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I have no one to talk to... what is masturbation?

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Question - (17 November 2008) 6 Answers - (Newest, 18 November 2008)
A age 30-35, anonymous writes:

ok well this is probably 1 of the hardest questions for me to ask anyone. so this is why i am asking everyone here i dont want to ask my friends or my parents because its embarrassing. what is masturbation? what is jacking off? how do i masturbate? im well i guess u can say im very shy. im so scared to ask my mom because shes a female and i cant ask my dad because well lets just say he isnt around or available to see or talk to. he passed away when i was 8. can someone please help me?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2008):

Get hold of some porn. It explains EVERYTHING.

But always remember that Porn is the extremes of sex. Rarely is it as vigorous or as hardcore at it would have you believe.

Somtimes it is, but mostly its not.

Flynn 24

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A female reader, aunty_rach United Kingdom +, writes (18 November 2008):

if you are not 100% about stroking your penis to start of with, maybe just start rubbing your groin against a pillow or something. then start to rub it with your hand. you will learn what you like and will eventually enjoy the whole experience.

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A female reader, TasteofIndia United States +, writes (17 November 2008):

TasteofIndia agony auntI am penisless, but I'm still clear on how jacking off goes.

Close your eyes and imagine kissing someone you like, or a celebrity that you think is beautiful. Steal one of your Mom's Victoria's Secret magazines and use that as some inspiration. Tease your penis until it begins to get hard. Then you grip it and move your hand up and down or whatever stimulation feels good to you. It's best if you use some sort of lubrication - lotion works, baby oil, or some good ol' saliva.

Once you successfully do it once, you will have no more questions, my sweet. You'll absolutely get the hang of it and figure out what you like best. Don't feel embarrassed and have fun!

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A male reader, ryandude18 United Kingdom +, writes (17 November 2008):

ryandude18 agony auntit can start in lots of different ways but basically it will mostly invole you using your hands o get sexually aroused by touching your genitals in any way that you want.

but as i say, it probobly wont start that way, i started of with rubbing against stuff. Dont be ashamed of this, alot of people do.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 November 2008):

its basicly touching your self in a way that makes you sexually aroused.

http://www.menshealthwire.org/f-22197-How-do-i-masterbate--Seriously.html

if this doesnt help try googling it yourself.

good luck!!

XOXOXO

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 November 2008):

Its kinda hard to describe.. Do you know roughly what it is? Its pretty much when you get an erection and stimulate ur penis until you ejaculate, its often done with porn (sexual pictures or videos)

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