I suffer extreme jealousy
Q. I have a serious jealousy problem. I cannot control it. There's this guy that my girlfriend is friends with; I don't even know the kid, I've never met him, and I hate his guts. I don't know why but whenever even his name comes up in a conversa...
A. 6 July 2007: Your girlfriend said she'd date him if she wasn't with you? What are you still doing with her, dude? You can do SO much better! Instead of focusin on how much you hate that guy, he's done nothing wrong here! I think you deserve a lot better, so find ... (read in full...)
I suffer extreme jealousy
Q. I have a serious jealousy problem. I cannot control it. There's this guy that my girlfriend is friends with; I don't even know the kid, I've never met him, and I hate his guts. I don't know why but whenever even his name comes up in a conversa...
A. 5 July 2007: Hi there. I think your jealousy says more about you than about this kid you're angry at. So what are you afraid of? Losing your girlfriend? Her spending more time with some other dude than you? You really need to ask yourself such questions so that ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend had sex with my mother!
Q. I came home from work the other day early and found my boyfriend who is 39, having sex with my mother, aged 69, on my bed. My parents live with me, as does my boyfriend who moved in last year. He does drink a lot as he is having problems with post ...
A. 5 July 2007: Oh my goodness, I feel so bad to hear your story! This is unreal. But I personally would not go through with the wedding. It doesn't matter who your boyfriend slept with - whether it was your mother, your sister or a complete stranger - infidelity ... (read in full...)
I respect girls and treat them right. So why won't they date me?
Q. Dear Everybody I'm 14 and surrounded by people my age with boy/girlfriends. All the boys in my year group are perverted and simply 'use' these girls to feel them up etc which is highly inaporpriate and In my opinion, very rude! I am one of onl...
A. 5 July 2007: Hi there I must just say that it is awesome that you treat girls with respect! That is a rare find in dudes these days and girls STILL want find it attractive. You just gotta give it some time. See, some girls might find the bad/arrogant guy... (read in full...)
Why do girls dump nice guys for bad boys?
Q. Why do girls dump nice guys for bad boys? I mean its interesting when girls say that they want nice sensitive guys but they usually date all the bad boys and the nice guys are reserved as friends. And its not just insecure girls, but even ...
A. 5 April 2007: Yes, there is something appealing about the bad boy. But let me let you in on a little secret - in real life it's not glamorous to be with a bad boy. They're often cheats, liars and trouble! I think girls might be attracted to that 'ideal' they have ... (read in full...)
I've lost my confidence and mojo!
Q. I really dont know what to do. Normally I am a happy postive person who's always helping other people out. but lately i haven't felt like this person at all, I've felt this way for quite a while now, although others can't see it as i hide it well ...
A. 5 April 2007: Hi there
Firstly, let me just say that you shouldn't feel stupid for feeling like this! Everyone goes through this at some stage.
In fact, I can totally relate to what you said about your relationship. I was recently in a relationship whe... (read in full...)
How do I talk to my guy about periods and things ? Surely most guys dont want to know!?
Q. I know this sounds silly, but OK, here goes: Im kind of weird about talking about stuff that's very female. Like periods and stuff. I've known my boyfriend for a month and a half, and now I'm on my period!! How do I talk to him about it?...
A. 31 March 2007: I would say that you don't have to tell him - why do you want to tell him so badly? If it happens that you are very tense and grumpy or whatever, and he gives you a confused stare because he doesn't know where the bad mood is coming from, then by ... (read in full...)
My long distance boyfriend never calls when he says he will, We love each other so why is this ?
Q. I don't know what to do about my boyfriend's bad calling habbits anymore! We're in a long distance relationship and a few weeks ago he moved out of his roomates place and back home with his parents. His cell phone has been dead for the past month ...
A. 31 March 2007: Hi there
There is nothing worse than waiting for the phone to ring only to discover that he hasn't called. The thing is, you've tried to tell him how you feel so then why can't he take the time to make the effort? This is a big issue, in my eyes,... (read in full...)
I really love this guy but two days ago was the first time he's ever hit me and left me a mark.
Q. I am a 20 year old female that has been with a man for almost three years.In the past year we had made a family. I am so confused because i feel like he is losing interest in me and I feel like he don't love me. He's always telling me he needs ...
A. 31 March 2007: He's calling you names, belittling you and hitting you? Why are you still with him?? Don't say it's because you love him because you deserve to be with someone who treats you with respect and loves you back - and this guy is not doing those things. ... (read in full...)
When we're together it's wonderful then he stops contacting me for weeks/months at a time!
Q. Ok here goes, will make as brief as possible! Met a guy on a dating website in 2005, hit it off and arranged to meet up few weeks later although that never happened (I had other plans arranged). Kept in touch via text and emails, then he went off...
A. 31 March 2007: Hi there
I can understand how confusing it is to be in a situation like this! But the thing is that you've got to ask yourself what you want - Do you want to be with someone who is great with you when you're together but then doesn't make the... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend seeing someone else?
Q. is my boyfriend seeing someone else my boyfriend have been working away for a week while he was away i didnt heard from him then tonight he calls me asking how i am and stuff and if i've met someone else i said no thn asked if i have a sex life and ...
A. 31 March 2007: Hi there
It is a bit weird that he was away for a week and didn't contact you - I admit sometimes that can be a sign that something's up. It's not right for someone to not talk to you for that long when they're away and then hang up on you! Whe... (read in full...)
I'm 24 and have been married 2 weeks. My husband (28) has just taken a lover who is 64!!!
Q. I'm 24, and have just got married to my new husband who's 28. Recently he went on a business trip for a few days, or so it seemed, until a good friend (female) had told me she'd seen him with his lover. I thought that was bad enough - se...
A. 31 March 2007: Yikes, that is stressful. Anyone in your position would be feeling the same thing. But first of all, I have to ask: who is this friend who told you? Is it a reliable source?
If she is, then I'd say the next step is to talk to your husband. You ment... (read in full...)
We're married with 5 children and now my husband is asking for another woman to come into OUR bed!!
Q. My Husband is a really loving man but he is asking for another woman to come into our bed we are married with 5 children and I don't know what could I be doing wrong? What do I do?...
A. 31 March 2007: Why is it that women always blame themselves?! You asked if you've done anything wrong, but this isn't about you at all so don't blame yourself! You need to seriously talk to your husband about his request - is this something you're comfortable ... (read in full...)
He broke up with me 3 months ago, now he's like a bodyguard to me where other men are concerned!
Q. my ex broke up with me 3 months ago. At the time we were working together and i got laid off shortly after. During these 3 months he would call me like once a week (if even that) just to see how i was doing. I just went back to the job two weeks ...
A. 31 March 2007: The funny thing is that despite telling you he loves you, HE'S the one who broke up with you! Okay, obviously he's jealous of other guys being around you, but he is the one who chose not to be with you anymore, so he can't expect to now have a hold ... (read in full...)
How do I tell my bf thats hes dull and boring and that I want to date my ex ?
Q. I'm emotional troubled. I've been dating my boyfriend for almost a year. I got with him right after I broke up with my ex. Our relationship is so dull and boring. We can't even hold up a 10 min conversation on the telephone. So in the end I've ...
A. 23 March 2007: There's honesty and then there's hurting someone's feelings. It's never necessary to do the latter. I would suggest you tell your boyfriend that you're simply not happy in the relationship anymore (that is what it boils down to, after all).
If, o... (read in full...)
She assures me she loves me, but Im not sure how to act as she keeps feeling suffocated!
Q. Hmmm. I'm a little confused here. So around January, the most amazing 6 or 7 months that I've had w/ anyone. My girlfriend broke up w/ me almost w/o a warning. No fight, no bad feelings, nothing. She freaked out on the phone and after crying hys...
A. 23 March 2007: I admit, this is quite a mind-boggling issue because SHE's the one who is saying she loves you and SHE is having a wonderful time with you, so how can she be feeling suffocated? Could it be that she's scared of relationships - perhaps is she afraid ... (read in full...)
Do you think that he slept with her, and just lied to me ?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been going out for six months. Then today he tells me that he went out with a female friend of his and they went drinking and then he ended up sleeping at her place because it was late at night! I was a bit shocked at this ...
A. 23 March 2007: Thanks Tellulah, that helps :) Just to clarify: he didn't tell me out of his own will - I actually asked him what had happened. So maybe he would've kept it a secret if I didn't ask? Now isn't that dodgy?? ... (read in full...)
Its early days and I really like him, I dont want to come across as needy so how do I relax ?
Q. i have been seeing this great guy nearly,2wks.i think about him all the time,its driving me mad.i cant seem to chill myself out,and am scared i am coming across all needy.how can i just start to relax,and just enjoy everyday as it comes?dont want to ...
A. 23 March 2007: It's not easy to relax because you want to be with him all the time - yep we've all been (or currently are) there!
But the thing to remember is that the tighter you hold something, the quicker it slips your grasp. Guys also like to be the ones who ... (read in full...)
Do you think that he slept with her, and just lied to me ?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been going out for six months. Then today he tells me that he went out with a female friend of his and they went drinking and then he ended up sleeping at her place because it was late at night! I was a bit shocked at this ...
A. 23 March 2007: Just to add: Do you think it's dodgy for a guy in a relationship to be drinking with female friends and crashing at their houses?
Thanks!... (read in full...)
Would it be easier for us to stay friends..or can we ever begin where we left off?
Q. Do people come back from being friends? My girlfriend had a hard time dealing with me being away for a period of time and I will be for a few more months. She told me she needed time to herself and that she couldn't deal with a relationship righ...
A. 23 March 2007: I have been in your situation (well, obviously the details were a bit different). But maybe it will help you to hear what happened with me? A few years ago I was dating a guy for a few weeks and then out of the blue he told me that he's not ready ... (read in full...)
I haven't kissed a guy in 2 years and I'm nervous that my date will be turned off since I'm out of practice! Help!
Q. Guys, would you be turned off of a girl if your first kiss with her was a bad kiss? I'm going on a date tomorrow with a guy i know from work and its the first date since we admitted our feelings for each other. Thing is, I'm worried that because ive ...
A. 23 March 2007: I'm a girl, but I can help you because I've been there! It's normal to feel out of practice or like you're gonna get the kiss all wrong. But seriously, you need to relax, enjoy the moment and just let it flow. Sometimes it also helps to let the guy ... (read in full...)
My gf gets annoyed over the sillyest things!!
Q. Why is my girlfriend get so pi**ed at the stupidest stuff?? I'm always taking care of my girlfriend, whether going out to eat, movies, and even being doctor for her that she's been sick lately. My girlfriend though snaps at the stupidest stuff. F...
A. 23 March 2007: You know what they say - what you're fighting about usually has a lot more to do with the topic at hand. Perhaps you need to seriously talk to her about what's REALLY bugging her. Come on, it's not really the alarm clock. There was once a couple on ... (read in full...)
Is he cheating do you think... ? Or am I being too paranoid?
Q. I need some true help! My boyfriend of almost a year has suddenly begun to change his attitude towards me. I think he is cheating and I even know with who. I ask him about it and he just says that they hang out and I shouldnt "trip" on it. Pr...
A. 23 March 2007: I think you know deep down in your heart that it's time to throw this jerk to the curb and drive away! You're not being paranoid. In fact, you're spot on- the signs are all there. And if he's telling other people that you're his roommate, well that ... (read in full...)
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