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writes: I used to date the girl my best friend now lives with. I see them both all the time, and she has always been very touchy-feely.She'll lie across the sofa and watch tv with her head on my lap and she'll hug me all the time. we always joke about how much we 'love' each other, to make my friend uncomfortable, but we both convince him it means nothing.The worst it's gotton was she jumed ontop of me under a balnket and we pretended to be having sex to see what he'd do.I know they both are madly in love, and having them both happy makes me very happy, but I cant stop thinking about her now, sexually.I have endless dreams about her, and I have stopped seeing them as much because I dont want to get aroused if we mess about.Sorry for the long explanation, i just dont know what to do anymore...
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reader, ourchosenpaths +, writes (18 February 2006):
 It sounds like she's using you to get the other guys attention, or see if he gets jealous.
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reader, smeedle  +, writes (18 February 2006):
 What on earth are the two of you playing at, you say he is your mate, then why are you both doing this to him.
Put yourself in his shoes, would you think that the stuff you get up to was innocent, no I dont think you would, you really if you are truthfull not like it, and while we are on the subject it is not so innocent is it, you fancy her and get an erection when you are near her.
Ask yourself do you want her enough to hurt your friend in the worst possible way, do you want to loose him forever and start a relationship with this girl who it is obviouse does not love your friend as much as you state, or why is she fooling around with you.
People only try to make others jeolouse if they doubt the relationship.
My advice is you do some real soul searching, this girl or your mate, you cannot have both and believe me you will not be able to hide and deny your feelings for her from him for much longer.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 February 2006): I would never treat a man I 'loved' like that! My advice is to stay away from this woman. You're going to lose your friend over her. She doesn't really love him-she's playing a childish game.
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