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I cant control my erections! Help!

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Question - (19 December 2011) 5 Answers - (Newest, 20 December 2011)
A male Nigeria age 30-35, *rico writes:

Am a reserved guy of 22.anytime a girl tourches or even playing or discussing romantic issues with a girl i usually gets an erection which i can't control or surpress.i don't actuallly know what's wrong with me or know the reason for that or what can be done to control it.please i'll need your help.thanks

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A female reader, aliyahnangelo United States +, writes (20 December 2011):

aliyahnangelo agony auntIt sounds to me like you just have a VERY healthy sexual appetite! It's normal, try not to sweat it. Wear boxer briefs to help hold your man down. You're ok.

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A male reader, niiik Nepal +, writes (19 December 2011):

hey there is no problem with it..its normal man...see even mine gets erected all of a sudden when im listening to a lecture in class...n not a single lady teacher teaches us.... so u guy its normal with us n when talking or being touched (maybe in a sexual way)there are more chances of erection.... u know men have erectile disfunction but u are normal so no need to worry at all this is a man saying to u n keep my word so no neeed to worry...just chill n enjoy your life

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A male reader, mammer69 United States +, writes (19 December 2011):

Hey man, I can explain it a little for you. If your talking about pretty much any women like the girl before, the old lady next door or your female boss you have a problem. but if it is like any normal young woman. like near your age then it's fine. It's because in the back of your mind you are thinking and seeing these things happen, or you start thinking of these women in sexual ways. sometimes you are doing it in your subconscious. It's fine, you just need to try and focus more on the conversation then the girl in-front of you. and trust me this will work because i had the same problem not that long ago, and I pretty much broke my habit of doing that.

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (19 December 2011):

So_Very_Confused agony auntFirst of all there is NOTHING wrong with you... it's NORMAL!

I'm sure one of the men here can better explain why this happens... I just know it does and it's normal....

not much can be done to control it... and as you get older it will happen less frequently...

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A female reader, bluecow United Kingdom +, writes (19 December 2011):

bluecow agony auntok

just to be clear here...

you get erections when:

A girl is touching you in a sexual way

A girl is talking to you in a sexual way

A girl is playing with you in a sexual way

If its all of the above this is absoloutly 100% normal....

However if your erections happen whenever ANY woman talks to you (like the old lady next door asking you to run to the market), ANY woman touches you (your female boss gives you a christmas hug)... then there may be a problem.

Before I can answer properly could you let me know which of the two scenarios were talking about?

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