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writes: Everytime I get a boyfriend they always want sex. I do want to do it but I'm really scared of getting pregnant. What would be the best type of contraception? Would the pill and condom be good together? Is sex sore the first time and can anyone give me details how it feels please! thanks oxxo
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2008): dear
if you loose your virginity without love, It would be hard for you to feel love in your life ...
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reader, chrissymarie +, writes (11 February 2006):
 to me it dont sound like you are scared of getting pregnet it sounds like you are not ready to...
and if the boy is only with you to have sex dump him, befor you have sex with a guy you need to know he is with you because he loves you and if he says i love you, that dont mean he really do it means yeah i love you if you let me get in your pants!
you should stay a virgin as long as you can, sex isnt everything in a relationship....the longer you wait the better it will feel when you finally do, and you wont be called all those alful names.....
but anyways condoms and the pill will work big time they are both 99.9% reliable, but you need to remb. to take that pill all the time and use a condom all the time!
i am 16 years old and i am pregnet cause i didnt take my pills cause i figured i am using a condom so i dont need them yeah the condom broke, be careful being pregnet isnt the best thing when you are still a child yourself!
sex dosent not feel good the first time its painful and could make you feel grossed out..
hunnie wait sex will be there the rest of your life but school wont be!
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reader, ourchosenpaths +, writes (7 February 2006):
 If he ONLY wants sex, then dump him, definately. But don't give him the boot for feeling the way nature intended for him to feel. You don't seem ready to have sex, but if you HAVE TO, the best form of contraception is birth control pills. They work 99.9% of the time in preventing pregnancys, if you use the brith control pills along with a condom with some kind of spermicide(sperm-killer), there will be a better chance of moby dick coming up for air in your bath-tub than you getting pregnant.
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reader, fairyangel  +, writes (5 February 2006):
 Sweetie you don't sound as if you are at all ready, or mature enough to be having sexual experiences with boys.
Focus on your studies for now, and wait till you are mature enough to be having sex... at least wait till you are out of school!
Take Care Of Yourself
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reader, AuntyYasmin +, writes (5 February 2006):
First of all, dump any boyfriend who wants sex only. They don't care about you or respect you and they are scum!
You wait until you love somebody for your first time. And you will find its the most amazing experience ever. Let him make you feel special and loved. I went out with a guy and fell in love with him and waited a couple of months before we were officially boyfriend and girlfriend. then six months to lose my virginity to him. we got a hotel room and music and i felt so ready and comfortable and special. And 2 and a half years later I am still with him. Don't let a guy tell you for a month how much he loves you etc.. he may just be saying that.
You need to have sex with somebody where if an accident like pregnancy happens, you can get through it together!
Sex will only feel special and less painful if you wait and feel ready. Or you will tense up and it will be very painful! And the pill is excellent but does not protect you against sti's, hiv etc. you must use a condom, also on oral sex or you could get infections like Chlymidia which have no symptoms and can make you infertile!
Think before you do anything, be with somebody who loves you for you and respects your feelings!
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