Why doesn't my boyfriend introduce me to his parents?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for 6 months and we have a great relationship. We get on brilliantly, the only problem is I have yet to meet his parents (he didn't tell them we were going out until 4 months into the relationship, and it was his friend ...
A. 4 October 2014: Meeting the family is a pretty big step in a relationship, and although he may be comfortable hanging out with your folk, he obviously feels differently about his family.. He could be ashamed or embarrassed of his family- maybe he doesn't have a ... (read in full...)
Should I just give it up and stop wasting my time on him?
Q. Hi. I'm confused and need advice. I like this guy and love talking to him. He admitted he also likes me and would go on a date with me when he is in the city. We have had all night long conversations but why am I ALWAYS the one to initiate? ...
A. 4 October 2014: It sounds like it's a pretty one sided deal you have there.. Meeting people half way is what relationships are all about, and if he's not showing genuine interest in the 'honeymoon' period, I doubt you're going to get much later on. I have had ... (read in full...)
Thoughts on losing virginity to a ''friend with benefits''
Q. Ok so, this might sound really childish and terrible but I honestly have NO idea what to do and since the whole topic and question in hand is on my head I need help with the answer: Ive been in a ''Friends With Benefits'' relationship for about a ...
A. 27 July 2013: Hi :) I understand your concern. It needs to be something you are 100% ready for and if you're having doubts then its probably not a good idea. Are you in a 'friends with benefits' style of relationship because that's what he calls it? A friends ... (read in full...)
How strange is it to feel relatively normal so soon after leaving a bad relationship?
Q. I left an abusive relationship about a month ago. In retrospect, I wonder why I put up with the screaming and cursing, the threats of violence, the baseless accusations of cheating, and the infliction of pain and discomfort (e.g., puckering up as ...
A. 27 July 2013: Hi there :) you have just come out of an abusive relationship that sounds like it was controlling your life and making you miserable. I'm glad to hear that you're feeling 'normal' and are getting back your own sense of identity as a person outside ... (read in full...)
How to go in for the first kiss
Q. I'm 15 and I've been dating this girl for 4 months now and I'm really starting to like her and I want to go in for the kiss but I don't know when to do it....
A. 19 June 2013: Pick a time and place where you can be alone together, without distractions. Maybe invite her over to watch a movie with you, get cosy and tell her how beautiful she is and go in for the kiss. She has probably been waiting for you to make a move so ... (read in full...)
Do I talk to him next time I see him and tell him how I feel?
Q. Hello, So I met this guy back in January. We immediately hit it off, spoke, exchanged numbers and hung out like 1 month later. We talk maybe like twice a week via text. Sometimes not talking can extend to two weeks. When we talk and hangout ther...
A. 19 June 2013: Hi OP. Is it possible you more like the feeling of someone being there, someone to make you feel good and loved, like you feel in a relationship? Or do you really think there is something special with this man? Men don't get as easily attached as ... (read in full...)
Unwanted feelings of jealousy.
Q. Recently i was at a party, where i noticed a girl flirting with me. Now, i am in a happy and good relationship, so ignored it all, thinking all the time to ignore cause i love my girlfriend very much. After some time i saw her hooking up with ...
A. 4 June 2013: Completely agree with what anonymous wrote. It's normal to desire other people sexually, but acting on it is a different story. I think you felt jealous because a part of you wished you could have been in the other guys position, even though you ... (read in full...)
Why is my boyfriend avoiding the subject? Should I confront him about it?
Q. I posted a while back that my bf had wrongfully accused me of hooking up with an acquaintance of ours before we started dating. He said the guy told him we had sex, so I sent the guy a message saying that I didn't care if he said it or not, that he ...
A. 4 June 2013: I would let it go if I was you, as the issue has already caused arguements. I think perhaps your boyfriend was bluffing when he said that your friend told him the two of you hooked up, in the hope of you admitting to it. Since he has been made out ... (read in full...)
He has a nickname for me and fights to sit near me, but we don't talk much. Is he interested in me?
Q. I have a friend 7th grade. (Lets say person A)Now i am in10 th grade and we are classmates. We weren't actually talking to eachother since this year. In school at breaktine everyone was stressed bec. we had an exam in few minutes and a close friend ...
A. 4 June 2013: It can be so confusing trying to decide whether a boy likes you or not, I know! I've found that boys tend to be more direct in their approach to girls, than girls are to boys. I think girls do tend to read into things that boys do and say to them a ... (read in full...)
I love my wife but am sexually frustrated!
Q. Been married for 09 years. Living in a conservative society, but independent. Sex doesn't feel great anymore. Used to be crazy like rabbits first year into marriage, but faded with time to the extent now i'm thinking about an extramarital affair ...
A. 3 June 2013: Having an affair is never an answer, neither is using call girls. How would you feel if your wife cheated on you? You married this woman, she is your partner for life and deserves more respect from you. There are plenty of ways to reconnect with ... (read in full...)
I'm scared I might be a lesbian?
Q. I hate telling this, But im in need of a little advice. I'm 15 years old, and have been questioning for a long time now. I dont know where to begin. -I had my first lesbian crush to my 2nd grade teacher. Grade 2-5 i went to a very school private s...
A. 17 May 2013: Hi there :) first of all, there is no reason to be scared! You are growing into your sexuality and you will continue to grow. It's normal to be figuring this stuff out at your age, and whether you decide that you are lesbian, bisexual or straight, ... (read in full...)
I keep forgetting not to expect any favors from him!
Q. Dear Cupid Whenever i ask my bf of 3 yrs for a favours like picking me up from office or doing some errands for me, he will pick up a fight and stop talking to me for days. I have to beg him to talk to me. I stopped asking him for any help or favo...
A. 19 March 2013: Are you being sarcastic when you say you forget to not ask favors of him? Because this sounds ridiculous, to be honest. He sounds very immature, self centered and emotionally abusive. Why are you with someone who you can't count on? Do you really ... (read in full...)
How do I make him regret leaving me?
Q. my boyfrnd left me for no having sex i am a muslim and my religion doesnt allows sex before marriage what should i say to him so that he remebers it all his lifee and regrets wat he did with mee after promising soo man times that he wont leave me or ...
A. 19 March 2013: Good for you for sticking up for what you believe in! You might care what this guy thinks of you right now, but in time you won't give a damn- I promise! A guy who dumps you for not having sex isn't worth a second thought. Focus on your friends and ... (read in full...)
There's no love anymore, how do I break up with him?
Q. I want to break up with my boyfriend. We have been in a long distance relationship for about a year and a half now. He doesn't let me hang out with my friends, I'm only allowed to see them like once every 2 weeks if that. And he constantly makes me ...
A. 19 March 2013: You need to set up boundaries between the two of you. I have been through a very similar end to a relationship myself... I suggest going to the police and getting a protection order against him. It's basically where you fill out a form stating how ... (read in full...)
We can't wait but it hurts her too much!
Q. Hello, my girlfriend and I are both 16 and have been going out for 3 months. We've both decided were ready for intercourse but we have an issue. When we first got together I could only fit one finger inside of her, now I can fit two most of the ...
A. 13 March 2013: I think she needs to masturbate herself with a vibrator/dildo to loosen herself up a bit. Make sure she uses lots of lubricant so there is less friction. I think that although she might be 'turned on', perhaps she isn't relaxed with you... She needs ... (read in full...)
Is it normal to NEVER have fantasies about your partner?
Q. I have a question for all the people who are either in a serious relationship, or married. Is it normal to NEVER have sexual fantasies about your partner? The reason I ask is because while I am attracted to my husband, I find myself fantasizi...
A. 13 March 2013: Every person has fantasies! It doesn't mean you love your partner any less. Everyone would like to think that they are the only one their partner fantasizes about, but it's not realistic. I have been with my partner for 2 years and I always think of ... (read in full...)
Stress of being 8 months pregnant, school work, money and fiancee being away.
Q. Hello i could really use some advice as i just don't know how to cope with all the things life is currently throwing at me. I think i may be depressed. Ive just moved out of my parents for the first time and have got my own house with my fionce. I ...
A. 26 February 2013: It definitely sounds like you have a lot on your plate, no wonder you're stressed! Communicating with your partner will definitely help you feel more supported, as well as spending time with your family and friends. Letting your Uni know about your ... (read in full...)
Will our relationship survive on little contact?
Q. Ok so I'm 17 and I've been with my boyfriend for almost a month now. he's amazing, he doesn't mind the fact that I'm a virgin but he just started working and we would go weeks without seeing each other and to top that sometimes we only talk for 5mns...
A. 26 February 2013: You said you've only been with him a month, but you go weeks without seeing each other? How old the guy? What's his job? Sounds like he is pulling the wool over your eyes. You are in the honeymoon period, where you are supposed to want to talk to ... (read in full...)
I don't understand my girlfriend's behavior and I'm worried that something is really off!
Q. i don't have a clue what to think about this situation and i'm incredibly confused about what's really going on. i have been with my girlfriend for about three months now, but something in the pit of my stomach tells me that i'm missing somethin...
A. 26 February 2013: I would definitely talk to her about how she is feeling. If she has a history of anxiety she may well stress herself out so much that she just avoids the exams altogether so she doesn't have to deal with the stress. I'm guessing she's embarrassed ... (read in full...)
I lost my overseas b/f because he found out what I do for a living!
Q. Hi, I'm 22 years professional bargirl in thailand, I had boyfriend for 5 month overseas, I love he very much. But he find out of my work and now he finish me and say he want no more to know me. He a very nice man with good heart, not like the no ...
A. 26 February 2013: Why does your overseas boyfriend have a problem with your job? Or is the problem that you've lied about your job? Maybe he is jealous of the men you work with, or the men you meet while working. If this is the case move on, because a long distance... (read in full...)
Should I get checked? I was bleeding after sex!
Q. Ok so I think I'm kinda embarrassed to answer this question so anyways. Just had sex with my friend. He's like my bestie. Hell I can't believe this happen since I be on that 90 day rule shit lol. I don't feel nasty or anything because we have been ...
A. 26 February 2013: It could be spotting from in between your periods. Or that your hymen had just stretched when you had sex previously and not actually broken until now. Or if there wasnt enough lubrication during sex you may have torn a little. I think you are fine ... (read in full...)
Why won't my amazing, lovely wife have sex with me with the lights on?
Q. My wife is amazing in bed,even after 20+ years together,3 kids I still think she has a fantastic figure,the only problem is she still won't have sex with light on,let me me see her naked or have sex in daytime,I keep telling she's got a lovely ...
A. 25 February 2013: Pretty much all women have things about their body they don't like, but your wife sounds like she has especially low self esteem. Buy her some sexy lingerie, some massage oil, wine and candles to get the romance flowing. Maybe she won't have sex ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong for me to have fallen for him? He's 17!
Q. Hi this is a tough one, Im a 27 year old woman and i recently started back at college in september last year, I became close friends with a 17 year old boy we have become really close we get along so well and have same interests and hobbies our ...
A. 25 February 2013: I think you need to let him go. I don't think anything good can come from dating a teenager when you are a mature woman. As someone else pointed out, the relationship is unlikely to lead anywhere as he 10 years behind you emotionally, financially, ... (read in full...)
I think I am left out of my group of friends. How can I get them to include me?
Q. I've been hanging around with friendship group of about 5/6 girls at school now for about a year. I feel as though they leave me out and that I'm always the one who has to make the effort. They never invite me to go out with them. I'll be on ...
A. 25 February 2013: That happened to me in high school too. Girls play with social power, especially in high school, in a passive aggressive way. Meaning they are hurting you by leaving you out instead of saying nasty stuff to your face. It makes them feel more ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend keeps teasing me about being loud in bed, and it's making me self-conscious!
Q. Hello everyone! I'd like to know if you think I'm being too sensitive about this issue or not. Every so often, my boyfriend starts teasing me about the fact I can be rather, erm, vocal in bed. I know he doesn't do it to be horrible, but he does like ...
A. 25 February 2013: I think it's stroking his ego, remembering how loud you were. I'd say he definitely likes this and that's why he teases you. Tease him back about something sex related, like his orgasm face. Lol... (read in full...)
Is it illegal to date second cousins?
Q. My boyfriend is my second cousin 3 we love each other so much but people judge us and our family doesnt know yet... is it illegal to date him in australia?!? help me plz he is my true love xxxx...
A. 25 February 2013: It's not illegal but it's not approved of either. I think you should talk to someone in your family that you trust about this... (read in full...)
He wants to be friends yet flirted with me. Where do I stand?
Q. I'm a junior in high school and i like this Guy a lot. He is a grade below me but he's only 2 months younger than me. He had a gf but they broke up a few days after he found out that i like him. I didn't actually tell him myself until after they ...
A. 25 February 2013: Try not to read into flirting too much, this will drive you crazy! Everybody flirts but it doesn't really mean they like you. If he wants you it will happen. If not, he's just not that into you. And in that case, plenty more fish in the sea!... (read in full...)
He's kicked me and threatened to hit me. Will he improve? Is this relationship worth saving?
Q. I am in a committed relationship since 3 years and 7 months. The first 3 years we were in a LDR. Now we both stay in the same city. My bf sometimes behaves very badly with me because he feels that I control his life. I said its nothing like tha...
A. 25 February 2013: He will do it again. Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me. Move on and find a real man who doesn't abuse women
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Is my Bf mean to tell me, "if you wore make up you could look as good as other girls"?
Q. My boyfriend makes me feel insecure then gets mad if I ask questions about him having his exs numbers/if he see's then ect. He confuses me cos he says such sweet things sometimes but then he says things like "if you wore make up you could look as ...
A. 25 February 2013: He sounds like a total jerk. He is putting you down about how you look but then complaining that you are insecure and sensitive? A healthy relationship is about making each other feel good. It seems like he is bringing you down because he is ... (read in full...)
Why would my 62 year old husband start looking at porn on the computer?
Q. Hi, My husband is 62 Years old and for the past 2 months he has been looking at naked women online. He confessed to me last night. I was so hurt. What would cause this? I feel like I have nothing left. Donna...
A. 25 February 2013: I know it does feel hurtful. But perhaps in his age he is starting to have issues with erections and needs extra stimuli to get it up. I'm sure it has nothing to do with you and is more about him. Try and talk to him without getting too upset... (read in full...)
Boyfriend keeps teasing me about being loud in bed, and it's making me self-conscious!
Q. Hello everyone! I'd like to know if you think I'm being too sensitive about this issue or not. Every so often, my boyfriend starts teasing me about the fact I can be rather, erm, vocal in bed. I know he doesn't do it to be horrible, but he does like ...
A. 27 January 2012: He probably likes teasing you because he likes to remember the great time you guys had together, because it made him feel like the man!... (read in full...)
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