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writes:so there was this girl that i started to like but i kept it to myself and i found out she was keeping it to herself too. so we found each other after 8 months then we dated for 3 weeks, when we were alone we had so much compatible but when we were with other people which we were a lot of the time we saw each other, for some reason we fought and we shouted. I felt alright with it afterwards, but when she broke up with me for this guy she met in camp when she called our relationship off we fought and i wanted to talk to her but she won't answer my instant messages. She also made me feel horrible the way she would talk about the guy at camp and how he treats her right. But she doesn't know that i really love her and do anything to get her back
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reader, Skeez  +, writes (25 August 2007):
 i agree with somewhat anonymous.
Your not in love sweety. Its been 3 weeks that you dated. your young and you two havent got to know each other enough yet. If shes being a nasty girl and telling you how perfect her new boyfriend is then, just ignore her. It sounds as though she just had a crush on you. probably with other guys too. Maybe she likes little bit of a fling now and again. You should save your love for someone else who will respect you and actually care for you.
Many people your age have gone through this. Many people your age have gone through 5 relationships. All of them possible not that great. One probably fantastic.
Dnt let her get to you. Shes not worth your love or your attention. Shell probably b single again in a matter of days.
If she is, ignore her. She really isnt worth your love.
Goodluck hun x x x x
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reader, somewhat_anonymous +, writes (25 August 2007):
Um, it's been three weeks, you're not in love. You don't even know her. You just want more, but you should just move on. You just still have anticipation of what this could have become and have strong feelings for the ideal you think she can be. But it didn't happen that way and you still wanted to. Let it go. You'll get over her.
Some times people put on different public faces, that can cause you to fight. Some times it is a show of power to try to rule the other or the relationship. You're too young to put up with that kind of crap and when you get older, you shouldn't put up with it either.
If she's saying all this crap about you and how her current boyfriend is better, let her go. Save your love for someone that will return it.
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reader, Reina +, writes (25 August 2007):
If you're comfortable with possibly being rejected, maybe you should tell her how you really feel about her. Tell her you want to work things out. If you respect her and yourself though, you should keep your feelings to yourself---atleast until she's single. If she's really in to him, she's not going to want to hear you tell her that you still want her. However, if she's just playing childish mind games with you and trying to make you jealous by talking about the other guy, I'd still say don't give in to her games. There are other fish in the sea. I say, chill with some other cute girls, and if you still like her one day and she's available, go for it.
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