I'm cheating but there's only one life
Q. I'm a guy who is happily married in a long term relationship. While sex can sometimes be an issue between us- she has a very low sex drive- and it's often a discussion/argument that we have, it's not so bad that I would consider ending the ...
A. 29 November 2016: You answered your own question, your not looking for someone to talk you out of it but perhaps someone who will make your self guilt go away. This is like a alcoholic saying he is only going to have one drink. You left out the divorce that may occur ... (read in full...)
He's 30, and acts like a teenager. Doesn't want to do family things with me. What should I do?
Q. Hi everyone ive been with my boyfriend for 3 year now we have a daughter together. Lately i dont feel the same way about him. The problem is his mate is always at our house. I finish work on a weekend on a morning, get home, and his mate is ther...
A. 11 September 2016: I think you answered your own question, he isn't going to change into the person you want. You know that because of the three years together. He doesn't have the time to be bothered? Well it's time to tell him how thing's are affecting you, your ... (read in full...)
I don't want a relationship with him. Yet why am I continually drawn to him?
Q. Hi. So I could really use some advice about this guy. Here's the story: We met at college but it took a few months for us to actually talk in our shared class. After that we became friends pretty much straight away, hanging out, laughing, h...
A. 11 September 2016: This is tricky, your trying to play this safe so you won't be hurt. I would go all out to make sure this guy knows how you feel. If you don't you will be wondering what could of been. Whatever happens in the end you will feel better for it... (read in full...)
I need help with a fading relationship, please? Can I make him happy again?
Q. Dear Cupid, I started talking to my current boyfriend early on in the year. We talked all the time and everything was perfect - we made each other happy, nothing ever went wrong and we trusted and understood each other. We started going out...
A. 11 September 2016: You need take deep breath, and step back. You have both made mistakes, the question is what happens next. That is a throw at a dart board. I would take some time off, don't let this consume you... (read in full...)
I get tongue tied when he is around!
Q. I have recently separated from my 7 year relationship and a friend i had a huge crush on 2 years ago has come back in my life. Things are moving quite fast...i definitely like him and am very attracted to him. My issues is that every time we are ...
A. 5 June 2015: Relax, this is a good thing and that's how you should look at it. He is sending you all the right signals just prepare with some subjects before you meet me him again, how's the dog or your parents, hot out today? you get it very easy good luck your ... (read in full...)
I get tongue tied when he is around!
Q. I have recently separated from my 7 year relationship and a friend i had a huge crush on 2 years ago has come back in my life. Things are moving quite fast...i definitely like him and am very attracted to him. My issues is that every time we are ...
A. 5 June 2015: Relax, this is a good thing and that's how you should look at it. He is sending you all the right signals just prepare with some subjects before you meet me him again, how's the dog or your parents, hot out today? you get it very easy good luck your ... (read in full...)
I feel my ex only thinks and cares about his own needs only, advice please!
Q. My ex lives with me for a yr now. He doesnt pay for anything at all including rent. Hes bought a jetski thats been fixed on off and dies again on off. He spent so much money on the jski and none on his 2kids. Hes always telling me that I should ...
A. 5 June 2015: OMG, turn your brain on! you already know the answer read your own question and dump him like a the idiot loser he is... (read in full...)
My Bf is often busy gaming, but I'd like him to call more often. Am I over-reacting?
Q. My relationship has been a litte..meh lately. I bought it up with my boyfriend but he didn't really take it onboard. I feel like the relationship is dying a slow death. I haven't spoken to him in two days, when I last called him. The last few day...
A. 3 June 2015: You have a ton of things going on and your not asking much from him but he isn't stepping up to the plate. Sounds like he is just to comfortable, I wouldn't call him maybe talk to someone who really cares for you, I agree this thing is dying out.... (read in full...)
Am I over analysing our LDR?
Q. I started talking to this guy nearly a year ago. I liked him from the first moment we started talking (through Facebook due to mutual friends). We talk every single day and are very affectionate to each other. I have no doubt in my mind that he ...
A. 3 June 2015: Bingo! you just answered your own question of course you need to tell him what you want and expect and if he doesn't have it move on, pretty simple if your not happy it's not worth it. You know what you want and need, good luck
Cooper... (read in full...)
Should I let the urge pass to contact my ex?
Q. Its been 7 months since the last time we spoke.We were on and off for few years because the distance was a huge factor since neither of us was ready to move. We live 4 hours apart and it was too much not being able to see each other whenever we ...
A. 2 June 2015: Text him call him! life is to short not to have answers to your heart... (read in full...)
Am I right in thinking that maybe he doesn't have time for a relationship?
Q. I'm a 26 year old woman in a relationship with a 30 year old man, who I've been with for almost a year. We are kinda long distance, we live two hours away from each other so only get to meet once, maybe twice a week. I was happy with this at first ...
A. 29 May 2015: Time to turn up the heat, if this guy is that busy let him work and go do your own thing and stop waiting on him. As you read this don't contact him today, see if he even contacts you. If he starts calling or texting make it a short answer like I'm ... (read in full...)
2 years of sleeping with ex who is married. Do I walk away?
Q. Been sleeping with ex for almost 2 years. He's married. I said to him "when you get divorced we can spend more time together". He said, "you'll find someone" I said so will you, since he's been saying he's getting divorced. He responded, "I have ...
A. 29 May 2015: thank you all for your input!! I greatly appreciate it!! I am walking away. Just remain friends maybe talking on phone once in awhile, but no more sex!!!
Sure you can stay in contact with this guy and carry on as friends and everything will be ... (read in full...)
Do you think someone can have an affair without having sex with another person?
Q. I married my high school gf just over a year ago. Shortly after we got engaged I started working a new job and met this girl named Sarah, she's funny, sweet and we just had tons of fun working together. We started hanging out with each other ...
A. 28 May 2015: Your worried about the word affair to much, you make it sound like the marriage is over and you want this new girlfriend. Not sure what your hanging on to your wife doesn't seem to care and you don't seem to care either. Time to make some changes, ... (read in full...)
Should I date my best friend, who is also my colleague?!
Q. A new guy started working with me a year ago. He is the level above me and more qualified (im training to gain the same qualifications). Over the last year he has become one of my best friends. Hes great company and we get on unbelieveably well. He ...
A. 27 May 2015: Ever thought about liking someone before loving some one may last longer than a instant love? think about it. There is no set rule about what works and doesn't work... (read in full...)
Does he seem at all interested? I don't want to make a move only to find that I've not only made a fool of myself but lost a friend.
Q. I feel like I'm at the age where I should be able to figure out whether or not a guy is interested in me but this is the first time I find myself drawn to an older man. I'd assume that indicators of interest would be the same regardless of age but I ...
A. 21 May 2015: Wow, talk about cautious. Ask him for a drink or a nice dinner. All the signs are there ask him out. Your afraid if you ask him out and he declines that will end your friendship? that's not much of a friend to lose. Quit wasting time get the ball ... (read in full...)
I'm wondering if it'd be weird from a female prospective if I pursued this.
Q. I feel stupid right now... SO I'm at the library and a girl I haven't seen in a long time and actually didn't remember walks up to me and basically acknowledges that she remembers me from church, etc. We had a very brief chat and I ended things with ...
A. 20 May 2015: Your parents know each other, so they can obtain her number, call her you don't have to do the awkward church surprise.... (read in full...)
My ex girlfriend broke up with me because of trust issues but I don't think she has moved on
Q. Hello Agony Aunts Recently my Ex girlfriend and I ran into some troubles in our relationship. We've been on and off because of some poor choices I've made so she ended up having some trust issues with me. I tried really hard to show her That I ...
A. 18 May 2015: She is just stringing you along and not ready to close this chapter, even if she came back to you, your always going to wonder if this is going to happen again. She already can see she can control you with a couple of messages and Stop replying to ... (read in full...)
Why has my guy stopped saying I love you and I miss you?
Q. My guy avoids saying "I love you" and " I miss you" anymore.he used to and up to recently.now if I text either to him he puts "thanks or so kind".I asked him today why he won't say it anymore and he texted back " love love and kisses xx " we've been ...
A. 18 May 2015: Sound's like he is just playing a game to control your emotions, he knows how you feel but he continues to provoke you in this way. If this just stopped suddenly like you said there is more to it. Confronting him will just empower him, I would keep ... (read in full...)
Dating, yet I often feel lonely. How do I rid myself of this feeling? Or will it always be with me?
Q. My boyfriend of nearly three years opened a business at the start of the year and it's going really well.. I'm so proud of him. My selfish problem is that I feel quite lonely these days. He's working 6am to 9.30pm Monday to Friday and until 4p...
A. 15 May 2015: I understand what your saying, how to fix this might be hard. If it's his own business can you be involved and spend some time with him maybe just part time? If not you need to either accept that nothing may change for a long time and you really ... (read in full...)
Where am I going wrong with men? One bad experience after another (:
Q. Hi guys, short question (hopefully). Where am I going wrong with men???? I know I'm only young, but the majority of experiences I have had have been bad and the men have done me over. I know I'm quite a nice person I think I trust people so...
A. 15 May 2015: You need to slow down and take a breathe, there are good guy's out there and the good ones aren't looking to put anther notch on there belt. Try taking the time to really getting to know someone before sleeping with them. If they won't wait then you ... (read in full...)
Am I going to look back and regret settling with a guy 16 years older than me?
Q. Hi everyone, I'm hoping to gain some advice away from the judgements of my family. I met a guy through my work who asked for my number, we text for quite sometime and found we had so many similar interests and outlooks- it kind of felt like f...
A. 15 May 2015: You keep going back to the age but the bigger issue is his anger and his controlling attitude. I would listen to mom and stepdad before this turns for the worse. He doesn't believe in Facebook? that won't score points one way or the other. Sounds ... (read in full...)
It's 'her way or the highway'. She doesn't respond. Yet is quick to ask a favor if she needs help. Is this 'friendship' over?
Q. I have a friend who I've known since HS. We met through another friend who neither of us keep in touch with much now. One time I canceled plans with this friend because I had a second date with a guy. She got SO mad at me- even though our plans...
A. 11 May 2015: Time to move on, she is using her leverage from you standing her up like a weapon. She now feels entitled for you to do whatever because you offended her. Not really a friend.... (read in full...)
He doesn't even try anymore. How to put the sparkle back into our relationship?
Q. I have 2 kids with the guy i've been with for 3 years . He slept for half of mothers day, we got some icecream when i demanded it but he also got to wash his car while i ate the icecream in the car. I complimented him the whole day without hear...
A. 11 May 2015: You already know what kind of guy you want and this doesn't sound like it, didn't mention what you loved about him, he doesn't give you the time of day and I would say his time is up. Your young move to someone that makes you feel special... (read in full...)
Any suggestions as to whether I should ask her out?
Q. Should I ask her out. There's a girl I like and she just started talking to me and would smile everytime I look at her. She sits there and stares at me. She takes my stuff and wears it. She will stop in the middle of the hallway and start a c...
A. 11 May 2015: This is easy of course ask her out, she is sending every signal and is probably wanders what your waiting on, it's just date not a proposal.... (read in full...)
We've been dating for 3 months but he never wants to call or text?
Q. I need help. I am dating someone who never calls me and rarely texts me. We have been dating for 3 months, and he says that he wants to "take things slow." Is this normal? I am all for not rushing into things, but wouldn't a guy want to talk to ...
A. 11 May 2015: This is a red flag all the way, is he giving you the attention you want? nope. Don't ever settle for someone that is not making you feel special, you know what type of guy you want so you need to spend some time finding him instead of wasting your ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend dumped me for going to a strip club
Q. My boyfriend dumped me cause I went to a strip club. He's been with friends and though he warned me he was jealous, I never knew he'd go so far. My friend took me and I had no idea we were headed there. I know I could have left but it didn't seem a ...
A. 11 May 2015: Insights please?
He's hurt for now maybe over time he will cool off but he may just move on and so should you. Have you tried talking with him? how long since you had contact with him? If you haven't heard from him, then just move on. If you do wind... (read in full...)
Boyfriend doesn't talk or show affection to me when we are in school
Q. Hi, I am 14 and in a almost 4 month relationship with a guy that I like very much, I feel like I love him. Anyways, the reason I am here is because since the beginning of the relationship we we both really liked each other but we're sort of aw...
A. 11 May 2015: He says he doesn't feel anything special for me. You just answered your own question, sound's like you don't have much happiness together. Your wanting a boyfriend that doesn't ignore you no matter who is around and don't settle for less. y... (read in full...)
My ex is too involved in my life. What should I do?
Q. I broke up with my ex legally and she too agreed but I have left my phone with her so that we could contact as normal friends but before some last month's it seems that this is going wrong as she still acts as my girlfriend. ..We broke up due to our ...
A. 11 May 2015: Trying to remain in contact with her from the start is a mistake, and you can see that now. Every time you reply to her in any way it just gives her hope that you still care to get back together. Your going to have to stop having any contact with ... (read in full...)
I texted him but he didn't respond. Did I cross the line?
Q. Hi I need advice. I met someone at uni and we get along really well. I love his company. I have fallen head over heels for him. I have tried for weeks to ask him if he would like to go for a drink.. But I didn't have the courage. He has the ...
A. 10 May 2015: Your being really hard on yourself, don't apologize for sending the text. Life is going to have rejections for one reason or another the sooner you accept that the sooner you can move forward. I would not start off a conversation with wanting to ... (read in full...)
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