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I attend a university and I'm a double major: spanish and japanese studies. I intend to teach english as a second language abroad. Awesome, yeah?
I randomly found this site, but I love it!
I'm pretty laid back and definitely open to befriending new people!
I live in U.S.A.
I cannot stand when people mock me
Right now, I'm kinda uninvolved. I dunno... it's complicated really.
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Q. Well I have a question about my bf. Well we had been dating for about a month or so and we fell for each other and soon after were having sex. The usual. Whatever. Anyways, one time I was at his house and I was sitting across from him on his couch ...
A. 28 August 2007: Girl that's normal. You just haven't caught any of the other guys doing it, but believe me they did. Don't be alarmed, your man just finds you really hot! You should revel in making his cheeks go red. haha... (read in full...)
I have been with a married man for 6 years, am I wasting my time?
Q. Hi I have been in a relationship with a married man for six years now. He and his wife were having probs when we met. Eventually he told her about us and she moved out of the house. After a year though she has now moved back in as the kids live...
A. 28 August 2007: There's really nothing I can say better than Mr. Duce here. So yeah, you've got some GREAT advice.
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My partner wants me to move in, but I am worried his damage runs too deep
Q. My partner and I have been together for 7 months. We have a great relationship and he wants us to live together, but I'm having some reservations. You see, he was in a very painful break up with a woman he was engaged to marry. She cheated on him ...
A. 28 August 2007: I'm sure he loves you. Just remember that he's really been hurt, and it does take a long time to heal. Continue showing him that you are a different, better woman for him and he'll come around. If a year rolls by (after you've moved in) and you've ... (read in full...)
I like this guy at work but there is an age gap and I dont know how how to approach him?
Q. Ok, so ive been stewing on this issue for quite some time, but now i think its time to ask for advice. I know this guy through the company i work for, we know of eachother's existence but refrain from speaking to one another. Now ive liked this guy ...
A. 27 August 2007: No it's not wrong for you to be attracted to an older man. A lot of women like an older man - he's more mature, usually accomplished, he provides stability... things like that; however, it is definitely not a good idea to try to get involved with ... (read in full...)
I'm 21 and want to ask out a 17 year old boy, is there anything wrong with this?
Q. I'm a 21 year old female and have a crush on a 17 year old boy. He acts very mature for his age and he has made it quite clear that he wants to hook up with me. Is there a problem with going for him?...
A. 27 August 2007: Yes if it's illegal. ... (read in full...)
I'm 25 and i keep losing my erection. Whats happening???
Q. Hi, I'm a 25 year old bloke and recently got my first serious girlfriend.I am also a virgin - well kind of. The problm is whenever we try and have sex i lose my erection. This has never been a problem during mastrubation!! This is really...
A. 26 August 2007: follow duce's advice!... (read in full...)
My brother sexually abused me as a child, will this affect my future relationship?
Q. How can i know that i'm ready for a sexual life with the one that i love if i tell you that i've gone through a sexual abuse when i was a child by someone so close to me, my brother. when i remember that i disgust sex ,do you think that i'll enjo...
A. 26 August 2007: How old were you two when this happened? Were you young children.. Or is he much older than you. I ask because children often experiment sexual contact with each other--even siblings, cousins, family in general. It's not uncommon;however if this was ... (read in full...)
Ive got stretch marks near my belly button. How can i get rid of them?
Q. dear cupid i would like to know do all fat people get stretch marks, and why are stretch marks growing next to my belly button and is their any way to get rid of them? plzz can you give me advice on if all fat people get them and why they are...
A. 26 August 2007: Pretty much, once you have them there's no way to rid them. They are permanent. Most you can do is buy some cocoa butter and put it on the other prone areas on your body that haven't developed them yet. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has opened a "man seeking woman" account in the Internet. We are planing to move together in December, should I confront him?
Q. Is is ok for my bf to open up a personal account "man seeking woman" on the internet? We've been dating 3 years on a long distance relationship, well we we lived together for a year and now he has moved away again (work related) a couple of months...
A. 26 August 2007: "I am starting to think that he does not love me, and that he just want to play around." Follow your instincts hunnie. This guy is drama. I say dump his ass. Confront him, because if you leave him he's going to want to know why. Tell him. Tell... (read in full...)
I lied to him in the past, now he doesnt treat me well!
Q. hello out there..my ? is this..we have been 2gether 2 yrs I love him, but i have lied in the past (not anymore) he says we are done. He knows the lies, for awhile i used drugs, i was caught by him, they were to take away the pain of him reje...
A. 26 August 2007: Get the hell outta there! Do you have any family? If not, file for financial aid. Seek professional care. Get yourself together. Get legit, and dump this dude. Your relationship has gone sour and there's probably no way to make it right again. Don't ... (read in full...)
I'm with the most wonderful guy yet i'm still not happy, why???
Q. why is it that i have the most wonderful man in the world and i am still not happy?...
A. 26 August 2007: You can't find happiness within other people. You yourself have to be happy. People should add to your happiness--not create it. ... (read in full...)
I love my guy but i want to cheat on him with an older man.
Q. I love my man but i love to cheat with an older greyer greeneyed man. He is well endowed and my guy isnt. Why am i attracted to older men? Im in my 30's He is in his mid forties-fifties ....
A. 26 August 2007: How old are you really? This sounds like a question a 15 year old would write. No one can truly answer exactly why you're attracted to "older, grayer, green eyed men." ... (read in full...)
He's set a date to leave his wife. But i'm paranoid he wont! Help with advice please..
Q. How do i stop loving this guy? I have been seeing this guy for a while, he is beautiful amazing funny.... married and my boss. His marriage has been troubled for a while, they have both had affairs. We are fantastic together and i do know he ...
A. 26 August 2007: Girl, this is insane! You've been seeing a married man who happens to be your boss? Is this for real? That was a huge mistake on your behalf, but since, in my opinion, hindsight is always 20/20, there's not much you can do about what's done. Firs... (read in full...)
My first serious relationship and shes great, but i crave being single again, help!
Q. Hello thanks in advance to anyone who can help me out with this. My girlfriend and I have been dating for a year and a half. I am 21, she is 22. It started off rocky, basically we wernt really "dating" and she took 4 months to choose between ...
A. 26 August 2007: Well you have to choose. You can't have her, be attached to her, and never want to break up with her, yet want to explore the bounds of opportunities you feel you are missing. That's not fair to her. So don't try to do both. First, make th... (read in full...)
I'm 13 and am wondering if i am a lesbian, I flirt with girls all the time, Is this normal?
Q. Hey , Please help me because I think Im a Lesbain. I like Boys and All but Recently Ive had Feelings for Girls!! Im 13 and had loads of boyfriends but I have feelings for other girls. Please help me because Im flirting with them all the time...
A. 26 August 2007: Yes it's normal to be attacted to the same sex at a young age. I do not think you are a lesbian, but even if you are bisexual, there's nothing wrong with that. You're at an age where your hormones are really starting to make you become more aware of ... (read in full...)
We had unprotected sex, I took the morning after pill, but i'm worried!
Q. I had unprotected sex with my boyfriend but i stopped us because i started to get worried. we're a long distance relationship too so he says since he hasn't come in a while he isnt sure if any precum was there or not. The following day i got the ...
A. 26 August 2007: No, if you took the morning after pill the day after you had intercourse with your boy friend, you should be fine. The pill throws off your period, but you should be getting it soon. As a precautionary note, you really should be having protected sex ... (read in full...)
I'm 14, is it normal for me to be so addicted to men?
Q. I'm 14 and addicted to men. This is embarassing, but I'm 14 and I'm addicted to watching men and get extremly turned on by them (the sexy ones). Sometimes I even see 2 sexy guys kissing on TV or something, and it feels really nice. I just lov...
A. 25 August 2007: Well, I don't get turned on by watching guys makeout, but that's me. But I do get turned on when I see hot celebs kicking ass in action movies! There's nothing wrong with getting excited over two cute men kissing though... or just men in general. ... (read in full...)
We argued a lot, and now she dumped me for someone else
Q. so there was this girl that i started to like but i kept it to myself and i found out she was keeping it to herself too. so we found each other after 8 months then we dated for 3 weeks, when we were alone we had so much compatible but when we were ...
A. 25 August 2007: If you're comfortable with possibly being rejected, maybe you should tell her how you really feel about her. Tell her you want to work things out. If you respect her and yourself though, you should keep your feelings to yourself---atleast until ... (read in full...)
I broached the subject of getting engaged to the father of my daughter and he said he never wanted engagement with anyone, his rejection hurt.
Q. My boyfriend of 3 and a half years has never discussed us getting engaged or married. He moved in with me when our 11 month old daughter was born. The other day i broached the subject of us getting engaged on her pending first birthday and we ended ...
A. 25 August 2007: I don't think he is ready for a real relationship with you. He may someday want to be with someone else, but from what you've said about his behavior, it seems as though he at least isn't ready to be fully committed to you. What does that tell you ... (read in full...)
What are these little bumps?
Q. I am worried that I might have something seriously wrong with me. Lately have been noticing that there are little bumps on my virgina. I am not sexually active so I dont know what it could be. what do you think it is and what should I do?...
A. 23 August 2007: it could even be acne! but if you're not sexually active at all--meaning you're not having oral, anal, intercourse... stuff like that--then it's probably just skin irritation. I think you should go see a gynecologist! ... (read in full...)
I can't stop bleeding since coming off the pill.
Q. I suddenly had to get off the pill and now I can't stop bleeding. It's been a week and a half with no sign of stopping. I can't go to the doctor as I am an American with no health insurance, so I just wanted to know if this is normal for when you ...
A. 23 August 2007: I don't think this is normal. I've been on and stopped taking the pill as well. The most I've had is just some spotting but it was never full on bleeding for more than a week. I really think you should go to a health clinic and ask a professional ... (read in full...)
In love with my online guy of two years, we live 20 minutes away but have yet to meet... ?
Q. Okay, so i started talking to this guy online roughly two years ago. He sent me a message, I replied, and then we started talking on instant messenger very frequently. We really clicked. (I was 18 when we first began talking. He was 23. Turns out, ...
A. 23 August 2007: Both of your responses make so much sense--and this is a real situation. My mother thinks the whole thing is ludicrous. But, I have seen maybe 30 pictures of him and a few videos, so i know he's not some 65 yr old dude or married or whatever. I ... (read in full...)
Still love my ex, going on holiday to get over him but now he's emailed me, what do I do?
Q. Please help. I broke up with my very long distance, long term boyfriend about 2 months ago. We parted on good terms, as in we still loved each other but realised it was never going to be possible to be together. It was the hardest thing I've ever ...
A. 23 August 2007: Your situation sounds a lot like the one i was in two years ago. At first, my boy friend and I lived in the same neighborhood, but then he ended up moving 2000 miles away. Anyway, we did the long distance relationship thing for 2 years--with short ... (read in full...)
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