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writes: I have a boyfriend weve been going out for a while now and im ready to lose my virginity i have been for ages but he thinks im not a virgin im not teelin him other wise i wont but i wonder if heel notice wen we make love and about bleeding ?? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2006): This may not be the best answer, but in my case, my past few boyfriends I had, once they found out I was virgin-they split. So, I really don't know if you should tell him. Just relax, be comfortable and you will be fine.
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reader, ourchosenpaths +, writes (7 February 2006):
Just tell him the truth, he'll probably like the fact that you're a virgin, as most guys would. Him knowing you are a virgin depends on a few important things. If he's had alot of sex, he will definately be able to tell by how you perform in bed. Also, you might not bleed, depending on where your hymens(what breaks and bleeds when a virgin has sex for the first time) is as far as depth in the vagina, and also how big is penis is, they may never make contact, and that way you wouldn't bleed.
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reader, lisa_01 +, writes (7 February 2006):
some girls bleed, some dont, i didnt bleed with my first time, he might notice some tightnes and he may notice your in experience but if you have already lied and said your not a virgin and you do bleed just say you got your period, if he askes about tightness or anything just say you have not had any in awhile, but i would just be truthful and tell him you are, nothing gets a guy more excited them popping a girls cherry first.
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