I'm seeing my best friend's bf and we nearly got caught. What's the best thing to do?
Q. i am seein me best frendz boyfrend we kiss and stuff and we nearly got coaght wat do i do ...
A. 18 February 2006: Excuse me, don't see people in relationships, then you have nothing to worry about.... (read in full...)
Help put my mind at rest: How long does sperm last for outside the body?
Q. This is a silly question to ask but i'm sure im not the only one that has thought about this. How long does sperm last for, once its out of your body? the other day i masturbated in the shower, and i was really paranoid about cleaning everyth...
A. 18 February 2006: Your body keeps sperm incubated at around 98 degrees, so if it goes even a few degrees below that they die very quickly. Don't worry, you have to ejaculate into the vagina for the sperm to be active.... (read in full...)
Every time we row, he gets in contact with his ex and tells me how much more beautiful and better she is...
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for approximately 8 months, but we were together before as well! We have dated on and off since I was 14 (22 now). I need some advice. We get on brilliantly but row when we have a drink. I get mad coz whenever...
A. 18 February 2006: He sounds like an asshole... (read in full...)
I experience embarrassing noise when we have sex..does this happen to other couples?
Q. Hi, I was wondering if this happens with a lot of couples? I have been in a wonderful relationship for over 5 years and did not always have this problem however now nearly every time we have sex I am experiencing some embarrassing noises, this tends ...
A. 18 February 2006: Unless he goes soft when he hears it, it doesn't really bother him.... (read in full...)
If a guy wears a condom..should he still pull out before ejaculation to prevent pregnancy??
Q. If the guy wears a condom during sex should he pull out before he comes or can he stay inside me. Does this increase the chance of becoming pregnant?...
A. 18 February 2006: It will decrease the likelihood of a sperm successfully reaching the ovum if he pulls out, for example, if the condom had a tear in it.... (read in full...)
Walked in on my boyfriend and discovered his DVD of porn!
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 4 yrs and I love him very much and don't wont to lose him. But this morning I found a porn film in his room. We have descused porn before and I've explained that I personaly don't like it. But the issue is that I ...
A. 18 February 2006: It sucks if he's lying to you about it being his, but it's his call whether he watches porn or not. Also, is there a reason he isn't watching porn? Maybe inactivity in the bedroom?... (read in full...)
Want to end the relationship and stop sending her money, but worried about the consequences!
Q. I feel a fool... I have been sending $$ to a girl overseas that I met in a sex site ...for 2 years... because I felt I loved her and I felt sorry for her. She says she loves me but she keeps asking for more $$ for herself .. and to help her family ...
A. 18 February 2006: She's using you bro, don't give her another cent.... (read in full...)
My foreskin doesn't retract. How do I correct this?
Q. Alright, I am an 18 year old male, living in the UK. Growing up I lost my virginity with my grilfriend when I was 15, and have had various sexual partners since then. When I lost my virginity, my slightly more experienced girlfriend mentioned...
A. 18 February 2006: Sorry man, if you aren't circumsized, there isn't much you can do.... (read in full...)
My ex still jokes that she "loves" me, just to tease her boyfriend... but the sexual tension's getting to me!
Q. I used to date the girl my best friend now lives with. I see them both all the time, and she has always been very touchy-feely. She'll lie across the sofa and watch tv with her head on my lap and she'll hug me all the time. we always joke abou...
A. 18 February 2006: It sounds like she's using you to get the other guys attention, or see if he gets jealous.... (read in full...)
I'm seeing my best friend's bf and we nearly got caught. What's the best thing to do?
Q. i am seein me best frendz boyfrend we kiss and stuff and we nearly got coaght wat do i do ...
A. 18 February 2006: Don't cheat on your boyfriend and you have nothing to worry about.... (read in full...)
Suspect my girlfriend is cheating with a couple, because of the way she acts around them!
Q. I think my girlfriend is cheating. She is working late more often and doing different things during sex. I think it's with another couple. She always talks about them. They were over the other night and it seemed like I wasn't even there. They did ...
A. 7 February 2006: Sounds very suspicious bro. I think she just might be cheating. The most annoying thing in the world is being with a girl who ignores you around company, but that's just how it is. If she's making physical cues towards it, it sounds like it might be ... (read in full...)
He rubbed up against me and I orgasmed..did I lose my virginity?
Q. I am a 17yr. Christian girl, who's done a lot of things, I'm not proud of, with my boyfriend of a year. But I am now scared that I might have accidently lost my virginity by slowly slipping into things that "were'nt so bad". I have had orgasms ...
A. 7 February 2006: In order to lose your virginity, he has to penetrate your vagina with his penis, if it's anything other than that, you still have your virginity.... (read in full...)
He's 34-I'm 16..he wants to take me out for my birthday...provided I give him my virginity!
Q. i really like this guy i work with he's 34 im 16. he's always flirting with me and has offered to take me out for my birthday as long he can take my virginity. i really want him too, but im worried about what people might say. he makes me feel s...
A. 7 February 2006: STAY AWAY FROM THIS SICKO, HE IS A DISGUSTING PEDOPHILE. HE IS ONLY TRYING TO USE YOU! People like him deserve death. Tell the police, for your sake, and for the sake of the other people he might hurt.... (read in full...)
Is oral sex intercourse? Did my buddy lose her virginity?
Q. Why is oral sex considered inter course? This is a question my friend asked me after she had given a guy a Blow job. But isn't this kind of the breakipoint between fooling around and sex? I wanted to tell her,"Hun, I think you just lost your ...
A. 7 February 2006: According to current beliefs, your friend is still a virgin in the sense she hasn't had REAL sex. It's gross that some 25 year old is preying on young girls. According to the bible, however, any penetration into any orafice of a womans body is ... (read in full...)
I'm a virgin and I can't believe anyone will ever want to marry me one day, or have kids!
Q. Hi, I am 18 and still a virgin but I feel really embarrassed when my friends talk about them losing their virginity, and I feel that no one will want to marry me one day or have chidren. What can I do about this? I want to lose it with someone I ...
A. 7 February 2006: Dont be embarassed. Usually girls try to single out virgins and make them feel like theyre doing something wrong because they actually still wish they were virgins. Men value a girls virginity, they don't hold it in a negative light. I'm sure that ... (read in full...)
Would a one night stand bring me closure and satisfy my goal?
Q. I recently split up with my boyfriend and it's killing me. i've been heartbroken before (only with a guy who didn't know i existed), and the only thing that made me get over him was when i finally had closure. i got drunk at a party and ended up ...
A. 7 February 2006: I'm not going to feed you this feminist stuff that other people are going to try to force at you. If you truly love this guy, and he loves you, then why not have your first time be with someone who you know you would leave on good terms. It's a ... (read in full...)
I can't wait to have sex with my girlfriend, but she's putting me off over birth control. Can I get her to hurry up?
Q. Me and my girlfriend have been together for a little over six months, we are very much in love, and both 17. She says she wants to have sex with me, but doesn't want to risk pregnancy, because she says she has bad luck and that she wants to wait to ...
A. 7 February 2006: I know just how you feel man, it's a really difficult thing to bear. You can't really hurry her up, because ultimately it's her decision how and when you guys have sex. If you don't love her enough to stay with her without sex, then you shouldnt be ... (read in full...)
How can I help my girl get over this trauma?
Q. Hi My girlfriend used to be raped constantly by her ex and his mates/drug dealers. Shes not like that at all, shes a nice girl, and shes now really haunted by the experience, and sometimes its so bad that she flinches just at my touch...any idea...
A. 7 February 2006: The best medication for those kind of experiences, is time. People will never forget their early psychological conditionings to things like that. There will always be times when she might get flashbacks, or get really upset by touching etc. It might ... (read in full...)
Need some answers about sex the first time, please!
Q. Everytime I get a boyfriend they always want sex. I do want to do it but I'm really scared of getting pregnant. What would be the best type of contraception? Would the pill and condom be good together? Is sex sore the first time and can anyone give ...
A. 7 February 2006: If he ONLY wants sex, then dump him, definately. But don't give him the boot for feeling the way nature intended for him to feel. You don't seem ready to have sex, but if you HAVE TO, the best form of contraception is birth control pills. They work ... (read in full...)
Will he notice that I'm not "virgin"?
Q. I have a boyfriend weve been going out for a while now and im ready to lose my virginity i have been for ages but he thinks im not a virgin im not teelin him other wise i wont but i wonder if heel notice wen we make love and about bleeding ??...
A. 7 February 2006: Just tell him the truth, he'll probably like the fact that you're a virgin, as most guys would. Him knowing you are a virgin depends on a few important things. If he's had alot of sex, he will definately be able to tell by how you perform in bed. ... (read in full...)
Why won't the guy I've been speaking to online for five years meet me?
Q. i met this guy from the internet, we started talking and 1 year of talking became 5 years of talking. i really wanted to meet up with him just so i could spend time with him in person. when i asked him why he didnt want to meet, he said it was ...
A. 7 February 2006: He might not be the same person you think he is. If he is having internet romances, chances are he isn't too competent in bed. He's probably just embarassed or hiding something.... (read in full...)
Guys: Would you ever be interested in a girl three years older than you?
Q. Can a 26yr old woman seriously, in good conscience, flirt with a 23yr old grad school classmate? Or is that just creepy? He is so cute, but so young; I feel a twinge of guilt when I catch myself flirting with him. And I can't tell whether he's ...
A. 7 February 2006: Of course you can flirt and/or go for him, three years is nothing. You shouldn't feel guilty about it, you aren't doing anything morally or socially unacceptable. If I was attracted to a girl three years older than me(and obviously single) I would ... (read in full...)
No sex, just sucking... Is this wrong?
Q. I'm a 15-year-old girl and going out with a guy only a month younger than me. He's a total sweetie and we've been going out for three months. We've made out and he's felt under my bra. But he wants to take my bra off. No sex, but sucking... I'm not ...
A. 7 February 2006: Listen, this is very important. If he tries to make you do anything you dont want to, he is being selfish. He might be really sweet and charming, but that's an easy disguise. You are DEFINATELY too young, believe me. If you do ANYTHING like this at ... (read in full...)
It's like he's bored with sex and it takes him *forever* to ejaculate!
Q. hi, iv been with my guy for about 2 years now, his always been really good at making love with me but he takes a really long time to ejaculate sometimes up to 1 to 2 hours and alot of the time we both just give up after about 1 hour because we are ...
A. 7 February 2006: He is definately looking for something to spice up the sex. NO doubt. If he is bold enough to have porno around you, see what the main themes in the pornos are, chances are that even if you TRIED to do something like in his videos, his interest ... (read in full...)
My wife doesn't like french kissing any more. Is this normal?
Q. Is it normal for some women to not enjoy open mouth kissing? (french kissing). We used to do it but my wife says she's not crazy about it. We've been married 20 years. It kind of bothers me....
A. 7 February 2006: It sounds like either she has disliked french-kissing for a long time and not felt like she should make any kind of big deal, and now she's just tired of putting up with doing something she doesn't have to. OR, you might want to test the bad breath ... (read in full...)
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