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male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I was dating my girlfriend for 2 years, she recently felt tied down and is in her last year of high school and says she wants to be free and able to go out with her friends. she tells me she loves me and can see us being together in the future she just needs a little time and space. a week and a half after our break up she called me real upset telling me she messed her whole life up and was really scared she was going to lose me forever because she got really drunk and ended up having sex with someone. I was real upset but i didnt want to lose her no matter what so i tried to brush it off.Now its been about 2 weeks and the incident is coming in my head and I cant stop thinking about what they did together, did she like it with him? did they talk during? its all just so hard. she says she never wanted to do anything like that but is she telling the truth? will I ever be able to get over it and stop thinking about it?
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reader, KANDIWRPR +, writes (2 December 2009):
 yea you will never get over itits harsh but the truthask her how it was with himif you really want to knowmake sweet love to her and make surethat she forgets that guybut if you feel that you really cant forget her and be happy like you guys once was than i suggest trying to leavebut like i said you will never forget this incident..
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reader, Mr Me +, writes (1 December 2009):
 The only thing I can ask you: why bother? I know that's a harsh statement, but you're young... very young. You will have plenty of girls and women you will meet and like, so why be so concerned what one did after you two broke up?She wanted her freedom, you gave it to her, and now she's going off and making her own choices (or mistakes). If you want, be a good friend and provide her support, but I wouldn't hold your breath for getting back together with her. I would just move on and find another girlfriend.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2009): Once a cheater, always a cheater. Decide based on that.
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