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writes:alright, kind of a long question here. There is this girl in my class at university who is really cute and i want to get to know her/ask her out, but a few things, first, i am really really shy and usually have problems starting conversations with girls and talking to them unless they say something to me first, second im afraid that she is out of my league, because she is gorgeous and im not the hottest guy on campus and third there is a bit of a height difference (she is taller), its not a huge difference id say maybe an inch or so. So in closing how can i get past these and talk to her and maybe eventually ask her out?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 October 2011): If you know where she socialises maybe you could just turn up there and get talking to her, by saying something like you're in class? and gradually get talking about your course, what she thinks of it.
Then move on to asking her about herself, where she's from etc.. If she is interested she will ask you questions too. If not then just move on no big deal...
Do not worry about being shy, most girls find it sweet if a shy guy approaches them, even if you get embarrassed and awkward if she is a nice girl she will appreciate the effort you are making.
Unfortunately thought it is something you are going to have to overcome. If you get knocked back just forget about her, pick yourself up and move on.
Good Luck.x
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reader, cheers  +, writes (2 October 2011):
 If you want to date her, pls do something. Put word "shy" in your closet and get your COURAGE. You CAN DO it! In order to impress, pls dress well with perfect hair-do and speak confidently. Be daring and Smile pls.Talk somethings like weather,fashion,hottest news, etc. Take this pick-up lines. Hi,Girl.that's a nice dress or do you join party this wkend? How abt go together?Be creative to create the moments. ok?Wish you Smooth beginning and Hope your dream come true soon
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reader, Molly0102  +, writes (2 October 2011):
One of the most attractive qualities in a guy would be confidence. So I guess it wouldn't hurt if you put aside that shyness and just go up to her and talk to her and introduce yourself. If you're still uncomfortable at that thought, maybe you can sit next to her during lectures? And pretend to ask her things the lecturer says. Good luck! Be more confident!
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