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writes:On the 7th November 2010, i started to talk to this guy online, he is 19 from California and im 16 from London, it wasnt on a dating site. So, we started talking on msn, it became every day that we would talk for at least 3 hours i asked if he had web cam, he said yes so we both started getting on we cam and we would talk on there instead, he told me how he couldnt stop thinking about me the last few days, he is gorgeous and i didnt know how he could be single. he said girls in the passed messed hima round, just like boys only wanted me for one thing only, (im still a virgin) we got to know eachother more and more he would try and impress me by saying he slept with many girls! when i finally got it out of him that he had sex with one girl only. Then about 3 weeks after us talking non stop, he just said, i think i love you. And i honestly never ever felt this way about anyone, i felt like i could do anything for this person, but at the same time im thinking, we havent even met, how is it even possible. Almost 6 months later a day hasnt past where i havent spoken to him for at least 2 hours. Im in love with him, we both have had bad times arguing about how this is going to work, trust was the main thing, he tells me everything i tell him everything. At first he would be such an ass to me because he didnt know if i would stick by him, but i have, he has realised im not like his ex's, he is coming to London in December, and im so excited, but the question is, does this all sound so strange to you, be hoenest?
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (3 May 2011):
 sweetie... i'm 51 and i'm in a long distance relationship and we are only 2 hours apart by car and it's killing us.think long and hard about whether or not you can really deal with the issues that arise from LDRs.it's not strange that he thinks he loves you but you should not base any life decisions on this statement. the two of you need to spend serious time together before you can decide if it's true love and worth the effort.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2011): Hey, i'm in the same situation. To outsiders, it seems such an unlikely occurance to fall in love with someone who you have never met. However, it is absolutely possible! I feel it's a positive way to start a relationship because you have chance to really get to know that person before anything physical comes into it!Just a word of warning though, long distance is really difficult! I'm struggling a great deal, it's really painful when they're so far away. but if your love and devotion to each other is strong then you'll get through it! Just make sure you're 100% certain about the guy :)I wish you the best of luck xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2011): No it's not at all strange, my girlfriend and I have been together for over ofur years and we were exactly the same. When she came to visit we were both incredibly nervous but after a few minutes you're both the same, sorry this is such a late answer, but seriously there is nothing wrong with a relationship like that and if it makes you both happy that is all that counts :)
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reader, matureflowerx +, writes (1 May 2011):
 I'm sorry but I think its strange and the fact that you came on here asking questions about it shows it is raising red flags in your head too. I don't believe you can truly love someone who you have never met
Maybe you are in love of the idea of him. Also he could be anyone lying about absolutely everything he tells you. He could have told you he is 19 but is actually 23 he said he's from america he could be from canada he may even have a gf.
I am in no way invalidating your feelings at all but I would move on and find a bf who you actually know and lives near by. You are too young for a ldr they are hard and you should be out enjoying your youth.
I hope everything works out for you x
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reader, littleBB  +, writes (1 May 2011):
No, this is not so strange, it is happening more and more nowadays. Yes, people can fall in love on the internet expeciallly if they see each other and talk live to each other, I have seen it happen more than once. Over the net people have more time to know each other for what they are and develop a friendship, in real life hormones confuse things too early sometimes.
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