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writes:Hi,I'm a 25 year old bloke and recently got my first serious girlfriend.I am also a virgin - well kind of. The problm is whenever we try and have sex i lose my erection. This has never been a problem during mastrubation!!This is really getting me down and i'd really appreciate some help please?!?!?!?Thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2007): i have the same prob man , i went to have sex with this girl i know , she gave me a bj and all and i was hard, when i put the condom on i lost my hardon , we tried 4 times and it still wasent doin its job
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reader, Reina  +, writes (26 August 2007):
follow duce's advice!
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reader, duce00 +, writes (26 August 2007):
 Ok..heres one guys adviceIve had this happen a few times before too (yes even in my 20's). Im 37 and I understand what was going on alot better now.#1 is being relaxed, confident and feeling good about sex and the person you are with. If I had alot of stress or I felt like crap it would show in the bed sometimes. When I was relaxed and confident it was absolutely F'n great for both of us. The problem is that you dont allways know when your not quite right. Youve got to take it easy and get youre head right before your Johnson is going to be your best friend. :)#2 Take care of your health!! Sure Ive had plenty of nights of too many drinks and alot of sex, but the BEST sex Ive had was with only a couple drinks at most. Smoking is bad too, it constricts your blood flow. Get some exercise!! It totally boosts your confidence and makes you able to do more encores. If your still having issues try a supplement called L-arginine, Ive used it just to enhance and it really did make a good thing better....uhh like WAY better!#3 Get right with your girl. I cant speak for other guys, but If me the woman Im with arnt on the same page for what ever reason it definately made sex less enjoyable or just non-existent. My experience is that sex is best after a great day together. Take a drive somewhere and have a nice lunch...take here for a walk...play Monopoly! It really doesnt matter, just spend time leading up to the evening creating some sexual tension and really enjoying eachother. Honestly this is probably the most important aspect.Hope all that helps!!Ohhh and PS: Your Johnson isnt the only part of your body that can please a woman. You should be skilled with your mouth and your hands. You would be surprised how much you can please a women with out ever taking your boxers off.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2007): Were you drunk when you were trying to have sex? Cause that WILL make you have trouble getting and keeping an erection. So try to do it sober.If it's not that maybe you are nervous? Or scared? Or trying too hard? I don't know. Um that's actually happened a couple of times to my bf even when he wasn't drunk. I think he wasn't drunk? But he is real sensitive and very serious about sex and he always blames me. He's like "aw but you're just not doing anything!" Or whatever. But I know how he is so I don't get offended. She turns you on right? It usually happens to my bf when he's drunk. OR hungover. But when he is sober I think it happens because he like wants sex so bad and he is thinking about it too much. I don't know, I think that is what it is. Do you guys get along well? The best sex I have ever had is with people I really like and get along well with. Maybe you don't really like her? I don't know. Maybe a guy can give you better advice.
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