28 years later and I want to know what her sexual past was

A male age , anonymous writes:

hi i have been married to a wonderful woman for 28 years. i met her when she was 16 and i was 20. i was with prostitutes from 18 till before i met her. i could not have sex with girls i went to school with and take what did not belong to me,so i went to prostitutes. i met my future wife in 1980. she was a virgin, we attempted sexual intercourse once when she was seventeen. she started crying afraid of getting pregnet and afraid of what her mother would think. i had my penis about half way in her vegina , i had the end of my penis at her hymen. i pulled out and we did not attempt again. we broke up a couple of months later, and was apart for a year and a half. after we got back together it felt like heaven to be back with her. on our second date some things troubled me. while parked i the drive way at her place we were petting heavy . she bent over and started sucking on my penis. she never did that when we where dating before. i felt uneasy. i started fingering her it felt different. before all i could get in was one finger. but now i could get in three or four fingers in her pussy. that bothered me . she gave excuses and lied . a couple of days later she confessed she had been with another guy while we where broke up, and others. it really hurts i knew her when she was a virgin, it is no easier 28 years later. she never gave me any details and she had a diary when we first met she got rid of it so i would not see what was written in it. the first time we made love the morning after we got married when i put my penis in her vegina , i layed my head down and looked away. i was crying on the inside, because she did not fill like she did when we attempted sex the first time . 28 years later and i still have a lot of questions that are killing me. i want know the details of who and how many. i have been very depressed by this lately . i have been crying a lot. i broke down and cried while we started making love this morning. i told her i needed to know details of what happened during the time we was apart . she replied i did a lot of things i wish i would not have done. is it wrong for me to ask what went own, and why could she not have waited on me. i am writing this through tears. i am depressed i have been crying at work and home. what should i do?

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