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reader, DJ8433 +, writes (13 October 2007):
 Congratulations! May you have a terrific and happy life!
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reader, nancying +, writes (12 October 2007):
nancying is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the advice just to let everyone know we are now married.
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reader, Reina +, writes (26 August 2007):
You can't find happiness within other people. You yourself have to be happy. People should add to your happiness--not create it.
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reader, somewhat_anonymous +, writes (26 August 2007):
Perhaps you are looking for a challenge and don't know how to handle things when they go well for long periods of time. We're American. We know how to handle stress, we don't know how to live without it.
Perhaps you also have a fear of success. If you broke it off with him and went for the challenge, you'd realize what you had and want it back, yet you'd probably be comfortable always reaching for something more.
Remember the first Matrix movie? The main agent said that the original design for the Matrix was a world without pain or consequence, but the human mind rejected it and everyone woke up. It wasn't until pain and consequence were introduced that it worked. Think on this, as it holds much truth.
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reader, kenny  +, writes (26 August 2007):
 With the limited amount of information given here its very hard to say why you are still not happy. MAybe on the surface he is the most wonderful guy in the world, but the question is, is he the most wonderful guy in the world for you?.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2007): Um. gee I don't know. Well what is your life like? I mean why do you assume there should be any correlation between having a wonderful man and being happy? A man doesn't make a woman, jeez. If you are not happy for whatever reason you are just not happy no matter who is by your side. That's just a general fact. Get with the times, girl. So how do you feel about yourself? Do you like your job? Do you wish something were different about your life? Are finances worrying you? Is there something physical that you don't like about yourself? Do you wish you had more friends?Your guy is wonderful so that is not the problem. So obviously there is something going on with you personally that is troubling you. So find out what it is and work on fixing it.
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reader, DJ8433 +, writes (26 August 2007):
Are you happy with yourself? If the answer is no, then how can you be happy with anyone else? Get happy with you first, then look for someone to add to your life.
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