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writes:Is it normal for some women to not enjoy open mouth kissing? (french kissing). We used to do it but my wife says she's not crazy about it. We've been married 20 years. It kind of bothers me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 February 2006): Well, this might sound weird, but ,even though I love sex, the only times I enjoy french kissing is when 1. I have had something to drink or 2. when I am in the shower. Something about wet lips all over my face can be a little irritating, and my man is a bit of a sloppy kisser! Also, when you kiss, make sure your lips are firm, but don't open them so that your lips are completely over hers and engulfing her lips. Keep your lips a little more closed so you don't slobber, and let your tongue peek out a little more slowly. Maybe that will help. Change up your technique a bit. If it doesn't work, at least it will be fun practice.
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reader, eddie +, writes (7 February 2006):
eddie is verified as being by the original poster of the question It's not the breath. I know that for sure. I thought maybe she didn't feel very close to me.
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reader, ourchosenpaths +, writes (7 February 2006):
 It sounds like either she has disliked french-kissing for a long time and not felt like she should make any kind of big deal, and now she's just tired of putting up with doing something she doesn't have to. OR, you might want to test the bad breath hypothesis.
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reader, smeedle  +, writes (6 February 2006):
 What we like when we first meet is not always what we want when we are together for longer, sometimes kissing intimatly can lead to sex, if you kiss your wife passionatly in this way do you always go on to have sex, she may see it as your way of initiating sex and she may not want as much sex as you do so she avoids kissing, that way she can controle the situation more.
think about what happens when you french kiss, where does it lead and where are you when it happens, if she is in the middle of the ironing and you start passionate kissing and then expect it to lead onto sex, well maybe she just wants to finishe the ironing.
If on the other hand you only french kiss in bed well it maybe that she is trying desperatly to reduce the times you both have sex, she may not want it quite as oftern as you, you need to ask her but remember if you ask the queation you must accept the answer and that may for you be hard but at least you can both try and sort it out.
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reader, mkemmet +, writes (6 February 2006):
Hi there - I am in the same situation (as your wife) in a long-term relationship. What changed? You might laugh, but his breath changed! It sounds like your wife 1) really doesn't like french kissing, which would be a little strange if she did like it in the past, or 2) is avoiding it for some other reason that she doesn't want to tell you for fear of hurting your feelings. It might be a long shot, but try a mint or a piece of gum before the next time you're in that situation. Good luck!
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