I found pictures of nude women on my b/f's computer!
Q. I found a bunch of pictures of naked women on my boyfriend's cd and a small sex video. Is there something I should be worried about? I feel that he has a problem? Or also feeling that he's not getting enough sex in our relationship which leads me to ...
A. 10 December 2009: The question I have for you is: does it look like internet porn or does it look like regular girls he might know? More importantly, does it look like girls you've seen him hanging out with?
If it does not, and it is internet porn, then stop fre... (read in full...)
Weak erections
Q. Why cant the porn I watch on the internet get me hard like before? When my girlfriend said she was gunna give me handjobs and blowjobs I just stopped getting really hard when I watch porn. Why is this? and will eating bananas and fish help my ...
A. 10 December 2009: I want to clarify my post a little...
the brain is of course the organ behind all sex as, for men, it wouldn't be possible to get erect without a consciousness ... just like it wouldn't be living without a consciousness either. In fact, you'd be... (read in full...)
Weak erections
Q. Why cant the porn I watch on the internet get me hard like before? When my girlfriend said she was gunna give me handjobs and blowjobs I just stopped getting really hard when I watch porn. Why is this? and will eating bananas and fish help my ...
A. 10 December 2009: satin, you are right about the biggest sex organ being the brain... for women. Men work a lot, lot simpler than that. It's, for the most part, stroke and repeat.
I think we are misinterpretation what he is saying, as well. I read it as him sayi... (read in full...)
Is it ok to do it with the shower head?
Q. I'm thirteen years old and i can't stop masturbating. I just figured out the best way to do it (shower head) and I'm in love with it! is it ok?...
A. 10 December 2009: As far as the water goes (going to toss this out there since no one else touched on it)... the water is heavily treated and there shouldn't be anything in it that can hurt you, either. That's assuming you use it with the water turned on...
Then,... (read in full...)
I get all uptight around women and I want to unbend a little
Q. Guys and gals, I have a problem. For a long, long time I've convinced myself that I'm just incompatible with women. That I'm not handsome enough, fit enough, funny enough etc to draw the attention of any females. I've also told myself that women ...
A. 10 December 2009: A girl wont flirt back with you as heavily as your friend made it out to seem less you show interest in them. They will flirt lightly if you don't, but if you show interest back it shows to them that you are really enjoying their company and they ... (read in full...)
Torn in two
Q. After meeting my fiancé at our former place of work, I thought we were meant for each other and were going to be together forever. We had the chemistry, both on a emotional and physical level but it's slowly evaporated over time. Then our mutual ...
A. 7 December 2009: I think you need to break it off with your fiance withOUT telling him that you cheated. Telling him that you cheated is just shifting the guilt from your shoulders to his. He shouldn't have to live with that burden, you should. As CaringGuy ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend masturbates and leaves the evidence in unusual places
Q. Okay soo my boyfriend of almost 3 years tends to look up porn online alot not everysday but when im not around....this really bothers mee...i know its normal but it makes me sick when he maturbates into out trash can in the bedroom or stuff like ...
A. 7 December 2009: Agreeing with CaringGuy: all guys do it and they will until their parts stop working. You need to stop freaking out thinking this has any indication on you, because it does not! It doesn't matter how many times you guys have sex, he will still ... (read in full...)
I think it's time to stop lying and fess up!
Q. To get to the point he's 26, I'm 16. We've been [secretly] dating for over a year and out of paranoia(if that makes sense), I've never told my parents. He's my mother's best friend's son and helps my father out a lot. So there's a lot of trust g...
A. 7 December 2009: mmmm, I think he'd actually be in a lot of trouble considering you're 16. No? He could end up in jail for a very long time depending on what state you live in.
Just keep that in mind.... (read in full...)
Should I continue to push the subject until she deals with the problem?
Q. My girlfriend and I have been together almost 2 years. Everything has been going smoothly until as of late. First, her parents, even after years, still invite her ex over to their house. When I say how much this bothers me, they don't care. They...
A. 2 December 2009: I think you've just learned a lesson that I just learned a few months back: if an ex is still anywhere in the picture, bail quick! As the poster below stated, "if her heart ain't free, then she's in a relationship", and that's spoken like the ... (read in full...)
I saw my best friend and my boyfriend getting it on together!!! What to do?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years. my best friend we were so close, we did everything together, even having bath together, she was like a sister to me, i felt so comfortable with her. and my best friend and boyfriend were friends from when ...
A. 2 December 2009: Well, I'd say you're already half way there after ditching the ex friend. She definitely betrayed you with this act, so I'm sure that completely sealed her fate. The other half? Ditch the boyfriend... he cheated on you, so why stick around? Y... (read in full...)
I have hpv, do I talk to my partner about it? I think I got it from him!
Q. I went to tha gyn a few months ago and found out i have hpv. I have only had three partnersz since i been sexually active but only two that i was serious with. I didnt have any symptoms before, but i think my current partner gave it to me. Now im ...
A. 2 December 2009: Get the vaccine, too, if you haven't already. I don't know if you have to wait until this batch of the virus is treated or not, but it will go away in a few years if you do need to wait.
As you have discovered, the majority of HPV strands ... (read in full...)
If I am pregnant what do I do? Am I pregnant?
Q. i think im pregnant. but im not sure. im still young and im scared to tell anyone because my parents will kill me and i dont want anyone thinking anything bad. it was just once and it got carried away. it happend 2 3 weeks agoo.. and im supposed to ...
A. 2 December 2009: I'm so embarrassed... I meant to type "I'm not a girl" in my earlier response. Ha! Just wanted to mark the correction to make sense of the sentence :)... (read in full...)
How do I know what is more important
Q. Which do you think is more important? Marrying your best friend, or someone who is great in bed?...
A. 2 December 2009: What about someone you get along with? Some who you align with perfectly; whom you understand fully; whom you get along with well (there will be fights); someone who understands you; someone who shares interests in you and you guys genuinely have a ... (read in full...)
If I am pregnant what do I do? Am I pregnant?
Q. i think im pregnant. but im not sure. im still young and im scared to tell anyone because my parents will kill me and i dont want anyone thinking anything bad. it was just once and it got carried away. it happend 2 3 weeks agoo.. and im supposed to ...
A. 2 December 2009: Ok, take a deep breath and relax, for starters. You are very frantic right now, and understandably so. Which, so you know, could be a contributing factor to a delayed period. Now, I'm not a guy, but this did happen to my ex: she was so stressed ... (read in full...)
I want sex all the time and I don't want too!
Q. well i have a problem me and my girlfriend have started having sex resently and ever since we had our first time together i cant quit wanting sex with her or anyone i am like always horny now and this has been going on for like a week now can ...
A. 2 December 2009: I'm 25 and still very horny. Welcome to manhood ;)
Just need to learn to control your urges, is all. Judging by the age group you selected, I'd say you have another 15 years until that "goes away"... calms down is more like it.
You're pe... (read in full...)
One night stand couldn't get it up
Q. i (attempted) to have a one night stand with this guy. things were getting really hot and heavy when he asked if i had a condom i told him i didnt we kept fooling around but he couldnt get hard then he went to go check if he had a condom but he said ...
A. 2 December 2009: My guesses?
Alcohol
Trying his hardest to not become aroused
Combination of the two
I can read through the lines of your post that you're thinking him not getting hard has something to do with you or what he thinks of you. I can assure you: ... (read in full...)
Will the curve and size of my penis cause trouble?
Q. Hi, i'm 16 and soon to loose my virginity with my girlfriend. My penis is 5.9" in length and about 5.6" in girth. My penis also curves up and to the left. Can anyone tell me weather this will be a problem or if there will be any downsides during ...
A. 2 December 2009: It should not be a problem. Those things between our legs come in many, many shapes and sizes, and they have so for hundreds and thousands of years. So, nope, shouldn't be an issue. Take it slow, though, don't want to go hurting your girlfriend ... (read in full...)
I think I'm falling for him but I have a boyfriend...
Q. Someone please help me! I have a boyfriend (let's call him G) and we have only been dating for about a month but it feels so much longer! I love being with him, he makes me smile and feel happy. But recently there's been another guy.(let's call him ...
A. 1 December 2009: Sadly we cannot tell you who to choose. Not only because that is your decision alone to make, but also because we don't have nearly enough details to make a judgement on our own.
The only thing we can tell you is to make a decision and stick wi... (read in full...)
I think I might be pregnant, but I don't know how to tell
Q. What are the chances that I could be pregnant? My last period was on the 9th November and I had sex on the 24th about 5 times and on the 25th once. All times we used the withdrawral method. I've realised I've been very stupid, and it won't be happ...
A. 1 December 2009: Actually, it is not too early to tell if you are or are not. There are pregnancy tests that will work now (after a few days). You can take one now for a quick, albeit not 100%, answer and then take another in about a weeks time to confirm.... (read in full...)
We both said we'd delete our Facebook profiles but she still hasn't deleted hers yet!
Q. hi, ok i posted a question a couple of days, and here i am. Well i'm 22, I'm 2nd year university, i'm dating this girl for 5 months, everything is fine... but a couple of days i began to worry a lot... i'm texting her 3 maybe 4 times as usual. ...
A. 1 December 2009: Sounds like you are caught up on her past? It's a facebook page, not a singles dating board or anything. I think you are being overly paranoid, personally. If things are going smoothly in real life, I doubt you have anything to worry about in the ... (read in full...)
Help! She cheated on me and I forgave her but I can't get the incident out of my head...
Q. I was dating my girlfriend for 2 years, she recently felt tied down and is in her last year of high school and says she wants to be free and able to go out with her friends. she tells me she loves me and can see us being together in the future she ...
A. 1 December 2009: The only thing I can ask you: why bother? I know that's a harsh statement, but you're young... very young. You will have plenty of girls and women you will meet and like, so why be so concerned what one did after you two broke up? She wanted her... (read in full...)
I think I'm falling for him but I have a boyfriend...
Q. Someone please help me! I have a boyfriend (let's call him G) and we have only been dating for about a month but it feels so much longer! I love being with him, he makes me smile and feel happy. But recently there's been another guy.(let's call him ...
A. 1 December 2009: Agreed with stront. Choose one and be done with it. If you want to stay with G, then tell D to go away: he is doing nothing more than adding to your level of confusion. If you want to give D a try, then break up with G first before doing ... (read in full...)
Three years down the line and he's still never told me he loves me...
Q. Why won't my boyfriend of 3+ years not profess his love for me...?...
A. 1 December 2009: I think this is a question you should be asking your boyfriend. He will have his own reason for not doing so yet.... (read in full...)
Problems when my g/f is on top...
Q. Hello, well I'm kind of worried because whenever my girlfriend is on top, sometimes my penis cracks, like if you were to crack your nuckles...the very first time it happened it hurt a little bit, now I just got used to it...is it bad that this is ...
A. 27 May 2009: She's making the range of motion to far in one direction. I have felt the crack that you are speaking of and it is not comfortable. Speak up and let her know now to go too far in that direction or take your hands and guide her hips so that she ... (read in full...)
How do I approach him about trying swinging or introducing another in the bedroom?
Q. Hi there! Well, I am in a 2 year relationship and things are just great. However time went by and sex just isn t the same but I'm a very creative person, so I have always lots of kinky ideas and games. My bf is a dear, really good looking and so n...
A. 21 May 2009: Two things:
1) Once you open that can of worms, it's never getting closed again! He will want to do it again if he likes it and you wont be able to say no because you already allowed it to happen.
2) I have heard that the majority of rela... (read in full...)
Do I continue with my new boyfriend or see if I can work things out with my other friend?
Q. So i had this guy friend, and we decided to start a courtship... and it did go well, but later on he made up these stupid excuses like" you remind me of myself when i was like that" and "your voice sounds like a 13 year old, your so imature" "your a ...
A. 18 May 2009: You didn't really propose a question. However, I will say that, from the sounds of it, you'll be much better off with the new guy.... (read in full...)
Was that her period? Or is she pregnant?
Q. My girlfriend and I avoided having sex around her fertile time and she hasn't had any pregnancy symptoms. Her periods are usually really short with heavy cramps and a relatively light flow. She hadn't started on the day she was supposed to so we ...
A. 17 May 2009: Well, it possibly could have been her period since it was suppose to come anyway. However, that being said, you make it sound like you guys do not use a condom or any kind of protection (pill, etc.) when having actual sex. If that is the case, ... (read in full...)
I just don't see what would be so hard about spending one weekend sober with his pregnant fiance??
Q. I'm 19 and my boyfriend is 23... I'm 5 months pregnant and were engaged, before i got pregnant we had a very active social life but only at weekends... occasionaly he would go to the pub without me as i work shifts but since ive became pregnant he ...
A. 9 May 2009: Sounds like your fiance is an alcoholic. Sounds like you need to get him into a rehabilitation program. You'll have to attend with him to encourage him to go.... (read in full...)
We are in a long distance relationship, does anyone know what to do to get a visa?
Q. hi im with my lover who currently lives in bodrum i love him so much and want to be with him vis vers hes currently in uni and he wants 2 cum 2 england after hes finished how do i go about getting him a visa what do i need and what do i have 2 do ...
A. 7 May 2009: I agree with anon... don't send any cash to him. He should be able to pay for a visa. They do not cost much at all, in most cases!
As for how to get a visa? He would have the visit the English consulate in Turkey and apply for the appropri... (read in full...)
Do you have any suggestions on men's colognes that don't smell too strong?
Q. Hey. My problem is not too pressing, but nevertheless it is important to me. My clothes often smell bad when they come out of the dryer. And even if they didn't, I would still want to smell good, so do you have any suggestions on men's colognes that ...
A. 30 April 2009: Honestly, I think I'm going to suggest something that everyone else hasn't suggested: go to the department store and look for a cologne that smells good to you.
People are suggesting colognes that smell good on them/their partner. You may not ... (read in full...)
Is she just the rebound girl?
Q. okay here's the story. my girlfriend and i went out for about 2 years. were both 15. and we broke up 2 or 3 weeks ago idk because she has to many bad habits smoking,drinkin, and always flirting with her ex. yeah she may seem like a bad girlfriend ...
A. 30 April 2009: It's potential that she is the rebound girl, to be honest. However, DO NOT LET THIS GET TO YOU!!! The best thing you can do in a relationship is determine if the person is right for you or not. This means to determine if their habits and ways and ... (read in full...)
We want to try oral sex, but we're nervous about the consequences
Q. Ok, My boyfriend and I have been talking about having oral sex lately. We've been going out for almost six months. The desire to have oral sex isn't one sided, we both want to. We're both still reluctant because of the consequences. Should we wait ...
A. 30 April 2009: Hmmm "get it over with"?? A person who is ready to do it wouldn't choose to phrase a question like that. It's like you want to do something you think will hurt or will be uncomfortable. Someone who is ready would never phrase it by saying they ... (read in full...)
Do guys just want us girls for sex?
Q. is it true that when a guy is with a girl it is mostly for sex? most of my guy friends say they love a girl but then say i wanna do her tonight....
A. 29 April 2009: At your age? Definitely. And sadly that will be the case up until they are out of college. It wont be until after college most boys will finally become mature enough where they are ready for more than just sex.
Granted, that's the status q... (read in full...)
Don't think I can have a baby that's a product of rape
Q. I have an issue I hope you can help me with.I am currently pregnant with my second child. My first is almost 7 months old-I am about 2- 3 mo along. Dilemma #1 I am seperated from my husband and divorcing him as soon as the papers get thru...it's not ...
A. 29 April 2009: Your best bet to figure out who the father is will be to have a test once the baby is born. I think you'll be hard pressed to pin point who is the father otherwise.
Answer to your second question: yes, your body can handle two pregnanc... (read in full...)
Fed up of my cheating boyfriend
Q. Me and my current boyfriend have been through a lot. We've been together for a year and a half and during that time hes cheated on me 3 times, but I never let him go because I'm head over heels in love with him. Lately he's been showing less and ...
A. 28 April 2009: My two cents? Dump your current boyfriend and get with this new friend. Why?
Because your current boyfriend has cheated on you _3_ times and you still come back to him. This is bad because he knows that he can cheat and not worry about loosing ... (read in full...)
How can I achieve orgasm through penetration?
Q. i love havin sex and i would like to achieve an orgasim through oenetration....i want it to be special and i dont know wat to do coz i am relaxed and i really enjoy it so could u please help me achieve an orgasim...
A. 27 April 2009: I hate to do nothing more than statistics, but here it goes: 50-60% of women never experience an orgasm through penetration alone.
Also, you are not truly relaxed. You giving yourself anxiety about thinking about trying to achieve and that is ... (read in full...)
How often is there help on here?
Q. How often is there help on here?...
A. 27 April 2009: This site is very helpful, in my opinion. I know I have left words with people that have really given them a lot of help and bearing. I have even asked questions here myself and the answers I receive are typically very helpful. Keep in mind y... (read in full...)
Most nights, I can't fall asleep until 5AM
Q. Can anyone explain why i dont sleep? its 1:03 here and i cant sleep i just dont so i end up just watching a film (currently reservoir dogs) i normaly fall to sleep at 5ish any help?...
A. 9 April 2009: Sounds like you're an insomniac. You may want to talk to a doctor/parents about it and have yourself tested for insomnia.... (read in full...)
No matter what I do...I cant orgasm
Q. Ok, so i am 17 years old and will be turning 18 in 12 days, i just started having sex with my boyfriend in october of this year. Although we have only been having sex for a couple months we have "done it" many times, (by many i mean at least 3 days ...
A. 8 April 2009: For starters, it is very common for females to not orgasm with strict vaginal intercourse. I think it's somewhere around 50 to 60 percent of women do not orgasm from intercourse. Try positions where one of you can, at the same time, provide ... (read in full...)
Is this a guy problem
Q. My boyfriend and I have been having sex for about 5 months now. We dont' have it very often, but when we do most of the time he lasts pretty long. Recently though he has been cumming a lot quicker than before and he's starting to worry that there is ...
A. 3 April 2009: I think you need to fill us in on how long "pretty long" is. 15 mins, about right... 45 mins? Long time. If he's at the 45 minutes and getting quicker, than he's becoming more comfortable. If he's at 15 mins and is getting quicker, then he's just ... (read in full...)
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