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How important is it for you to see your partners face during intercourse

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Question - (12 July 2009) 5 Answers - (Newest, 13 July 2009)
A female age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Body language and expression tells a lot. How important is it for you to see your partners face during intercourse? Do you like seeing the expression of pleasure on partners face during sex? Is that good for you?

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A female reader, TheAgonyAunt United Kingdom +, writes (13 July 2009):

TheAgonyAunt agony auntPersonally I dont like my partner watching my face during sex I find it really off putting I cant show any sexual emotion when hes looking at me for some reason..

But I do like to see if hes enjoying it, I just hate it when he looks at me, I feel like Im being judged

But thats just me :)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 July 2009):

We seldom see each others faces during sex. We do look at each other when we cuddle though, whether after sex or just when lying in bed. It isn't important to us and would often hinder the sex if we concentrated on that.

Since my wife has her best orgasms with oral sex, I don't get to see her face much in that position. The best position to see each others faces is in the cowgirl position, as we are facing each other and far enough apart to see each other. Besides, it is usually dark in the bedroom during sex.

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A male reader, Sandman United States +, writes (12 July 2009):

Sandman agony auntFor ME, it is very important. On occasion...

They say the eyes are the windows to the soul. Intercourse is one of, if not the most, intimate act between to persons to show their love and affection towards each other. Looking into your partners eyes during intercourse, for ME, for this reason is really important. Not only do you get to see their facial expressions of pleasure while making love, but you are connected both physically and emotionally when you can look deep into their eyes while making love.

Of course, there are positions that render looking at your partners face/eyes impossible - in which case looking into their eyes is not the important factor but rather the physical connection becomes the main focus. Just my opinion.

Hope this helps.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 July 2009):

It's neither important or unimportant. The only problem with having the lights on is that expressions and sounds of ecstasy can sometimes be mistaken for your lover being in the throes of having a heart attack rather than the throes of passion!

Whatever it takes, it's nice to know that you're doing a good job of things!

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A female reader, Rachel O United Kingdom +, writes (12 July 2009):

Rachel O agony aunti like seein my boyfriends face during interecourse, like you said i like to see his expressions,

its not really that important, some people find it embarrassing beacuse of there expressions. But it may be a turn on for you.

x

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