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writes:I don't know about you guys but there are some questions I see time and time again. How 'bout we answer some of those questions right here and hope that anyone about to post the same question has a quick look at the articles first?1. Why won't he leave his wife? (and vice versa for men seeing married women) because you are at his beck and call! He can pick you up and put you down whenever he pleases. Get some self respect and find a man (or woman) of your own instead of hanging around for someone elses.2. What's it like to be a teen mum? Bloody hard work! Go have a baby at 16 and you'll be the one answering this question in a couple years advising the next young girl that wants a cute little baby not to do it.3. Not ready for sex? Then don't do it. You WILL regret it. Your classmates are NOT all at it despite what they say and any boy/girl that puts pressure on you is not worth your time and you should walk away and put it down to a lucky escape.4. Partner making your life a misery? controlling/abusive/jelous? Don't ask us the question, ask yourself what you're still doing there allowing yourself to be walked all over.5. Why is he being distant? Talk to him! We are not inside his mind, we can't possibly know the answer only speculate and we could be wrong wrong wrong. Communication is key.6. He won't marry you? If you're thinking of walking because your partner won't marry you then you have to ask yourself if marriage in general is more important to you than being with the person you have right now.7. In love with your teacher? Don't tell him, he doesn't have feelings for you. Enjoy it for the crush that it is and focus on getting out there so you can meet someone your own age.8.
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (30 January 2011):
 28. I want to have sex with my brother/sister in law! It's evident that you are married to the wrong brother/sister. Proceed to file for divorce and make your move on the other sibling. However, be prepared to be shunned by all of your former in laws.
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reader, Miamine +, writes (29 January 2011):
 27) CHALLENGE!!!!! Cultural rules overturn
Better make sure you and your cousin are British and are currently living in the UK... then go have some fun.
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reader, fi_the_tree +, writes (28 January 2011):
 25. My ex is with my best friend!! How do i cope? : You bin off your so called mate. He/she clearly doesn't think much of you as they jumped into bed with your ex, simple!!!
26. Can i get an STI from having sex? Yes, you can. Always use protection, unless you want to pick up something nasty. There are plenty of websites around with trusted information on STI's and their symptoms, do some research and i reckon you'll be so shocked by the nasty stuff that you'll refuse to get jiggy until he puts a condom on!!!
27. I'm in love with my cousin!!! Dude, incest is just wrong...
Just thought i would have some input there...
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reader, Miamine +, writes (27 January 2011):
22. How can I convince my wife/girlfriend to have a threesome (if she said no already, then leave her alone cause she aint interested. Please stop watching so much porn)
22b. Will a threesome break up my relationship (they usually do, but some rare individuals out there can sometimes make them work) Not worth the bother, the odds are against you.
23. Why does my boyfriend/husband look at porn. (please use the search function because we aunts and uncles are fed up with arguing)
24. How can I get my FWB to fall in love with me (you signed the wrong contract, you should have asked for boyfriend for love, not friend for sex. No exchanges allowed.)
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reader, Odds +, writes (27 January 2011):
 - 18(b) No teeth.
- 18(c) If he's not eating you out, too, something's wrong. Talk to him.
19. Should I tell him/her about my past? Tell them precisely what they ask for. Do not volunteer anything, do not lie. If they don't like the answer, they're not the one for you.
20. Why can't I meet anyone? You're either not going out enough, not approaching new people when you go out, or you're going to the wrong places. Figure out what you want, and where that type of person would hang out.
21. We don't have sex often enough anymore, what's wrong? Try initiating sex sometime. Talk to them. Do something romantic once in a while. Go out together once in a while, instead of just trying out of the blue every night like clockwork.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (25 January 2011):
17. Should I get an abortion? No one on here can answer that question. The only person that can answer that is you. This one you really need to use your brain on.
18. How do I give a BJ? Pretend it's the best popsicle, or lollipop you've ever eaten. There's no such thing as a bad blow job.
19. I can't get past my girlfriend/boyfriend/husband/wife's past! There is an article on here devoted to "Retrograde Jealousy". Go up to the right and search it.
Really what it comes down to is that you either accept that you asked the loaded question in the first place and found out that your women/man has a very sexual past and get over it. Or you break it off, and seek the virgin you are looking for.
Now if you're married and then you ask this loaded question, don't you think this is something you should have asked from Day 1 of dating? Although I suggest marriage counseling to see if that will help you with your retroactive jealousy, maybe a little individual for yourself, and if that doesn't work then it looks like a divorce is next.
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reader, rouge +, writes (25 January 2011):
 Great post, you seem to know what your talking about. cheers;)
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reader, sammi star +, writes (22 January 2011):
sammi star is verified as being by the original poster of the question Aw thank you! I honestly can't remember what number 8 was going to be but I'm sure it's been covered by the other fantastic answers :)
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reader, Abella +, writes (22 January 2011):
 fantastic answers from everyone. I am so delighted now that I have read all the other fantastic suggestions. Sammi Star this has to be one of THE stand out posts. I love it. V v v good
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reader, Abella +, writes (22 January 2011):
fantastic post!
And number eight was ?
Every item you listed was spot on
Girls could also be encouraged to check the signs on ''is he a player?'' by reading the superb Articles on same in DC
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reader, sammi star +, writes (22 January 2011):
sammi star is verified as being by the original poster of the questionaccidentally posted this before I was done! I'm glad you're all adding your own though, keep 'em coming!
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (22 January 2011):
16. I'm a teen (13-17) who just found out I'm pregnant, what do I do? Tell your parents, they're the ones who will help you figure out what to do. No, you and your boyfriend can't put your heads together to try to sort this mess out on your own. You were irresponsible in not using contraceptives(and in some case having underage sex), now be responsible and tell your parents.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (22 January 2011):
 15. If you haven't met in person, your relationship isn't yet truly tested. Don't keep yourself on a shelf for a fantasy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2011): 14. We had sex and now he doesn't call any more. Is he just busy?No, he got what he wanted and isn't in to you.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (21 January 2011):
 11) He has slapped me /punched me / shoved me around... but it was the first time.. he says he's sorry and won't happen again, should I give him another chance ?
No.No ! NOOOOOO!....What part of " NO " you don't understand ?...
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reader, dirtball +, writes (21 January 2011):
 11. Am I Pregnant? Take a test and see your doctor
12. Is my penis big enough? The average is just under 6 inches. Most women like average to slightly smaller or slightly larger. It really doesn't matter to anyone but you dude.
13. What present should I get my significant other? We don't know. How could we? We don't know the person. I know this usually only comes around christmas time, but it still applies to birthdays and what not. Shameless self plug: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/tis-the-season.html
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (21 January 2011):
8. Does he/she like me? Just because they stare/look at you isn't a sure indicator that they like you. We're not mind readers, and we have no idea who this person is. If you want to know, you're going to have ask the direct source, or find out from his/her friends.
9. What is this lump/bump/rash/spot/ on my limb/private area/breast (etc)? We are not licensed medical professionals, we have no idea what it is. Consult your GP/doctor, they didn't go through years of medical school for nothing.
10. How do I get my ex back? You don't. It really depends on the nature of the breakup. If they dumped you and told you it was never going to happen again, then they're being serious. If there was cheating, abuse going on in your relationship then there's not a chance for you to rekindle this. They've got a new boyfriend/girlfriend, don't even try it. So what do you do? You move on too.
I will say in special cases where the break up ended on a good note, there was no lying, cheating, stealing, cheating..say you two just grew apart. Then I say a nice love letter would do the trick. But do remember you can't force your ex fall back in love/like with you again.
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