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writes: I bet you're all thinking 14 year old girl saying she's in love is all wrong, but I'm being deadly serious. I went out with this guy (the same age as me) about a year ago an when we finished after being together for about 3 months I realised that I'm still madly in love with him. I can't stop thinking about him, I can't concentrate in school. All I can think about is ways to get him back. I dont know what to do. He says he loves me too but he's got a girlfriend at the moment.He says he wants me back, but nothing's happening. Please help me, someone. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 September 2006): hey this whitney i think u should get ur man back because i going throught that problem right now me and my boyfriend broke up and i really in love with him but i going to get my man back so u need to work your problem out and get your man .......... Whitney
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2006): hi im a 15 yr old girl i love my ex still he broke up with me he aint like all the other boys he is reali nice 2 me but wen we broke up he was a different person i love him so much and tried different ways of gettin him back we was 2gether 4 months and we been split up for about 2 months nw he says he doesn't love me anymore but he was sayin 2 his best friend does he think he should get back with me i keep askin him does he love me but i dn't get nothing i love him madly and tried killing my self he onli lives accross the road so it is hard for me 2 4get him girl if u love sum 1 then dn't let go keep trying and 1 day ull be 2gether again i aint gunna give up if they said they love u wen u was 2gether they can't get ova u so fast u can't replace sum 1 u love jst like that girl plz dn't give up honestly i even dream about dis lad xx good luck xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2006): hi im a 15 yr old girl i love my ex still he broke up with me he aint like all the other boys he is reali nice 2 me but wen we broke up he was a different person i love him so much and tried different ways of gettin him back we was 2gether 4 months and we been split up for about 2 months nw he says he doesn't love me anymore but he was sayin 2 his best friend does he think he should get back with me i keep askin him does he love me but i dn't get nothing i love him madly and tried killing my self he onli lives accross the road so it is hard for me 2 4get him girl if u love sum 1 then dn't let go keep trying and 1 day ull be 2gether again i aint gunna give up if they said they love u wen u was 2gether they can't get ova u so fast u can't replace sum 1 u love jst like that girl plz dn't give up honestly i even dream about dis lad xx good luck xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2005): You know what... Im in the same exact position as you... me and my ex. has been broke up for exactly a year today. Im still in love with him too. But what i would do is i would ask him what he really wants. You or his girlfriend. If he cant decide, "Not to be rude" but girl try and get over him.. ya know. I know its gonna hurt but seriously if he really loved you and wanted to be with you he wouldnt have a girlfriend right now cause he would be trying to be with you. It will take some time to get over him but ask him what he really wants and "Dont let him lie to you" But hopefully for your sake he'll wake up and see that he's missing out on something great... HOPE THINGS WORK OUT!!! Good Luck!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2005): I feel the same way about my ex. He still has feelings for me but he just broke up with his girl and he say he needs some time to do his thing. But last weekend we almost had sex. I think you should just hang on and maybe he'll come around.
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reader, Matt,20 +, writes (7 July 2005):
Hi,Defenetely being 14 and In love doens't make any difference for being 41 and in love, if you know that you love him, then love doesn't have an age. Know that sweetie.Well, now about the issue with your boyfriend, yes, in most of the cases, such as yours, we really know how much we need this person that we've lost in our life, but never take it that way, I believe that you have spoken to him about your feelings because you know that he still loves you, the answer to your question is really pretty, You know that he has a relationship currently and defenetly you can not start now and say how much you love him etc... Instead what you need to know is realize that at this moment can not happen what you what, having him back. If your feelings are very very strong as I can see from your letter, then you can wait, you can hold on to those feelings, but don't ever try to break him up with his current relationship, that is plain wrong.Meet new boys, go out with new boys, chat to new boys... get your mind out of the situation.Wish you all the very best of luck...Matt,20.
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reader, becky05 +, writes (6 July 2005):
While he's got a girlfriend, nothing can happen between you.I know it feels like its the end of the world but its not!!Try to focus on getting out more with your friends and youll find yourself thinking about this boy less.
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reader, liligray +, writes (6 July 2005):
If you really think that you are in Love with this guy, think about what he's feeling as well. When you're in love you couldn't give a damn about anyone else in the world, all you want is to be with them.While it sounds like you feel this way, your ex has got himself a new gf! Do you really want to be the girl chasing after a unavailable guy? Tell him what you you want and then back off, let him be the one to call you, flirt with another guy, trust me, as soon as they realise they haven't got you all to themselves they come running back!
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