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writes: Is it possible to be in love with two people at once?I have a boyfriend of two years and I love him very much, he will do anything for me and have a great future with him. But I've always had feelings for another man (who is friends with my boyfriend). He also has feelings for me but it has never been the right time to do anything about it, he has a girlfriend of five years. We always avoid each other as it it easier like that.On Saturday I saw him and we spoke for ages. I told him that I have always loved him and I know he feels the same. We went to a club and held hands all night- even with my boyfriend standing right next to us.I feel so guilty, I don't know what to do?
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reader, Matt,20 +, writes (7 July 2005):
Love can be given to everyone, but only one love can be given to your partner, you are sharing this love and imagine if that happens to you ? How would you feel ? What would you do ? Looking at your situation I believe that you confused and probably not fully ready to admit your true love yet, know that this can hurt your boyfriend very much and as a guy my self, I will be very hurt if it happens to me.As said follow your heart, but in your situation you can not folow your heart because is crossed with two arrows instead of one.What I recommend you to do, is to focus more on your relationship, see what makes you happy, what you need because surely something is missing, find what's missing and once you know that, you will be able to follow your heart.Please, think carefully about this situation, is very tricky and you can lose both love at the later stage, bare that in mind.Wish you all the best,Matt,20.
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reader, becky05 +, writes (6 July 2005):
How do you know he feels the same? has he told you?While you have a boyfriend and he has a girlfriend your relationship should go no further.
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