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writes: Why is my girlfriend get so pi**ed at the stupidest stuff?? I'm always taking care of my girlfriend, whether going out to eat, movies, and even being doctor for her that she's been sick lately.My girlfriend though snaps at the stupidest stuff. For example this morning she had to be up at 430 am to get back home and get ready for work. I walked her to the door and we said our goodbyes. I was beyond exhausted and didn't even realize I set the alarm for 730 am when I have work at 8. Later today, I told my girlfriend I didn't go back to sleep when she left, which I didn't, but might have nodded off in the cpu chair for an hour getting up around 730. So when she came over my house tonight to stay, she went to set the alarm and saw it set for 730 and threw a fit about it, saying how I lied to her about getting up this morning and just made it too work.I honestly can't remember setting it, and I change the alarm all the time in my sleep. And now she's sleeping here snoring............Anyway, it's not just this incident, it's others. Embellishing on the truth abit, not doing things a certain way, the way I drive, etc, etc.......Why?? When everything I do for her always shows my love and that I care about her. I'm sick of her getting pi**ed over the stupidest shit, and trying to talk to her about it, forget it. Reply to this Question
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reader, Lia  +, writes (23 March 2007):
 You know what they say - what you're fighting about usually has a lot more to do with the topic at hand. Perhaps you need to seriously talk to her about what's REALLY bugging her. Come on, it's not really the alarm clock. There was once a couple on the Oprah show who were fighting about which toilet paper to buy and a psychologist on the show said, 'It's not about the toilet paper.' So I'd say you have to try to get to the bottom of this issue and see what's going on. Without communication, you don't have much of a relationship. Try to speak nicely to her, take an interest in her life and what's going on, find out why she's lashing out, tell her how it makes you feel when she picks on you over silly things, ask her if she's happy, etc. Women want to be heard, so this should work. Hope this helps and let us know how it goes with her!
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