. ... (read in full...)
Just been dumped - how can I get him back?
Q. My boyfriend just dumped me about an hour ago. Wed been together nearly a month, he told me he loved me, got me to meet his mum, and his friends. We were fine 4 days ago, weve never argued, ever. Were both 17. He sent me this message: ok, this ...
A. 21 November 2008: well we all hate been dumped and i think that the only thing to do would be too give him time and then see how it goes. I think the worst thing you could do is rush back to him, given time you will be surprised what might happen. This happene... (read in full...)
I need advice regarding climaxing, can anyone help me?
Q. i just can't seem to cum,how do i?...
A. 19 November 2008: Im guessing you are not 22-25 and if you are then you should ask someone you trust about this cos you should really know by now i mean come on. if your alot younger then climaxing can be achienved in lots of ways, even sometimes when you dont want ... (read in full...)
I have no one to talk to... what is masturbation?
Q. ok well this is probably 1 of the hardest questions for me to ask anyone. so this is why i am asking everyone here i dont want to ask my friends or my parents because its embarrassing. what is masturbation? what is jacking off? how do i masturbate? ...
A. 17 November 2008: it can start in lots of different ways but basically it will mostly invole you using your hands o get sexually aroused by touching your genitals in any way that you want.
but as i say, it probobly wont start that way, i started of with rubbing ... (read in full...)
How can I stop bieng in denial and start feeling good about myself?
Q. I think i have very low self esteem and im sick of being in denial. Hello everyone, ill get straight to the point. lets say that someone compliments me for doing a good thing or achieving something. Most people would take this well and it woul...
A. 17 November 2008: hi thx alot and i must say that i already do boxing training, i try to go three times a week but recently i have been a bit lazy and my sleeping patterns have beeen terrible.
thx for the advice... (read in full...)
Can anyone give me tips on making my guy scream with pleasure in bed!?
Q. Well, another question... since I'm new in this thing called "SEX", I'm so curious, I've give my boyfriend blow jobs, normal thing I know, but the thing is that I don't feel like I'm giving him enough pleasure, when he is doing it to me I'm desperat...
A. 29 June 2008: how about talking and telling him sexy things while you are doing it, i am sure you can figure out what.
also if u make noises then he might... (read in full...)
Can I get an STD from giving a blowjob?
Q. Hi, I gave my boyfriend a blow job. Is there possibility of getting an std? We have had sex but I'm just wondering about blowjobs and how you can prevent getting these. ...
A. 29 June 2008: you will be surprised to know that their is a condom which actually goes in your mouth, i wouldnt advise using a normal condom though. lol... (read in full...)
Can I get an STD from giving a blowjob?
Q. Hi, I gave my boyfriend a blow job. Is there possibility of getting an std? We have had sex but I'm just wondering about blowjobs and how you can prevent getting these. ...
A. 27 June 2008: YES .... (read in full...)
Do all men manipulate you when you are vulnerable?
Q. I have found in two long term relationships with men that as I get to know them and I start to talk more openly about my feelings and vulnerable aspects of my thoughts or personality they use those very things to either undermine me in an argument ...
A. 27 June 2008: i dont manipulate anyone and never will.
but then again i am only young and dont know about relationships properly yet... (read in full...)
I'm a virgin and I want to have sex with my boyfriend. How can I relax?
Q. I am 24 years old and still a virgin. I have recently decided that i am ready to have sex with my long time boyfriend. We have tried once and I freaked out. I couldn't relax and kept moving my legs and hips! I am just so scared that it is going ...
A. 27 June 2008: Why not just forget about the sex and enjoy the moments of being together. I know this sounds cheesy but you could go out to somewhere beautifull and just enjoy that place, i know that if you are not thinking to hard about it, then you are not ... (read in full...)
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