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anonymous
writes: I feel a fool... I have been sending $$ to a girl overseas that I met in a sex site ...for 2 years... because I felt I loved her and I felt sorry for her. She says she loves me but she keeps asking for more $$ for herself .. and to help her family ..I want to end it with her but I like her and do not want to hurt her too much. Now I am scared she is going to blackmail me for more and more and if I try to finish the relationship, she knows my address and phone number. Help..... any ideas please?
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reader, ourchosenpaths +, writes (18 February 2006):
She's using you bro, don't give her another cent.
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reader, smeedle +, writes (18 February 2006):
Stop! what are you thinking, you are being taken for a ride.
Change your phone number and go ex-directory, she is not likely to jump on a plane and come visit so that is ok.
Do`nt send any more money, in fact do not send any more e-mails, from right now stop the relationship.
You are obviously lonely or you would not have fallen for this scam, girls like her prey on vulnerable people, are you married is that why you feel she may blackmail you, if this is the case you really must tell your partner as finding out any other way leads only to disaster and heartache more than being honest will bring.
Sex sites are just not healthy they are not real, you cannot meet a genuine person for a life long meaningfull realtionship on a sex site.
Go out and join a club , a gym something other than this seedy sex site stuff.
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reader, nellybelly18 +, writes (18 February 2006):
lol just end it shes just using you for money you dont need her especially a long distance relationship
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