I can't stop worrying that my fiancee will cheat when she's away!
Q. Can you really really help me? I'm 19 my fiancee's 17 and I'm in a bit of relationship trouble the now. My fiancee is on holiday in Slovenia, and I fear as though she is going to cheat on me, and every minute of the day I wonder what she will up ...
A. 9 July 2005: Hi Brother, You and I know that YOU CAN NOT do anything about it, at all. unfortunately thou... being overseas, and parties... well, look, cheating can happen anywhere anytime, it's the way you think about the relationship that makes the differ... (read in full...)
Is it possible to be "best friends" after a breakup? How?
Q. My girlfriend of 2 years recently broke up with me and she still wants to keep me as her best friend. She is dating someone else and I still love her. What should I do?...
A. 7 July 2005: Just leave her, even best friends cares A LOT about each other, which definitely has a crossing line between dating and friendship, She has broken your heart for whatever reason, the heart is there and broken for now, stay away from this girl, she ... (read in full...)
Cheated on Guy No. 1 with Guy No.2... I'm still with Guy No. 2, but falling for Guy No. 3!
Q. I was with this guy for over a year and a half. Things weren't working out so I ended up cheating on him. The guy I cheated on him is the guy I am still with. The problem is I have this guy friend who I am really close to and I have liked for a lo...
A. 7 July 2005: PLEASE STOP! Ask your self what really do you want in a guy, it seems to me you are very confused, I have been cheated many many times and hurt me very much! ( Finally I got a beautiful girlfriend ) So will hurt with all your boyrfriends y... (read in full...)
I'm reluctant to have sex with my girlfriend because I think my penis doesn't measure up!
Q. I am 17, am dating a girl, I haven’t yet had sex, but the time is getting closer where it will happen, and I want it to, but I am very self conscious about the size of my manhood. I hear of the average size being 6.5 inches, but after measuring mine ...
A. 7 July 2005: Brother as A guy my self, being 20, I always freak out about that, but hey! it turn out to be completely the oposite, my girlfriend is 17 and my past sexual experiences were abosolutely GREAT! , I had the same thought as you, what I recommend you to ... (read in full...)
I want my first sex with my girlfriend to be great for both of us...
Q. My girlfriend and I are both virgins and I love her more than anything! We've been seeing each other for about 4months now and she has told me that she wants me to be her first time. The thing is I want to make sure she is comfortable and feels safe ...
A. 7 July 2005: Dear Inlove, The first thing you need to take into consideration if to find out information about pretection, as that is not your question ( Im aware ) but you need to make it safe. Once you have that in mind, for sex there is not such a thin... (read in full...)
Could I be in love with two guys at the same time?
Q. Is it possible to be in love with two people at once? I have a boyfriend of two years and I love him very much, he will do anything for me and have a great future with him. But I've always had feelings for another man (who is friends with my ...
A. 7 July 2005: Love can be given to everyone, but only one love can be given to your partner, you are sharing this love and imagine if that happens to you ? How would you feel ? What would you do ? Looking at your situation I believe that you confused and probably ... (read in full...)
No longer attracted to my wife. Not sure about moving in with the other woman. Help!
Q. Very Confused. I have been married for 5 1/2 years and have also been seeing another woman whom I fell in love with. I have sex with her, but not with my wife. My wife is a wonderful caring person. She gained weight and I no longer find her ...
A. 7 July 2005: Hi, I might be a bit too young to answer you Mr, but surely have an Idea that can make you see a bt more wide here, First of all, you have been sleeping with another person ? Defenetely that's wrong, and I will tell you that you don't have any,... (read in full...)
My 28-year-old-husband left me for a 64-year-old woman...
Q. I feel disgusted after finding out that my husband has left me for a 64-year-old woman. Apparently someone has told me that everytime he says he's working late, he actually is sneaking off for sex sessions with this woman. I am 25 and my ...
A. 7 July 2005: Leave him, find a new man that will love you and love the correct age, there is something more that just sex between you dismal husband. He surely needs helps from a doctor and you need a new man, You didn't metioned if you have any childrens, b... (read in full...)
My new friend at university went from kind to cold. What happened?
Q. Today is the first day in University, I can't get along with others. I'm so worried about that but good luck to me I have one new friend. She is friendly and very kind with everyone. After couple days, She has many friends everyone want to be her ...
A. 7 July 2005: Friendships are very weird sometimes and never expect it to be good " all the way ", according to this girl, defenetely something may be up with her, but you should not even take it for granted, I mean, A UNIVERSITY ? girl, can you imagine how many ... (read in full...)
Broke up with my boyfriend, but I now realise that I'm still madly in love with him!
Q. I bet you're all thinking 14 year old girl saying she's in love is all wrong, but I'm being deadly serious. I went out with this guy (the same age as me) about a year ago an when we finished after being together for about 3 months I realised...
A. 7 July 2005: Hi, Defenetely being 14 and In love doens't make any difference for being 41 and in love, if you know that you love him, then love doesn't have an age. Know that sweetie. Well, now about the issue with your boyfriend, yes, in most of the c... (read in full...)
He read my email without even consulting me! I've got nothing to hide, but don't I deserve my privacy?
Q. The other day, I was writing an e-mail to my girlfriend. She had told me some very personal information and I was replying to some concerns she had about her upcoming divorce. When I left the computer to answer the phone, my boyfriend had came to my ...
A. 7 July 2005: The only thing that I will make note which is not to be very much about you is the fact that, you knew that mail was very important, Why didn't you lock your computer ? or Cutted your message ? girl, as much of fault he has, so do you, privacy and ... (read in full...)
What can I do to get my friend to forgive me?
Q. I argued with my best friend. I tried to call to say sorry but he always rejects my call.What should I do?...
A. 7 July 2005: Hi, Defenetely the only thing right now for you is to wait, make sure you have apologized for everything and didnt leave anything out, once that's done, then it's up to your friend to forgive and hopefully forget, it's a very unwanted process... (read in full...)
Our good relationship is being spoiled by my eldest child!
Q. I have 2 children and I am divorced. I am in a relationship with a man and my eldest child has created so much trouble that he has decided to end it. Is there any advice on how I can try and save us? We are deeply in love but it's my child who is c...
A. 7 July 2005: Have you thought of taking your child to a psychologist ? It helps very much when you have done everything you could, think about it. Matt,20.... (read in full...)
Only engaged for a month, but I feel I'm being taken for granted already!
Q. Ever since we got engaged -1 month ago - my finacee seems to be taking me for granted by us having quickie sex (ie: no forplay or romance) and the flowers and hugs and kisses have all but stopped. What should I do?...
A. 7 July 2005: Hi there, One month defentely seems to be a problem, the only thing that I can think of is probably the fact of being engaged affect him in a way that he may believe on his own, the only way to find out this is to talk to your Fiancé and only ... (read in full...)
My sexy mom...
Q. hi, I am 18 years old boy. I have a sexy mom. I want sex with her. Tell me what should I do....
A. 7 July 2005: Hi there Brother, I'm 20, just to help you understand my answer.... Brother, the reason why you feel this way may be probably because you see her every day, it's probably the only female that you see the MOST! ... go out with girls, forget th... (read in full...)
My longtime boyfriend is so busy that I felt lonely... and found someone else!
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 years. We share our time together. I love him very much. But now he is very busy. So I feel very lonely. One month ago I was found a really nice guy. He takes care of me and he always been there fo...
A. 6 July 2005: Hi, As said above, one month can never determine a person as a soulmate, Is this new guy that you met is aware of your feelings? Is he also aware that your have a long relationship already ? ... If yes , what were his responses ? the purpose of t... (read in full...)
I want to talk to the girl I like and I don't know how to start...
Q. I have some problem. Please give me some advice. I like some girl but I don't know how to talk with her. She studies in the same class with me but I don't know how to start a relationship with her. I hope I will get the great answer soon. Thanks for ...
A. 6 July 2005: Hi brother, Well, In your situation the first thing you must do is gain confidence on what exactly you want, for me you seem very confused, I have a question for you : If you like this girl, but you don't know how to talk to her, how do you know ... (read in full...)
Don't know what to say to my girlfriend, who I know found out about my weird compulsion!
Q. I have a bit of a wierd habit and my girlfriend has found out, and now I don't know how to handle it... I am 24, and for several years I have had the compulsion to steal girl's used underwear from their wash baskets. I don't know how it started b...
A. 5 July 2005: My brother... How sure are you that she knows ? As you said ... " She has not mentioned it and hasn't acted at all wierdly about it " , what is she showing that made you realized ? In anyway, you are a very grown up man now, you have stopped ... (read in full...)
Want to get over my ex and get back on the dating scene... but I'm so anxious!
Q. I have recently come out of a 5 year relationship and now I'm having real trouble living the single life... It has been 3 months since we broke up, although we have had several "relapses" since then, we are both sure that the relationship has...
A. 5 July 2005: Hi there, It's very hard to give an straight answer as the facts are limited, but what I can advice you on is the moving " on " . Long term relationship may be very hard to leave behind, specially such as yours, 5 years. First you said ... ... (read in full...)
Right now, our relationship is great! So why do I worry that I might lose him?
Q. Hello, Bev, your advice would be much appreciated on this and anyone else who would care to help. I've been with my boyfriend for nearly a year now & i love him so much & he loves me back. He tells me all the time & says he would love it if we co...
A. 5 July 2005: Hi Sweet Heart, Well, Im not Bev but surely would like to give a hint, I feel the same way as you, towards my girlfriend, I feel and do the same things as you do, but I realize one thing, That I truly love her, as you and I know very well, you... (read in full...)
Never been popular with girls, but now I'm confused by my options!
Q. Hi. Growing up I've not been very popular, but in the last few months... I don't know, but the girls have one hell of an attraction to me? I hear it every day. I don't know what to do, but let me start off with: I started grade 8 and like I said ...
A. 5 July 2005: MY BROTHER! Wow, man... you go go go go go :) Get the most of every single one of them, experience the fun and what it feels like having girl A today and tomorrow B and then C and D and F ect.... don't get serious yet my brother, trust me, this ... (read in full...)
I want to trust my boyfriend not cheat with my friend...
Q. Hello everyone, I am 17 years old, and my friend likes my boyfriend. I talked to him about it, and he knows she likes him, but he says he doesnt like her, he was saying really nice things, but I dont know if I should believe it. I know this sounds ...
A. 5 July 2005: Hi Sweetheart, Well, I'm a guy and I'm 20, look, the reason why I'm giving you this reply is because It will help you very very much. I'm currently dating a wonderful girl, she is 17 ( like you ) and I'm 20, I had my EX's texting me, phoning ... (read in full...)
He's thinking over going out with me, but was I too forward asking him out?
Q. hiya! I have this crush and I just asked him out. He is thinking about it at the moment but do you think I have done the right thing to ask him out cos he is a year older than me? I am 13 and he is 14, is that wrong of me? Should I be going out w...
A. 4 July 2005: Hi sweetheart, There are any much of information to know if you have asked him out too or " too " soon, How long have both of you's seeing eachother for ? , for the type of question I can imagine that this may be your first or at least one of the... (read in full...)
We're getting married in September, but when it comes to sex, he pushes me away!
Q. My boyfriend doesn't want sex with me. Me and my boyfriend have been together for 6 years now and we're getting married in September. But he never wants sex with me. I try and turn him on, but he pushes me away. I'm starting to think it's me. I do...
A. 4 July 2005: Hi, I might be a bit young to answer such question, but hey sweetie, please don't think that eveything is your fault, you are commited and so is he, you two are one, so the only answer to this case, is you will need to find it, the way to do it is ... (read in full...)
Can't meet people through my job or through friends. What can I do?
Q. Hello, I am a 20 year old male who has never been in a relationship or even had a close woman friend until recently. In high school I was a very shy person and never had the opprotunity to make many friends. But after graduating, I have noticed ...
A. 24 June 2005: Brother let me tell you this one... you can meet people where ever you want, time will never block you from meeting people and thinking to go to a bar ????????? are you out of your mind brother>? people in bars drink and aren't very good to hav... (read in full...)
My folks would be happier if I was in a cage. They won't let me do anything!
Q. My parents are so over protective its unbelievable. They won't let me do the fun things that most teenagers do! What do I do? It is summer now and they get angry if I go out with my mates even in the daytime! I am 16 years old for heavens sake. I ...
A. 24 June 2005: Hi there brother, listen man, you and I are guys and I went through your age, and trust me, we believe we know the world, that we are grown up but hey, I'm 20 and yet still have probs with parents and where I go, so please don't say "I am 16 years ... (read in full...)
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