Why is he giving his ex the time of day?
Q. I need a second opinion preferably from a guys point of view because i personally don't know how to react to this. So here goes my boyfriend and i are very much in love we have just got our own place and ready to move in and start our life togethe...
A. 24 August 2011: Then tell him that - just ask if he would be ok if you texted with your ex, if he says not then he should get the clue himself..... (read in full...)
Dating a guy with a child: Good or bad idea?
Q. I've recently met a guy and we hit it off, so have planned a few dates over the next few weeks. We have been texting daily and getting to know each other better, and today he told me that he has a son. Now I have never dated anyone with a ch...
A. 14 July 2011: You are not over thinking this- I was in such a relationship and baby's mama made sure to create living hell. Mind you they were fine until the moment I entered his life in fact they were friendly(she had left him) the moment she found out he met ... (read in full...)
Ex wants me to help her with repairs around her house, and is furious because I said I would charge her for it! Does that make me a jerk?
Q. I dated a girl for a while. In that time, I did a lot of things for her. One thing I did was help around her house. I am very handy and once worked for a plumber. I mowed the lawn and did repairs. We broke up two month ago. It was a bad breakup....
A. 11 July 2011: I see nothing wrong with that, ex owes nothing to other ex for free and shouldn't ask anything from each other too...so don't let her make you feel guilty...... (read in full...)
He has a business relatinship with his ex that I wonder is more than business?
Q. Im in a relationship with a man that I love. The massive issue is that he shares a company with his ex partner. We have been together for four years and the business trips away with her don't get any easier. He has swore to me there is nothing ...
A. 17 June 2011: The reason I asked how is she towards you is because I am in same situation but from my side, I work together with my ex and do have someone new in my life, I made it clear to both of them that I want everyone to get along and no unnecessary drama, ... (read in full...)
He has a business relatinship with his ex that I wonder is more than business?
Q. Im in a relationship with a man that I love. The massive issue is that he shares a company with his ex partner. We have been together for four years and the business trips away with her don't get any easier. He has swore to me there is nothing ...
A. 16 June 2011: How is she in regards to you??? If she has never said or done anything bad to you or about you and is cool about your relationship with him there shouldn't be many issues, I would actually try to get to know her and may be develop friendsh... (read in full...)
My wife of 19 years is a really, really good friend and roommate... but I cannot stand that we do not have that romantic, sexual side to our relationship. Is it unfair to expect more? Will I make a big mistake in giving that up in exchange for more
Q. I am 38 and I have been with my wife 19 years. I love her, but I feel like we are not "in love." We are best friends and we really enjoy each other's company. We do all kinds of things together and we make each other happy. However, when we...
A. 13 June 2011: I don't know how long this has been going on, but will tell you one thing - I made through exactly the same situation 3 years before I said - that's it can't do that anymore, we ended up staying great friends,I guess because none of us lied or ... (read in full...)
28 years later and I want to know what her sexual past was
Q. hi i have been married to a wonderful woman for 28 years. i met her when she was 16 and i was 20. i was with prostitutes from 18 till before i met her. i could not have sex with girls i went to school with and take what did not belong to me,so i ...
A. 12 June 2011: I can not believe you would hold this against her that she didn't wait for you for 1,5 YEARS! Is she a psychic to know that you will be back together and was she supposed to stop events in her life for a hope that you would eventually return? You ne... (read in full...)
10 years no sex, engagement ring I've never given to her..what do I do?
Q. I am 38. My girlfriend is 40. We have been together since 1992. When we first met I was almost (but not quite) totally inexperienced with women and my girlfriend, although having had sex with maybe 5-6 guys was inexperienced with relationships. S...
A. 31 May 2011: Are you out of your mind??????? You have no idea how many fun, sexy, lovely women are out there...You just dont have the chemistry that takes 2 to tango..
I was in a similar spot for 2 years where attraction was gone but none of us dared to leav... (read in full...)
Is she manipulating me? Does she want me back? Should I move on?
Q. My ex and I broke up about 3 months ago but decided to stay friends. The first big torpedo for us was me catching her sexting her ex- from long ago and hurting my trust. She begged for forgiveness and for us to stay friends; I caved because I stil...
A. 26 May 2011: You are getting played like a little puppet - stop it and move on, Best wishes... (read in full...)
I pay for most of our outings. He fails to make me feel special. How can I get him to be more attentive?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years. As we have gotten older, he has had increasing financial responsibilities. I have much less financial responsibilities and I understand this so I usually pay for going out, dinner, trips, etc. I fe...
A. 9 May 2011: I am no one to judge, but in my eyes man should be a man and treat his woman to a nice dinner out at least couple times a month, I do get that we all work and should pull our forces together for bills etc, but any woman likes/needs to be made feel ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend will no longer give oral sex, says she hates it. Why did she do it to every guy in the past then?
Q. My girlfriend and me are together for a year now.. and have a decent intimate life.. we stay in different cities so meet just maybe once or twice a month.. Since the past 5months she hasnt given me any oral sex.. and i didnt pressurize her.....
A. 3 May 2011: That is screwed up and you are right, she should have stated this in the beginning and now you wouldnt be facing these issues and you could have gotten out when it was not serious jet.... Sex is the only thing that separates lovers and friends and ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend resents spending £5 on me!
Q. My boyfriend of 35 doesn't have a lot of money to spare but has 8k in the bank and no debts and two cars and a bike which are his hobbies. We go 50/50 and always do free things like cycling and rambling. Last night I cooked him an expensive meal ...
A. 28 April 2011: Cheap, cheap, cheap.... I can tell you that at least 50% women would find that a major turn-off and wouldn't even feel attracted to such a penny pincher... so imagine this goes further you get baby's and then what- that will also be YOUR expense??? ... (read in full...)
Retroactive Jealousy is driving me insane. Help!!
Q. I need help in dealing with Retroactive Jealousy. I’ll keep this as short as I can. Kevin (my bf) was in love with me since school. I didn’t feel the same way and turned him down. A couple of yrs later, I fell for him and tried to approach him....
A. 17 April 2011: Sorry but I cant be very nice about this...Oh and you dated couple "perfect" guys - he then also has rights to say - how could you be with someone like that, think about it- would you like him to obsess about people from your past that dont matter ... (read in full...)
Is he stringing me along?
Q. My boyfriend was previously in an 10 year relationship whereby he had two kids with her. We’ve been together for 15 months. He and his ex girlfriend split up 7 months before we met. He has said that he loves me and we spend 98% of our time tog...
A. 14 April 2011: If you cant handle your jealousy you need to go for guys without "baggage". Men with kids will alway come also with the mother of their kids. I am not overly jealous but was also in such a relationship and decided that I would rather like someone ... (read in full...)
Help with losing inches
Q. hi friends..... i just needed help from u people..... can any one suggest me ways to reduce my waist.. who has already done it and it worked... i really need it.... as my waist is increasing and it doesn't look good at all....and another sugge...
A. 5 April 2011: You will not loose any weight if you dont start eating nice breakfast, in the morning by not eating breakfast you let your body to go in "hunger mode" then whatever you have later your body store as "reserve" and that goes straight to your waist and ... (read in full...)
Help with losing inches
Q. hi friends..... i just needed help from u people..... can any one suggest me ways to reduce my waist.. who has already done it and it worked... i really need it.... as my waist is increasing and it doesn't look good at all....and another sugge...
A. 4 April 2011: It's 60% what you eat and 40% how much you sport - for me to loose all 17 kilos I had extra took eating fish or chicken with salad every nite for dinner( no bread,potatoes, rice or pasta after 4 pm) and 2 spinning classes a week followed by 20 ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend can't handle it when I am over-emotional! Is this normal?
Q. Hello all! My question is quite general and refers to the possible differences between the sexes. I really love my bf and he loves me. He’s a great guy with loads going for him and he is very loving and affectionate. We are planning to have kid...
A. 4 April 2011: It is a guy thing. If you state yourself that you can be sometimes overemotional - it will be harder for men to understand. Of course there are also same type of guys out there and they will be able to understand you with that, but then if both ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my parents I can hear them having sex?
Q. I still live at home and my parents are in their 60's. I keep hearing them having sex and it's getting quite annoying and loud. Do you think I should say anything to them?...
A. 1 April 2011: Totally agree, get ear plugs or your own place. Congrats to ur parents for still being in love and having it!!!!!!... (read in full...)
The more I've got to know my husband, the less I like him!
Q. Dear Cupid, I have been married to my husband for over a 1.5 yr ago i..e we signed the marriage certificate almost 2 yrs ago and i moved with him 6 months after signing him. Few months after signing him we had fights regarding issues with his frie...
A. 18 March 2011: Run for your life girl - If he is already put you in 2nd or 3rd best position there is little hope you will move in 1st and even after the trust and all affection probably will be lost on your side ...We all deserve to be 1st to ... (read in full...)
I want to be completely smooth down there!
Q. alright, i need tips on how i should shave my pubic area! i know you gals out there know your stuff and i'd love to know your secrets. how do you get it completely smooth? what products do you use? i'm avoiding waxing since it's pricey and would ...
A. 15 February 2011: I couldn't stand the bumps and itching and opted for laser - best decision ever made - you only have to do it once in 6-8 weeks and hair that falls out never grows back plus the ones that are there grow thinner and really slow and are easy to shave ... (read in full...)
Help my girlfriend turned into a different person.
Q. I apologize for the length of this but I really need some perspective and advice on how to behave with my girlfriend right now: I met and starting dating a girl a little over two years ago and thought I had found the love of my life. She lived ...
A. 20 December 2010: I don't believe she is so naive or anyone that can be so easily manipulated. What I believe in is that you have turned into a "reserve" just like that reserve tire everyone needs for their car...You are that soft pillow for her to always fall back ... (read in full...)
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