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writes: I have a bit of a wierd habit and my girlfriend has found out, and now I don't know how to handle it...I am 24, and for several years I have had the compulsion to steal girl's used underwear from their wash baskets. I don't know how it started but I had stopped some months ago.The only problem was I had a bag full of them hidden in my room, which was consequently found and probably thrown out by my long term (4 years) girlfriend when I was away.She has not mentioned it and hasn't acted at all wierdly about it, but I know she knows and it's eating me up. Why would she not say anything? Should I talk to her about it? Should I just forget about it?I am afraid that if I bring it out in the open it will make things extremely awkward between us, possibly ending our relationshipAny Ideas???Thanks In Advance!
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reader, NordicBeauty +, writes (6 July 2005):
Your situation brings a chuckle & a great memory.My last boyfriend also had a compulsion with ladies undies.He stole a pair from each one of them, including me & would masturbate with their undies on his face.When I discovered his preoccupation with undies, I enjoyed a good laugh & gave him another pair of my sexy G-strings, but I insisted on WATCHING the next time he masturbated !Most women in today's society are open minded enough to understand a guy's kinks and I'm sure your girlfriend has a few "yummy kinks" of her own.Your compulsion is harmless...enjoy it & share it with her!
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reader, becky05 +, writes (5 July 2005):
could she have known about it all along? If so maybe she was just having a clear out and threw them away.On the other hand it sounds to me more like she found them while you were away, got very shocked, wondered what the hell was going on, threw them out and is now waiting for you to say something about it. ask her, tell her you used to have the compulsion, dont know why ut you stopped it. at least this way youre telling her the truth because chances are shes imagining it worse than it is.
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reader, Matt,20 +, writes (5 July 2005):
My brother...How sure are you that she knows ? As you said ..." She has not mentioned it and hasn't acted at all wierdly about it " , what is she showing that made you realized ?In anyway, you are a very grown up man now, you have stopped and you realized that it's not fun doing such thing, right?then Be honest about it with her, you don't want any awkward feeings between you and her, then tell her the truth, there is no other way to deal with this, it's eating you up, and brother, trust me, sooner or later she will see something is wrong with you, but that will be the fact that you didn't tell her and you've been acting funny around, and then things may get out of hands easily.Approach her and tell her what's in your mind, heart and how much you love her.You will feel like new afterwards and everything will be fine, she will understand if only you say the truth.Good Luck,Matt,20.
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