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We both said we'd delete our Facebook profiles but she still hasn't deleted hers yet!

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Question - (1 December 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 2 December 2009)
A male France age 36-40, *oom writes:

hi, ok i posted a question a couple of days, and here i am. Well i'm 22, I'm 2nd year university, i'm dating this girl for 5 months, everything is fine... but a couple of days i began to worry a lot... i'm texting her 3 maybe 4 times as usual. I'm calling her to often. Don't know is it the stress of my exams, cause it's really tough: 1700 people and only 300 places free.

Or it's just i began to be jealous. 3 months ago, we promised to delete our facebook profiles, cause i had too many girl friends and comments, and the same for her but as i realised and found out she didn't delete hers and she even told me that she had our photos together on it... and i saw no photos of us, nothing.

Am i being paranoid, cause we talk and see each other each day and i didn't find no sign of coldness, or something like that... she bought tickets for holliday, and we planned a lot of things... but is this jealousy, or my six sense tells me that something is wrong?! and should i tell her about facebook, that i found out?

Thank you a lot for your answers.

good luck

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A male reader, doom France +, writes (2 December 2009):

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doom agony auntbut she explained me that it's only university friends...and in fact i was wrong...she did put our photos together....but still i don't like it.

thx by the way

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A female reader, KANDIWRPR United States +, writes (2 December 2009):

KANDIWRPR agony auntwell you can ask her y she didnt delete it

like you did

but if you feel that she isnt doing anything

that will hurt you its fine for her to have a facebook

just tell her and yourself taht you guys shouldnt

flirt with others now that you have each other

haah im the jealous type

so if it was me ill b mad that

he still has a faccebook when we agreed to deleting it

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A male reader, Mr Me United States +, writes (1 December 2009):

Mr Me agony auntSounds like you are caught up on her past? It's a facebook page, not a singles dating board or anything. I think you are being overly paranoid, personally. If things are going smoothly in real life, I doubt you have anything to worry about in the cyberworld.

By the way, welcome to the 21st century: anyone you date in this day in age will have a facebook, myspace, linkdin, twitter, and/or etc. account and it will have comments made from before you knew her by others. This includes past exes. This does not mean they mean anything to her, it's just how those sites work: once it's on there, it's pretty much there or painful to spend time removing.

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