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*oungmum111
writes:Okay so im a 18 year old single mum to a 10 month old baby, for a long time i have been attracted to older men. My daughters father is 38 and i am currently dating a man who is 52, is this normal? Or do i need to seek help??
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reader, Youngmum111 +, writes (26 March 2011):
Youngmum111 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI mean the legal age to have sex in new zealand is 16
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reader, Youngmum111 +, writes (26 March 2011):
Youngmum111 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionAlso my father and I get along fine we were very close when i was younger and we still are we contact each other almost every day so no problems there
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reader, Youngmum111 +, writes (26 March 2011):
Youngmum111 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell in nz the legal age to have sex so neither of them have broken the law
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reader, uncle bob  +, writes (25 March 2011):
 I'm not trying to be a smart-ass.It seems to me as though you have some unresolved father issues. You say you have a 10 month old with a 38 year old man, who's no longer in the picture, as far as I can tell.Your now dating a 52 year old man. I don't know what the laws are in New Zealand, but in North America, the 38 year old would now be serving time in prison for having sex with a minor. The 52 year old would also be considered a borderline pedophile, at the very least.Both of these men definitely have some problems. It appears as though they both prefer little girls to women!There's also the added problem of the types of role models your subjecting your 10 month old to.Please understand, I'm not in any way trying to "put you down".I just truly believe you need some serious counselling soon. If not for yourself, please do it for your child!
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reader, lolakkatuk  +, writes (25 March 2011):
I'm not sure. I think you need to stop though. One day a man could take 'advantage' of you, if you know what I mean. . .I'm sorry but it *could* happen.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2011): Nope. It's normal. I was 16 when I fell pregnant, and my boyfriend was 32. I also like older guys. Burt Reynolds is just so yum in my books. ;) It's fine so don't fret =)
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reader, JenL  +, writes (25 March 2011):
 i don't think it is abnormal ~ i guess girls tend to like guys who're older than themselves because they are more mature and attractive ~ when i was 15, i like a guys who was like 30 something, or maybe 40. now, i am attracted to a guy who is about to turn 49 in June and i'm 25 ;)
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