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female
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30-35,
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writes:My boyfriend just dumped me about an hour ago. Wed been together nearly a month, he told me he loved me, got me to meet his mum, and his friends. We were fine 4 days ago, weve never argued, ever. Were both 17. He sent me this message:ok, this is unfair, i need to get this over with.i dont think i can keep up this relationship. i still love you, but im just not ok with having a relationship with anybody at the moment. i have been hurt so many times that i dont think i can take that again, so i need to ask you if we can just be friends. im really sorry about this, it hurts, but i dont want to be unfair to you, i shouldnt be going out with you if i know i cant do it. im really really sorry about all this. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxIs there anything I can do to get him back? I literally cant stop crying. Please help :[ Reply to this Question
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reader, ryandude18 +, writes (21 November 2008):
 well we all hate been dumped and i think that the only thing to do would be too give him time and then see how it goes. I think the worst thing you could do is rush back to him, given time you will be surprised what might happen. This happened for a reason and you should understand why first, you still sound a tiny bit unsure about why it happened.
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reader, O Connor  +, writes (21 November 2008):
 ok well you have only been going out with the guy a month! no offence but that relationship sprinted ahead of wat it should be. to be honest i wouldnt be surprised if that is wat scred him off - the 'love you's' the meeting the parents etc etc. if i were you though i would move on from this guy - any guy who thinks its ok to dump somebody over a text is not worth crying over. he obviously didnt care enough to do it in person knowing that a text is the most hurtful way.
you're still very young and have plenty of time to cry over the ones that really meant something. its time to put that short month of your life away and get on with the next one.
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reader, -NothingLasts4ever- +, writes (21 November 2008):
 It depends if you wanna make yourself happy or make your [ex]boyfriend happy.If you wanna make yourself happy then just talk to him, say you wanna be with him, tell him you love him and everything else like that.If you wanna make him happy, just accept it. Some thing just aren't meant to be. At least he was honest with you and didn't string you along.Look on the bright side, he asked to stay friends. He could have said I never wanna talk to you again so don't even try it. At least you should be able to stay in contact with him. xxx
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