How can I tell whether this girl likes me without directly asking her?
Q. I've been talking to this girl for a few weeks now and we are very open with each other and we get along great. But I don't know if she likes me or not and I asked her once but it was when we had just started talking. Is there any way of know that ...
A. 26 September 2013: thank you that last one was very helpful. now just got to get some friends together. don't have many left... (read in full...)
How can I tell whether this girl likes me without directly asking her?
Q. I've been talking to this girl for a few weeks now and we are very open with each other and we get along great. But I don't know if she likes me or not and I asked her once but it was when we had just started talking. Is there any way of know that ...
A. 19 September 2013: I'm not success full with women that's why I'm asking.I've also been talking to here on the internet. haven't met her yet but I know she is real. I asked her when we first started talking because that is just where the conversation led. I don't want ... (read in full...)
Is what she told me about birth control pills for her true?
Q. Me and my fiance were talking about birth control one day and i asked her why doesn't she start taking the pill.She told me that she went to a doctor about it and they said that because of her size (she is close to 100lb over weight) that all it ...
A. 16 May 2013: Thank you all you all have been helpful. and no there is no reason i can think of that she would not want to have sex with out a condom.
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We have good sex so why is my husband looking at porn?
Q. I recently noticed on the history of my phone was a porn site so clearly its my husband I've checked his history and it was the same site. I don't watch porn but don't mind him watching so said nothing. our sex life is really good to him to and is ...
A. 15 May 2013: First if it just "porn sites" then i wouldn't worry. Me and my fiance both watch born and we do it because we like it and because you can actually learn a lot from it and get ideas.If its a chat site then it is possible that he could be using it ... (read in full...)
My fiancé wants to become a surrogate through artificial insemination for her friend. What do I say?
Q. This is going to be weird but here it goes. My fiance brought up a weird question to me. Her long time friend because of a health condition her window to have a child is closing fast. My fiance came to me and asked me how I would feel if she would ...
A. 31 January 2013: Also Aidan if I showed her this post I would have to worry about it anymore because she would very quickly break up with me. She doesn't like me talking to others about things we talk about. But I like to get ideas from others, see what other people ... (read in full...)
My fiancé wants to become a surrogate through artificial insemination for her friend. What do I say?
Q. This is going to be weird but here it goes. My fiance brought up a weird question to me. Her long time friend because of a health condition her window to have a child is closing fast. My fiance came to me and asked me how I would feel if she would ...
A. 31 January 2013: thank you guys. you've at least given me a direction to go in and some thing to possible bring up to her and to her friend if her friend and her friends partner decide in favor of it. thank you. ... (read in full...)
I really want our kids to have my last name!
Q. I imagine this question is going to spark a lot of controversy.Me and my fiance have been talking about kids lately. Why I have no idea. But she keeps saying about the kids have her last name. but she has already said that when we get married she is ...
A. 17 May 2012: no she has no brothers but she isn't the last anymore her son has her name. She already has a kid and he has her name and his dad's but that is going to change soon, soon he will only have her name. But she wants the same thing to happen with the ... (read in full...)
I really want our kids to have my last name!
Q. I imagine this question is going to spark a lot of controversy.Me and my fiance have been talking about kids lately. Why I have no idea. But she keeps saying about the kids have her last name. but she has already said that when we get married she is ...
A. 17 May 2012: I'm not really sure why she wants the kids to have her last name. She already has a kid, infact she had it with a friend of mine before we got together. They combined the names and they said it was because they were like the last of there names. But ... (read in full...)
Why did she taste different???
Q. hello I just have some simple questions. back in the second month me and my fiance(which is about 6 months ago) had sex for the first time and even though I knew a lot about foreplay and what to do and what I should do, I didn't know what I liked to ...
A. 8 February 2012: thank you and I usually know if she know if her period is coming before she does. I have a pretty strong nose, when she has it I can smell it almost all the time. and if she takes off her pants it will make me gag. But I don't think I smelt anything ... (read in full...)
I'm curious to know if any of these girls ever liked me. Should I ask them?
Q. Got a good question for you. I'm still in contact with a number of girls that I used to like, with most of them we became friends. I'm very curious even though I have found a wonderful girl that I have asked to marry me. I still wonder if any of ...
A. 8 February 2012: I never went out with them infact i imagine that none of them even ever knew I liked them. but is just somehting I'm curious about.
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Why did she taste different???
Q. hello I just have some simple questions. back in the second month me and my fiance(which is about 6 months ago) had sex for the first time and even though I knew a lot about foreplay and what to do and what I should do, I didn't know what I liked to ...
A. 8 February 2012: well as far as I know she isn't taking any suppuments and I've done it all different times during her cycle and it has never had such a strong taste
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Au naturale...
Q. I read in a newspaper recently that a lot of women are beginning to stay 'natural' i.e no shaving their arm pits, etc, I am wondering what readers of 'dearcupid.org think about that suggestion....
A. 8 February 2012: NNNNOOOOOOO. it is so much better when the girl is shaved. everything flows much better and it looks sexier. And it makes certain things much easier.... (read in full...)
I feel its my fault for many bad things that happened to my girlfriend
Q. I'm having trouble forgiving myself for something I did many years ago and it still haunts me. About five years ago I ment me fiance in my homeroom class at school. we talked a little bit, but that soon stopped. I met some guys and hung around with ...
A. 8 February 2012: that sounds very similar to what she said
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On a scale of 1 to 10, where 1=not important and 10=most important, how important should sexual attraction be in a relationship?
Q. OK Aunts, here is something that has been troubling me. How important should sexual attraction be in a relationship? The reason I ask is because sometimes I think sex and sexual attraction is a distraction and sort of leads us down the wrong ...
A. 8 February 2012: I would say no more then a five or 6. if you have the conection of you loving the person and love being around them and love who they are and who you are when you are around them then the sex will come. but sex should never be the reason for getting ... (read in full...)
My Gf wants to start going to the gym but I am worried I wont find her physically attractive if she loses weight, Please help!
Q. My GF was started is thinking about going to the gym with her sister because she invited her to go. I love her very much and I would never leave her and stand by her no matter what, but her going to the gym scares me a bit and i have a few questions ...
A. 31 January 2012: thank you for the congrats. Her sister was going to start to go to the gym and take my Gf (at the time) with her and like a fool I was worried about it.And yes I worried about something that hadn't happened yet but that is me I think about ... (read in full...)
My Gf wants to start going to the gym but I am worried I wont find her physically attractive if she loses weight, Please help!
Q. My GF was started is thinking about going to the gym with her sister because she invited her to go. I love her very much and I would never leave her and stand by her no matter what, but her going to the gym scares me a bit and i have a few questions ...
A. 31 January 2012: I need some help pretty bad. I just asked my GF to marry me this past weekend, I say this to establish that I'm not superficial. I've been looking at some pics of her on her face book and I've noticed that she has put on some weight. she was big ... (read in full...)
Rough sex got out of control and I hurt my girlfriend.
Q. I really feel bad about hurting my GF. My girl friend likes it when I get rough. like when we have sex or fingering her, she likes it when I really slam her. or she likes to be slammed against the wall sometime. well last weekend I was fingering her ...
A. 25 January 2012: thank you all and when she started bleeding she wasn't hurting. We had dinner early and something didn't agree with me and had to go to the bathroom and that is when I noticed the blood on my hand. But it's not just physical when i hurt her feelings ... (read in full...)
My grandfathers party is on the same day as my girlfriends! What should I do?
Q. I need a question answered. My girlfriend goes to church and I go with her most of the time. and they invited me to their Christmas party because of my GF. I promised my GF that I would go with her. But today I found out that my Grandfather's part...
A. 17 January 2012: Hey just a follow up we went to our separate parties an we both had fun and she understood completly.... (read in full...)
After 1.5 years boyfriend wants sex but I want to wait till I'm married
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been going out for a year and a half now and he told me that he wants to have sex now, but i feel like i want to wait until im married how can i still make him feel loved without going on to have sex...
A. 28 December 2011: Don't just bluntly tell him but let him know. something like I love you very much but I don't think I'm ready and even though I love you I don't think we should until we are married. or something along those lines. if he loves you he will respect ... (read in full...)
My grandfathers party is on the same day as my girlfriends! What should I do?
Q. I need a question answered. My girlfriend goes to church and I go with her most of the time. and they invited me to their Christmas party because of my GF. I promised my GF that I would go with her. But today I found out that my Grandfather's part...
A. 28 December 2011: Thank you all for your advice. I can't go to both because of timing and that one is in Bel air,MD and the other is just out side of York,PA. so going to both is out. But thank you all this has helped me.And i would invite her along but she has a kid ... (read in full...)
Another girl calls my b/f babe and he doesn't do anything about it
Q. Hello, well this isn't going to be long, but theres this girl who always calls my boyfriend babe, through messages, and it annoys me, i asked him why dont you do something about it, and he said theres no point. I dont do that tho only person i call ...
A. 28 December 2011: I agree. I know a lot of people that call friends (Boy and girl) honey and babe. It's just the way they are. And if you trust and love him then it shouldn't matter. Now if he is calling her anything similar you might want to be worried.... (read in full...)
Is it wrong of me to turn my Girlfriend on just before I have to leave? even though I know it can go no where?
Q. just a quick question. Is it wrong to get your girlfriend turned on like "about to jump you turned on" just before you leave to go back home? I still live at home with the family, I'm a student and can't seem to find a job, always seems to be someo...
A. 28 December 2011: thank you all for your comments but I really do know she wouldn't go some where else. She had that happen to her and she loves me to much to put me through the hell she went through. but i have talked to her about it and she understands that we lose ... (read in full...)
How are some women out there able to cope with these sort of self-centered, self-serving and extremely selfish men?!
Q. Dear Aunts, I want to believe I'm an emotional person and like lots of love and attention. I have been married 5 years and its like my husband has stopped kissing me altogether. The last time was about 8 months back, when I initiated it and before ...
A. 24 December 2011: well first Y get hooked up with a guy that doesn't satisfy your needs for the intimacy needs? I know a lot of girls that get hooked up with guys like that and then wonder Y there not getting anything. Anyway talk to him. sit him down and reason with ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong of me to turn my Girlfriend on just before I have to leave? even though I know it can go no where?
Q. just a quick question. Is it wrong to get your girlfriend turned on like "about to jump you turned on" just before you leave to go back home? I still live at home with the family, I'm a student and can't seem to find a job, always seems to be someo...
A. 24 December 2011: she wouldn't do that to me she wouldn't go after someone else. But ya I figured i would get these kind of answers. but most of the time i don't do it on purpose it's just bad timing. we lose track of time we start things and then i get a call "We'll ... (read in full...)
Is it usual for the boyfriend to say I Love You more? I was the first to say it and still say it the most...
Q. Me and my GF have been together for almost months and two weeks now. well to start i said I love you first. I don't know Y but I did. we had only been together like a week or two at the most. and she was very excited i said it and surprised I said ...
A. 24 December 2011: Well I said it because i felt it and even i was a little surprised i said it as fast as I did. The words just came to me and I kinda said them before i even realized it. but i really ment it and i still say it to her and mean it every time. I don't ... (read in full...)
My Gf wants to start going to the gym but I am worried I wont find her physically attractive if she loses weight, Please help!
Q. My GF was started is thinking about going to the gym with her sister because she invited her to go. I love her very much and I would never leave her and stand by her no matter what, but her going to the gym scares me a bit and i have a few questions ...
A. 22 December 2011: I've been big most of my life and she has been all her life. thought I have asthma I've never actually been diagnosed with it but i know enough about the type i have and enough about the family history to know i have it. i just try to take it slow ... (read in full...)
My Gf wants to start going to the gym but I am worried I wont find her physically attractive if she loses weight, Please help!
Q. My GF was started is thinking about going to the gym with her sister because she invited her to go. I love her very much and I would never leave her and stand by her no matter what, but her going to the gym scares me a bit and i have a few questions ...
A. 22 December 2011: Trisha that is not the what I'm working from. I know she loves me and i love her very much. When she first started talking about losing weight i offered to help her. And yes i am insecure. I know it and she knows it too. And i guess i don't give ... (read in full...)
My Gf wants to start going to the gym but I am worried I wont find her physically attractive if she loses weight, Please help!
Q. My GF was started is thinking about going to the gym with her sister because she invited her to go. I love her very much and I would never leave her and stand by her no matter what, but her going to the gym scares me a bit and i have a few questions ...
A. 21 December 2011: One more thought, another reason I asked these things is because well I'm not a very good looking guy, but I'm smart and nice and i guess I'm a little worried that if she loses all this weight she will start looking at other guys and other guys will ... (read in full...)
My Gf wants to start going to the gym but I am worried I wont find her physically attractive if she loses weight, Please help!
Q. My GF was started is thinking about going to the gym with her sister because she invited her to go. I love her very much and I would never leave her and stand by her no matter what, but her going to the gym scares me a bit and i have a few questions ...
A. 21 December 2011: Thank you for your thoughts. I was never going to stop her from going that is one thing that we have worked on. we talk about what ever we do and we express our concerns and thoughts and then make a decision. I guess I just wanted to try and an ... (read in full...)
I cant control my erections! Help!
Q. Am a reserved guy of 22.anytime a girl tourches or even playing or discussing romantic issues with a girl i usually gets an erection which i can't control or surpress.i don't actuallly know what's wrong with me or know the reason for that or what ...
A. 19 December 2011: Hey man, I can explain it a little for you. If your talking about pretty much any women like the girl before, the old lady next door or your female boss you have a problem. but if it is like any normal young woman. like near your age then it's fine. ... (read in full...)
I'm inexperienced--should I wear a condom during anal sex?
Q. hello everyone. I have a question to ask. me and my GF are a very sexual couple and she has asked me to do something a few times. I come here to ask all of you. I'm not sure how to do it because well before he I was a virgin so i need some help.She ...
A. 7 December 2011: thank you everyone. this has been very helpful. Wish me luck
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I feel bad that he's doing all the work
Q. Whenever me and my partner have sex it is always him doing the work. I always feel bad about it even though he has never mentioned it. I do try to take control but I have pain in my knees which makes going on top very unpleasant and painful for me. ...
A. 19 September 2011: I think if you feel this way talk to your BF and express these feelings to him if he is a good BF he will understand and try to help you feel better about it. You could also try pleasing him in other ways to try and make up for the fact that you ... (read in full...)
I feel bad that he's doing all the work
Q. Whenever me and my partner have sex it is always him doing the work. I always feel bad about it even though he has never mentioned it. I do try to take control but I have pain in my knees which makes going on top very unpleasant and painful for me. ...
A. 18 September 2011: I say just find other ways to please him, like for instance, and if you feel like this talk to him about it express these feelings to him or you could just like take control. If he like's it when you go down on him, just do that a lot or I don't ... (read in full...)
How can my gf get bigger breasts without surgery?
Q. I just got a girlfriend and i love her. We were talking one day and she told me she wanted bigger boobs. I was shocked to hear this. She wears like a 40C and she is kinda cramped in it. I stayed over her house that weekend and tried to convince her ...
A. 5 July 2011: thank you everyone for your help but I have finally convinced her that there are big and now she loves them almost as much as I do.
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Condom questions....
Q. hi this is a slightly embarrassing question but I would like to know the answer. I'm a virgin and my girlfriend has been wanting to do it for some time and so do I but something ocurred to me, that I'm a little worried about. Say you are having sex ...
A. 5 July 2011: Thank you everyone for your help.
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