What can I do, my boyfriend raped me?
Q. help Im 16 and my boyfriend is 25 andw when we were in his car he drove far away and raped me and he keeps sayind and texting he'll do it agian when hes not busy.It hurts and hes mates say and have tried too have sex with me help!...
A. 15 October 2009: No man has the right to do that to you
you need to be brave and go tell you parents and then go to the police. delete his number. its a hard thing to do to say what has happened to you, but your going to have to do it hun otherwise like he said he w... (read in full...)
Is it wrong for a woman to ask a man out?
Q. I have another question, is it wrong for woman to ask man out on a date? Does it start a cycle of a woman taking the male role in the relationship?...
A. 8 October 2009: no i think its fine, a lot of girls are doing it now.
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Do guys want experienced girls?
Q. I was just wondering...do guys prefer girls that are sexually inexperienced or do they like girls with experience. i personally have no experience and my friends say that they do prefer girls like that but im not so sure. do any of you guys out ...
A. 5 October 2009: id say that more men prefer experienced girls but some men do prefer girls that aren't so they feel there in control and some just aren't sure how to handle girls.
as caringguy says: it depends on the man.
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Once we had sex he changed.Does he see me as nothing?
Q. Okay there is this guy that I really like. If you've read one of my similar posts I stated that he was ignoring me. I gave my virginity to him and afterwards he started ignoring me. I told him that I really liked him but he doesn't want to hear it. ...
A. 5 October 2009: he's using you, don't let any lad use you, delete his number don't have any contact with him.
he only talks to you when he wants sex
You deserve better, forget about him and find someone that cares about you and doesn't just want you for sex
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How do we get birth control pills without our parents finding out?
Q. So me and my best friend were talking the other day about birth control we relized that we both need to go on the pill but nether of us wants our parents to find out we would be dead. She's in a long term relationship and is talking about haveing ...
A. 3 October 2009: ha doesn't like condoms tell him to get stuffed if he says that to you,
you can get the pill without your parents knowing as its confidential. Go to your local clinic they will give you more information about the pill and also other types of birt... (read in full...)
LDR - what gift can make us closer from afar?
Q. I have been in a relationship with my BF for 2 years now . We plan on getting married after college. Right now I am currently in a long distance relationship with him. It's been 6 months, and I will be seeing him this New Year. I am far from him but ...
A. 3 October 2009: have a romantic meal and then maybe invite him back yours and watch a romantic dvd (:
or ask him what sort of things he likes or is there anything that he needs that he could have for his birthday.
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He pulled out and released on my rly rly rly thin PJ shorts, could I be pregnant?
Q. im new to this site but id really appreciate some advice here. ok so last night me and my boyfriend had sex. (im 16 hes 19 just by the way). we were at my house, and got in the mood so we started messing around and just ended up having sex. im not ...
A. 3 October 2009: theres a low chance but i suggest getting a pregnancy test just incase
good luck x ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my girlfriend's best friend!
Q. I am inlove with my girlfriends best friend and i realy don't know what to do. I once kiss her, which has makes me fall inlove with her more. What must i do?...
A. 29 September 2009: you must finish with your girlfriend as its not fair on her at all if she found out just think how she would feel if she found out.
sit down with her and tell her exactly what happened and that you are in love with her.
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The test came back negative but I still havent had my period! Am I pregnant or not?
Q. I have this amazing boyfriend when we together everything just feels so perfect. The problem Im having now is I don't know if Im pregnant or not. In july I got my period on the 20th of the month it lasted for about 5 days. Than in august I got my ...
A. 29 September 2009: i agree with caringguy, take another pregnancy test.
The same thing happened to me with my boyfriend, my period was a week late and has never been late before and i took a pregnancy test and came up negative, but my period started a couple of days... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is physically/emotionally hurting me but he doesn't think he is
Q. My boyfriend and i have been dating for almost two years now. when we first started dating he always wanted to touch me and love on me. later now in the relationship he keeps teasing/taunting me, he pokes me, hits me ( in the arms and legs), he ...
A. 29 September 2009: its not right for a boyfriend/husband to hit you, he sounds like he's trying to control you, he knows that you love him and don't want to leave him so he thinks that he can treat you how he wants. He will get worse the more you let him and will ... (read in full...)
G/f is messing about with 3 of us
Q. My Girlfriend is messing me about and has 3 other people she has feelings for i asked her where that left me and her relationship but she never gave me a proepr anwser wot do i do?...
A. 29 September 2009: end it, if she wanted to be with you should would have chosen you by now. You don't mess around with 3 people if your looking for a serious relationship. i agree with caringguy you don't want to be her doormat. finish it now before you get hurt. x... (read in full...)
Semen leakage normal?
Q. Whenever I get sexually aroused due to my girlfriend in university or wherever, a drop or two of semin from my penis leaks. Is that normal? I workout 2 hours every day and do not masturbate more than twice a month. I haven't done sex as well uptill ...
A. 29 September 2009: don't worry its normal, my boyfriend gets it (: if you are still worried go to your clinic or GP and get them to have a look at it. But im sure its normal. x... (read in full...)
How can I stop my boyfriend taking things too far?
Q. I am 13 and have a boy friend who is 15 ..... we have been together for 5 months and i really trust him .. a couple of nights ago we were kissing on the sofa and then he put his hands down the front of my pants ... i said not yet and he stopped ... ...
A. 20 July 2009: sit down with him and tell how youu feel about him taking things too far and that you really dont like it, say to him that your not ready for that sort of stuff yet.
if he loved you he should understand.
Good Luck x... (read in full...)
I can't get any girls to notice me!
Q. hi I'm a 14 year old male and I have a problem. I can't get any girls to notice me. every where I go even in my neighborhood there are pretty girls(even at church). I don't know how to act or approach them. that's why I can't ever get girlfriends. 1 ...
A. 20 July 2009: My boyfriends has a big nose lol but that hasnt stopped him gettin girlfriends obv as im with him. catch girls eyes and give them a smile, say hello if they look at you or walk past, be yourself, dont show off, some girls find it off putting. ... (read in full...)
Is this normal behaviour for a 14 year old girl?
Q. Is it normal for a 14 year old girl to sit on youtube for 20 minutes and watch sex scenes at least 2 times a week?? Cause I do this and I am feeling like I'm the only one!! Is this ok??...
A. 19 July 2009: ohh noo thats fine hun!
(i was the same sorta lol)
yer you can get sex sence on youtube, but you have to be 18 or over?
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Let it go? Or tell her of my feelings?
Q. OK so i Met this girl online we shes 17 today and im also 17. ne way we have been talking for about a month and i have developed feelings for her. my question is should i tell her or just let it go? She doesn't have a boyfriend so we are good in ...
A. 19 July 2009: oh, well thats quite a while, tbh i find far distance relationships dont really work, but if you dont mind traveling that distance to see her maybe every week or you could take it in turns to see each other to make it far for both of you,
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I slept with his sister - should I tell him?
Q. I've had a crush on my boyfriends sister and didn't find out that she was bisexual until I got into a relationship with her brother. She recently slept over at my house while my boyfriend was at work and we ended up getting a little too close. Do ...
A. 19 July 2009: i think its best that you tell him, be prepared for his reaction, like gRaa said he will be more annoyed that you kepted it from him for a long time, and it would be better than him catching you in the act or hearing it form someone else.
Good ... (read in full...)
How do I help him get over her?
Q. i have been friends with this person from school for 10 months now, but all he does is moan about my other friend not having feelings for him, he thinks its because he's "black, fat and ugly" but I cant help finding him annoying and seeking for ...
A. 19 July 2009: dont pretend to fancy him, beacuse if you actually dont like him in that way and he ends up fancying you, your a bit stuck and will hurt his feelings more. why dont you do things together like take him swimming with you, cinema, sea side, shopping... (read in full...)
Do I tell him that I like him too?
Q. i have a crush on this guy. just that other night, we were talking online. i couldnt hear him very well so i told him to call me. after we talked for a little while,we atated talking about my bff. i asked him why hi cared so much a bout my bff. i...
A. 19 July 2009: i think you should tell him that you like him (:
i strongly advice you to wait for him to ask you out (:
Good Luck x... (read in full...)
Does he act this way for a reason?
Q. Hey ok so I've know this guy for about 5 years now and he says I'm like one of his best friends and that he never wants to lose me... When we get into textn we sometimes end up talking dirty and when we talk he only wants to know about me when I ask ...
A. 19 July 2009: its sounds like hes using you tbh hun,
theres guys out there way way better than him.
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Let it go? Or tell her of my feelings?
Q. OK so i Met this girl online we shes 17 today and im also 17. ne way we have been talking for about a month and i have developed feelings for her. my question is should i tell her or just let it go? She doesn't have a boyfriend so we are good in ...
A. 19 July 2009: tell her how you feel and see what she says about it,
but yea it does really depend on far she lives,
Good Luck x... (read in full...)
My virgin GF cried during foreplay, is this my fault?
Q. My girlfriend told me she going to give her virginity (I didn’t pressure her and I’m not a virgin). We waited until my birthday to do it just to make a bit more fun. She acted really nervous around me. When the day come she was really freaked. I ...
A. 15 July 2009: it doesnt sound like you did anything wrong, something has obv upset her, sit down with her and asked why she got upset, maybe something happened in the past or she got too nervous and didnt know what to do so got upset, sounds to me like she isnt... (read in full...)
Snoozy sex!
Q. Last night me and my boyfriend were really drunk, we went to bed and had sex (we always use condoms) then we fell asleep in each others arms. I can vaguely remember waking up in the middle of the night still half asleep to pull the quilts over ...
A. 12 July 2009: You cant be too sure, best to get checked.
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What are the chances I could be pregnant?
Q. Ok so I have an implant but I had sex 2 times of times with my boyfriend rougly a couple of weeks ago.. (we usually do it with a condom just to be safe but we didnt have any at that time) so I thought it would be ok since I'm on the implant but I ...
A. 12 July 2009: there could be a chance of you being pregnant.
go with your boyfriend to the clinic to get checked or if your shy about going there, you can always buy and pregnace test from the pharmacy, or boots sell them,
Good Luck x... (read in full...)
Not going to see him for 2 weeks, will be with his female cousin, why am I jealous?
Q. Ok so its the summer holidays and my boyfriend and I are used to spending alot of time together, (I do let him have time to do other things and see his friends whenever he wants) His cousin is coming over from where he comes from and staying at h...
A. 12 July 2009: i get like this, is she pretty? you may feel jealous about that or you may feel jealous that she will be spending quite a bit of time with him in the 2 weeks and you wont be able to see him.
texy him during the day or ring each other at night and ... (read in full...)
How important is it for you to see your partners face during intercourse
Q. Body language and expression tells a lot. How important is it for you to see your partners face during intercourse? Do you like seeing the expression of pleasure on partners face during sex? Is that good for you? ...
A. 12 July 2009: i like seein my boyfriends face during interecourse, like you said i like to see his expressions,
its not really that important, some people find it embarrassing beacuse of there expressions. But it may be a turn on for you.
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Help on Sex Positions please!
Q. i was wondering about when riding a guy during sex what do you do? because me and my bf want to try new positions, and me on top of him was what he suggested so how do i move? what do i do? thanks x...
A. 12 July 2009: look at this website http://www.sexinfo101.com/butterflypositions.shtml
me and my found loads that we liked on there.
Move so it feels nice for you
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Should I still worry if I'm pregnant?
Q. We almost did it last June 1, the tip of his penis sort of entered the tip of my vagina, the upper tip part. I got my period on that month, it wasn't late or whatsoever. But i can't help but worry. I need help, advice. Should i still worry? I'm ...
A. 12 July 2009: im pretty sure you are not pregnant, so please stop worrying (: if you're still really not sure, why dont you get a pregnancy test? next time wear a condom. x... (read in full...)
Please help... My brother molested me and I'm afraid he'll do it again.
Q. Recently, my stepbrother has been trying to pants me. i thought it was just some inmature thing a brother would do. but last night, my step brother and me were in my room talking. We were just talking about his ex-girlfriend and other thing like ...
A. 12 July 2009: thats horrible!
you really need to tell a parent, maybe one you closest to,
that cant go on, it could get worse!
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Is it true that players don't like to be dumped?
Q. A guy I love only contacts me when he wants to. He asked me if I have a boyfriend and I replied no. When he did not contact me I wrote to him "Hi, How is it going?". He did not answer me so the same day I broke up with him telling him that "you are ...
A. 12 July 2009: i think you should move on!
if he loved you he would text you all the time and want to meet up with you alot, but he doesnt seem to be bothered with you, even when you dumped him didnt seem to be bothered.
no one likes to be dumped!
i think you sh... (read in full...)
I want my boyfriend to be with me 24/7..is that ok?
Q. I've been dating this guy for about 6 months now, he lives with his older brother while I live at home with my parents. He is really good when it comes to calling me everyday to tell me what he's doing. He tells me that he loves me but that he also ...
A. 11 July 2009: Your exactly like me!
You do need to give him space, otherwise he may start to feel fed up of you, which you obv dont want that!
You will loose friends if you spend your time just with your boyfriend and not them beacuse they will think you just... (read in full...)
Is phone sex wrong?
Q. I was wondering if someone could tell me if phone sex is wrong with my bf...we've been dating for 41 months and pretty much do it every other nite....
A. 10 July 2009: no theres nothing wrong with that at all.
to strangers its different but you have beeen together for a long time so it oka ... (read in full...)
What happens when a girl hasn't had sex in awhile?
Q. Hi. Just wanna know, what happens to a girl's vagina if she hasn't been having sex for a while? About seven months......
A. 10 July 2009: your vagina will tighten up, so it might be a but painfully like your first time.
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Stupidly didn't use protection and now am afraid
Q. I had sex with my boyfriend on the 26th of june and id just finished my period on the 25th of june stupidly we didnt use protection but he said he didnt come in me and that he withdrew , however i feel really worried and im scared that i could be ...
A. 10 July 2009: ive been though the same problem as you, you can still get pregant even if he withdrew so id go to the clinic as soon as you can to get checked, bring you boyfriend with you as it is nice for support and someone to hold your hand.
Good Luck x
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My boyfriend is going on a holiday...
Q. Hi ... Well ive been going out with my boyfriend for about 3months now and i love him to pieces and his everything i want, however he went on holiday with nine of his mates, he come back and then the next day on facebook was aload of picture...
A. 10 July 2009: hmmm, why dont you sit down with him and talk to him about it and how you are feeling about the whole situation.
but if he has cheated, tbh be strong and leave beacuse if he really loved you he wouldnt have done it, i always say once a cheat alwa... (read in full...)
Does he see me as more than a friends with benefits?
Q. Okay, so we all know the story - two bored friends with nothing better to do, so they have sex. No rules, just booty. I was attracted to him before we made this arrangement, but I told myself that I didn't want anything more from this guy. I lied. ...
A. 10 July 2009: Well it sounds like to me that he does like you, he just wants to be single at the momment. Be patient and soon he might want to have a relationship.
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I'm 15, pregnant and don't know how to tell my mom!
Q. I am 15 years old and I have only been dating my boyfriend for a week. But we have been messing around for 2 months and I just currently found out that I was pregnant. I'm not to sure what to do or what to think I have no job I am homeschooled a...
A. 10 July 2009: You need to tell your mum, if you dont want to say it to your mum face to face, why dont you text her, ring her or write it down on paper but to be honest it is best to say face to face. You are going to have to tell beacuse she is going to notice ... (read in full...)
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