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writes:is it true that when a guy is with a girl it is mostly for sex? most of my guy friends say they love a girl but then say i wanna do her tonight. Reply to this Question
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (2 May 2009):
 Yup, and keep that in mind next time a guy seems to want to promise you the stars and the moon but has his hands down your pants.
There is someone out there who wants you and not just for sex. Just got to make sure you spot him between the toads. And kissing a lot of frogs to find your prince gets you STD's.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 April 2009): Oh, silly me - and also the weekly shopping and walking the dog!
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (29 April 2009):
 You forgot wash the dog and take out the garbage...
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 April 2009): Not at all - there's also the laundry, ironing, cooking, cleaning and keeping the kids amused.
But at that age when a boy discovers that his penis does another job besides pissing through, and his hormones are pointing him in the right direction, he'll be thinking about having sex a lot.
Bear in mind that most of it is in the imagination, and a lot of them would run a mile in embarrassment if an experienced woman were to offer the use of her body. Also bear in mind that boys your age brag a lot about things they've not yet experienced.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 April 2009): Sex is a big part of the reason, but boys your age like to talk big anyway. Half of them are probably not having sex at all!
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reader, Blondie_x  +, writes (29 April 2009):
Yeah I have 2 agree. You are very young so in MOST cases yes they do. But not in ALL cases! Some lads are lovely. But u shouldnt be having sex at your age anyway. But when it is legal dont rush into anything! x
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reader, Mr Me +, writes (29 April 2009):
 At your age? Definitely. And sadly that will be the case up until they are out of college. It wont be until after college most boys will finally become mature enough where they are ready for more than just sex.
Granted, that's the status quo, but not necessarily 100% true for all men. There will be some guys in college who are mature enough to want more out of a relationship than sex.
I think anon male has a good piece of info: "A lot of guys will absolutely lie their asses off to get a girl into the bed. Don't ever forget this."
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 April 2009): A lot of guys will absolutely lie their asses off to get a girl into the bed. Don't ever forget this.
Don't ever assume some guy is "not the type" to do this either. The most effective players are the ones who don't seem like players at all until after they've got you.
But not all guys are like this. Many guys are not. You just have to look at guys on a case-by-case basis. It's rare to find a teenage guy who would not love to screw every second or third girl he sees every day, but these are just urges. We also get urges to punch certain people in the face during an argument sometimes too, but that doesn't mean we do it every time that thought enters our mind.
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reader, siiLviia  +, writes (29 April 2009):
Most guys do.
Personally, I've never had the luck to meet a guy who actually wants more. Some of them will just go simple and ask for sex (if your will is strong, you'll say no) but other are just full of it and you believe everything they say... you feel used and really stupid for believing it, you think "I should've known" when it's really not your fault...
I got a little off topic... In conclussion, most guys just want sex, but if they care enough to be patient and wait until youre ready, then its more than just that.
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reader, Danielepew +, writes (29 April 2009):
 At your age, boys are desperate to have sex and some won't hesitate to speak sweet nothings just to get a girl in bed. It's a huge discovery they are making, too, and sometimes they won't really care what happens.
Some boys your age can also fall in love, and want sex as a discovery but also as a natural result of their love.
I guess that the long-term advice I could give you is that you always need to be on the alert. At any age, someone will want to abuse you, and you need to keep your eyes open to prevent them from doing it.
Also, you need to keep your eyes open, in case someone truly wants to be your knight in shining armor. He will want sex, too, but that's not all he will want.
I hope this helps, and I wish you the best.
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reader, RaeMay +, writes (29 April 2009):
 most guys mostly want sex because of there ragin hormones. but when the guy finds the right girl that will change. ask them why they want to do her.
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reader, niki20 +, writes (29 April 2009):
 at your age most likely. but as you get older it can get worse. but there are some genuine guys out there that do just want the company w them and treat sex like its a privelege not a need for them.
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