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11 August 2010: Never agree to stop contact with a friend or an ex for your partner or girl/boyfriend. People ya'll have to realise that Not ONE of us in this world 'Belongs' to anyone else or is theirs exclusively, no other relationship in this life is exclusive ...
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Should I take my husband back or keep the new guy?
Q. My husband decided one day he just didnt want to be with me anymore.....this was back in October of 2009. He accused me of having an affair and being a horrible wife when in fact he was just trying to justify his actions. Now he wants me back. ...
A. 10 September 2010: My husband decided one day he just didnt want to be with me anymore.....?
Question answered, who could ever trust anyone who does that to them? Not me!
No matter what you decide to do about your new relationship I wouldn't even consider being wi... (read in full...)
A jealous partner...
Q. Never agree to stop contact with a friend or an ex for your partner or girl/boyfriend. People ya'll have to realise that Not ONE of us in this world 'Belongs' to anyone else or is theirs exclusively, no other relationship in this life is exclusive ...
A. 10 September 2010: On the contrary it's very black n white & has to be to be sure that everyone knows exactly where they stand, I have my share of ex's one I'm friends with, one I stopped all contact with and one I gradually lost contact with over the years.
The ... (read in full...)
Can he be a virgin at 40 plus???
Q. I've known this guy just under a year- both in our early 40's- we met at work but dont work in same place. We have a few friends in common and others who arent. Since we met we have seen loads of each other - we now see each other every week or so, ...
A. 1 November 2009: He may be a virgin, he may have a physical problem that he's self conscious about, he might not believe in sex outside of marriage, whatever the reason you won't know unless you ask him, or alternatively wait until he feels able to tell you!... (read in full...)
How can I retract my foreskin?
Q. I am 15 and I can not retract my foreskin. Is there something wrong and what can I do to start retracting it?...
A. 1 November 2009: This is called Phimosis, look it up on the net and good luck.... (read in full...)
I consistently dawged this woman out and I need to make amends!
Q. Hi, I have a huge issue that I created for myself. FOur years ago I meet the woman of my dreams but at the time I didnt realize it. I didnt realize it until recently. She did everything in her power to please me and because I was so bitter of...
A. 1 November 2009: Make it up to her, a few dozen huge romantic gestures of a kind she will like e.g. No flowers if she has hay fever e.t.c. would be a good start, then be there for her, love her, do whatever it takes until she trusts you and wants you in her life ... (read in full...)
Should I ignore him or ask him about it?
Q. There is this guy I have had a crush on for two semesters now, he is really outgoing, he knows a lot of women and flirts a lot too. I can not even got back into the Art Building without him "flirting" with me. So I was walking on the opposite sid...
A. 31 October 2009: Please please don't snitch on him when it's not true, it's not only mean it completely undermines girls who are REALLY being harassed. I would just ignore him completely & when he starts bothering you tell him if he want's a conversation he can ... (read in full...)
I'm self conscious about loose skin after losing weight!
Q. Hi ive just started dating really nice man. Ive been single a yr and im a bit out of practice. I just wandering how long do people wait until u start sleeing with someone? Im a bit body concious and dreading taking my clothes of to a new man. Ive ...
A. 31 October 2009: Don't do anything whilst your feeling uncomfortable, wait until you trust him completely. If he asks you why your reluctant that's the perfect opportunity to tell him about your concern..........if it helps wear something that might hide your tummy ... (read in full...)
Should I have sex with her when we aren't in a relationship?
Q. There's this girl that I've know since the 6th grade and I've always thought she had a nice body. We're in the 9th grade now. We started talking over the internet and one thing led to another and we ende up having internet sex and now se wants me to ...
A. 31 October 2009: Your wise to be wary of this encounter, if she doesn't have the same feelings for you, you could end up easily being ridiculed by her after any encounter in the toilets. Is she doing this because she thinks it's what you want? Tell her that your ... (read in full...)
How do I approach this without making it an ordeal?
Q. Dear Cupid, My boyfriend and I have been dating close to a year and are happy together. Like all couples we have our fights and problems, but we get along well and we definitely see this as having future potential. The problem is the quinte...
A. 31 October 2009: Why have you been fairly unsuccessful at having him hang out with your friends in the past, yet he is quite adamant to see us all together with his friends? Is this a one sided relationship? Let him know that your uncomfortable, if he was taking ... (read in full...)
Will first time sex hurt if you've been fingered?
Q. If you've gotten fingered and it didnt hurt at all, will it hurt when you have sex for the firs time?...
A. 31 October 2009: Possibly yes, if your hymen is still intact & you haven't yet had full penetrative sex then it more than likely will hurt somewhat, good news is it doesn't last long.... (read in full...)
I broke up with him! Is he an abuser?
Q. My boyfriend of four years(long distance for about 2 years, he lives in england) have just broke up because i have decided to end it after her verbally attacked me over a ridiculous reason. Here it goes...so my boyfriend is 25, lives alone pays his ...
A. 31 October 2009: Yes............he used abusive language, you didn't, if he's going to lose his composure in such a negative way over something as trivial as shoes then how would he react if you disagreed over something a lot more important? You made the right ... (read in full...)
Should I leave my husband of 23 years? Is this the grass-is-greener syndrome? Mid life crisis?
Q. Agony Aunts: I have asked my husband of 23 years years for a divorce. We have our house on the market. We are living under one roof until the house sells which is working very well so far. We have a 19 year old girl and a 12 year old boy. My h...
A. 31 October 2009: 26 years without an orgasm with your partner.....you deserve a sainthood............move on & let him improve his own life!... (read in full...)
He asks me to split the check - is he really interested in me?
Q. I'm a little old fashioned and always had the idea that when a man is truly interested in you he pays for dinner. I've been on four dates with this guy and each time he ask to split the check. Is this guy really into me?...
A. 31 October 2009: Perhaps this gives you some insight into the way he views a relationship.....as equals with everything, question is, is that what you want or do you want a relationship where you are treated as extra special?... (read in full...)
Should I tell him what happened? I'm leaning towards no.
Q. My boyfriend of a year and I broke up over a month ago and at first we were still sleeping together until I told him it would end up hurting me and we needed to stop. He had been really mean and unappreciative of me during the relationship and he ...
A. 31 October 2009: Instead of wondering if you should tell him or not try asking yourself what kind of relationship you would like to have with anyone you are involved with? Is it one where you can feel free to discuss anything with a partner & feel that they will ... (read in full...)
I'm truly in love with my cousin!
Q. well there's so much to say i dont really know where to start. from the very beginning will make most sense. i've known my cousin Adrian ever since i was born. he's a year oler than me and we've always been very close. we told eachother everything, ...
A. 31 October 2009: You need to make a decision on what's more important to you? being the so called 'good girl' that you think your families want you to be OR being true to your heart & living a happy life? The fact that you haven't run away together makes me think ... (read in full...)
Ladies, is "friends with benefits" ever NOT an attempt to lure an unattainable guy into an exclusive relationship?
Q. I've been in a FWB before. I am being offered another one now. Let's get real. Is this ever something girls do and they're NOT just settling for it? Wouldn't they ALWAYS really rather have an exclusive relationship with that guy if he was ...
A. 17 June 2009: Lots of women do use the friends with benefits come-on to lure you into their bed hoping you will appreciate them more than just for sex.......I believe that a lot of women get their sexual desires and their emotional ones confused or intertwined... ... (read in full...)
10 years on and after so many time of saying she will give me oral it just doesn't happen!
Q. I know this has been asked many times. I've been with my wife a little over 10 years, she has never even tryed to give me oral, never touches me. She says she will and wants to but still won't. She knows I like oral etc. I always do for her. What ...
A. 17 June 2009: Have you tried setting the mood.......having a bath beforehand etc etc.......ensuring she has free time.........lying back naked in front of her on the bed with your arms behind your head??
When you say you have talked & talked..... (read in full...)
I am infatuated with a 20-year-old virgin.
Q. this is really weird for me. i am 20 years old; i am the type of girl that has no problem with men whatsoever, i have game, outgoing, flirty, laidback, what most guys want. i met this guy, lets say hes Andy, from my close friend, lets say john. i...
A. 17 June 2009: Invite him somewhere that you can be alone together to talk, for a coffee or a walk etc..........that way if he accepts you know he is just the shy kind.........if he declines he's scared! Simple... (read in full...)
Can 2 people with such different views/opinions get along?
Q. Hey. Sorry this is a bit long! I've been with my boyfriend for a year now and things have been great! we are not only in a relationship but recently we seem to have begun a good and deep friendship too. We've started to get much closer. We tell one...
A. 17 June 2009: Ask your boyfriend this question.........he could be harbouring a similar doubt.........if your getting closer than ever then why so many arguments? Is he scared of the intimacy, are you?... (read in full...)
I'm pregnant but my ex says I must have an abortion!
Q. I am pregnant and my ex boyfriend wants me to get an abortion. He is very stern about the idea and says that i am ruining his life and i am ruining his family goals. i am 19, he is 25. We split up about 5 months ago and then tried working things ...
A. 17 June 2009: I know how it feels to be so totally in love with someone that you would do anything for them & I learned the hard way that it means you are setting yourself up to get hurt! Just for the fact that he has insisted that you do this for him says that ... (read in full...)
Is there a good chance she will turn around and want me back?
Q. Ok so I was dating this girl for like 2 weeks, she had a bad relationship in the past I mean the guy hit her and cheated on her all the time. But anyways we really did fall in love with each other in that short time frame and get along so good as if ...
A. 17 June 2009: It takes a lot of time & a few emotional breakthroughs to get over a destructive relationship like the one your girlfriend was in! The best thing you can do for her is stay supportive, if she feels pressure or if you make demands on her she will ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend accidentally called me his ex's name
Q. Im in a happy lovong relationship with my boyfriend however the other day we were laying in bed together and i was randomly babbling (Something i do often :$) and he called me his Ex's name. I looked horrified and said what :| and he didnt deny it ...
A. 17 June 2009: U were justified in finding this upsetting initialy but having been in the same situation with my boyfriend only I was the one who used my ex's name,
I realise it was only as I was finally coming to terms with the past relationship ending & acce... (read in full...)
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