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writes: Hi. Growing up I've not been very popular, but in the last few months... I don't know, but the girls have one hell of an attraction to me? I hear it every day.I don't know what to do, but let me start off with:I started grade 8 and like I said no one really liked me. A girl started liking me but was to shy to ask me to grad, I agreed with a smile (Woo, I'm going to grad with someone)... Long story short, she asked me to be my girlfriend, again, I agreed with a smile.She was this dark girl, (your average 14 year old girl with mixed feelings) who was depressed and whatnot and she told me this but I love women ok - no matter what shape, size or personality, I do love them.So we started going out and slowly ever so slowly we slipped... 5 days later - she tells me she doesn't want to go out anymore and gave me the classic "It's not you, its me" line. - Myself, crushed.But that's not all... The year before this happened I came to the new school in March and fell in complete love with this girl... her best friend. I don't know why I went out with this girl, Emma. but I know I was lonely and that was probably the reason.So I went out with Emma, Totally love Laura but I am not to sure whether or not I will ever get with Laura... This other girl, Jessica --- she's alright. Happy, not depressed and she does want to go out with me and I her, but I dont know whether or not Laura will ever like me and I prefer Laura, she's incredible.I need to know what to do! I need help.
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reader, Matt,20 +, writes (5 July 2005):
MY BROTHER!Wow, man... you go go go go go :)Get the most of every single one of them, experience the fun and what it feels like having girl A today and tomorrow B and then C and D and F ect.... don't get serious yet my brother, trust me, this situations DONT COME PASS very often so MAKE THE MOST OUT OF IT!!!!! go go go go....Matt,20.
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reader, carla +, writes (3 June 2005):
Go for the one you feel more strongly for. But also, from the sounds of it, you're at the stage in your life where you want to have fun, not settle down so why not do that?
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reader, Rebecca Batchelor +, writes (2 June 2005):
 Perhaps you should just think about having fun.You really like Laura. Have you told her how you feel? This may be a start. Perhaps she won't be interested now but it is worth a shot.You like Jessica so why not spend some time with her as friends, go out, have a laugh, just generally socialise together.In this time, you may find that you will get over Laura as time passes or that Laura will become interested again. You may even discover that your feelings for Jessica develop. You never know whats round the corner!Whatever happens, have fun!
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