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writes: My girlfriend and I are both virgins and I love her more than anything! We've been seeing each other for about 4months now and she has told me that she wants me to be her first time. The thing is I want to make sure she is comfortable and feels safe as well as loved and happy. I want her to want to be with me so what my question is... 'Is there anything else i should take into account to make her comfy and happy?'I told her I'd never rush her and I love her and we are so right for eachother and get on great.Any answers would be greatly recievedInlove x
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reader, becky05 +, writes (7 July 2005):
Take her feelings into account, ask what she wants and take things slowly.
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reader, Matt,20 +, writes (7 July 2005):
Dear Inlove,The first thing you need to take into consideration if to find out information about pretection, as that is not your question ( Im aware ) but you need to make it safe.Once you have that in mind, for sex there is not such a thing, IT WAS PLANNED or I PLANNED IT in your situation, sex comes when it needs to come, you can not force it and defenetely you can not plan a position or anything like that, the only thing you need to is to be planned is protection, then the place, position or anything else come at its time when it needs to happen.Let the time decide, the moment to make it happen and you and your girlfriend to protect eachother from pregnancy.Good luck brother!Matt,20.
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reader, mermaidprincess +, writes (6 July 2005):
I am a girl, i was nervous my first time too, me and the guy had already been dating 13 months. Just listen to her needs, she'll tell you. Make it sweet and slow, I know it helped when my boyfriend looked at me sweetly and told me he loved me and that he was going to marry me. I'm not sure how old you are, but if you're able to do the whole thing with candles then go for it, but if you're young and having to sneak around then dont risk it, candles are a quick way to get noticed, all you'll have to do is make up for it in sweet talk;) G.L.
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