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writes: Can you really really help me? I'm 19 my fiancee's 17 and I'm in a bit of relationship trouble the now. My fiancee is on holiday in Slovenia, and I fear as though she is going to cheat on me, and every minute of the day I wonder what she will up to, and she text me today saying there having a baby booze party, and when she said that, I was thinking to myself, what if she facies some one over there and she has too much to drink she might do something. Can you please help me? x
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reader, becky05 +, writes (9 July 2005):
Hard as it sounds you have to stop thinking like this. If your girlfriend loves you, she wont cheat. Just because shes going out on holiday doesnt make her more likely to cheat, please try to stop worrying!
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reader, Matt,20 +, writes (9 July 2005):
Hi Brother,You and I know that YOU CAN NOT do anything about it, at all. unfortunately thou... being overseas, and parties... well, look, cheating can happen anywhere anytime, it's the way you think about the relationship that makes the difference, If you start thinking these thoughts, don't you think she might do the same ?, your fiance might not show it, and what I would reccomend is to try and so somthing else when this thoughts are coming into your head, don't be a fool, and send her a text telling so, or even a call! because you won't be able to express your feelings to her and she might get it the explanation the wrong way, wait until she comes and then decide on what you will do.Has she ever cheated you before ? .... If the answer is yes, you have to know what made you stayed in the relationship and stick to that.If the answer is No, then why you worrying??? Relax and let the time decided for it's self,Brother, wish the best... god bless.Matt,20.
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reader, Dragonfly28 +, writes (9 July 2005):
If you really have this much trouble trusting your fiancee, or if you really feel justified worrying that she would be unfaithful to you, it sounds to me like you're not ready to be getting married to each other. Your ages kind of suggest that to me too--that seems awfully young to decide you're ready to commit to someone for the rest of your life, and from the sound of it, you don't think your fiancee can make that commitment. I'd say, if you're that concerned, maybe you need to have a talk when she gets back and rethink whether you're ready to be getting married. Good luck.
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