I've been so lonely and insecure after breaking up with my girlfriend.
Q. After a year, my break up , i couldn't find anyone to be with. I'm alone , 27 . and i showed my intention to girls but there is no respond. my big problem is i have no company to go with friends. because i'm working hard on my thesis , and alw...
A. 11 February 2013: You have to question yourself why you want a relationship. Is it because you miss what you had with your ex? You shouldn't go after something you had with someone else, all relationships are different.
You shouldn't date just to avoid being al... (read in full...)
She says she doesn't know why we broke up?
Q. Hello everyone, I met this girl late last year, just intended to be friends at first and didn't want a relationship, but it didn't take long for her to impress me enough that I knew I had to have her. It didn't take long for us to hit it off, ...
A. 20 June 2012: Thank you for the replies everyone :)
I hate to say though that you're probably all correct, I hate that two people can get along so well and yet it's still not enough :/
I am curious about the last comment though, I would like to know the deta... (read in full...)
How do I deal with him being in a relationship? I can't imagine not being friends with him but this is so hard!
Q. Hey. So I used to be seeing this boy, let's call him Matt, and we were together for a while, it started off well and we were really happy but we went through a rough patch in our relationship and he ended up braking up with me, telling me that we ...
A. 20 June 2012: It's quite obvious from what he says and the way he's acting that he'd rather be dating you than be friends. When he realised that you just want to be friends he decided that he had to move on.
I hate to say it but sometimes if two people have bee... (read in full...)
How to move forward? How can I tell if she just misses our friendship or us?
Q. Right I'm in a pickle I can't get out of , when I was 17 I met a girl 1 year younger, who was amazing,she was kind, funny, didn't drink nor smoke, and well I loved everything about her!! And she loved me in an obessive way.. I always felt she could ...
A. 20 June 2012: It sounds like you still like her and there's the possibility that she likes you back.
So why not give it a chance?
Meet her, keep things light and just focus on having a good time, if she gives you the right signals then ask to see her again... (read in full...)
I really like her, trying to give her space, should I just stay in the background?
Q. I met this lady about a month ago now, asked her if she would like to meet up for drinks and we had a fantastic time, then we met again a week later and had another great time. Then we went round my place a few days later to cook and watch films....
A. 22 November 2011: Well I can be a right idiot at times, saw the advice and then sent her a text straight away, it's quarter past 12 in the morning...
Ah well I'll explain to her when we chat, if we do chat.
Thank you :)... (read in full...)
Did she ever really care? Or was I expecting too much for her to work things out with me?
Q. This time last year someone I'd known for eight years online confessed their love to me. We had only been speaking about 2 years since a massive break in contact, but we were talking every day since then. She seemed very empathetic at fi...
A. 26 March 2011: A very logical way to look at it, and it makes a lot of sense.
I can't thank you enough, it's really helped me get over this. After-all, it seems like I'm not missing out on much, and how can you miss something you never really had in the first pl... (read in full...)
Did she ever really care? Or was I expecting too much for her to work things out with me?
Q. This time last year someone I'd known for eight years online confessed their love to me. We had only been speaking about 2 years since a massive break in contact, but we were talking every day since then. She seemed very empathetic at fi...
A. 26 March 2011: That is a very in-depth answer, and is very much appreciated, thankyou!
Although I still believe that online relationships can work, I also think that they can help maintain an unrealistic dream-like relationship, as well as what you said. As... (read in full...)
Parting talk...
Q. She now feels sickened to look back on our relationship. And whilst this hurts I can appreciate why this is. Being physically intimate with someone means a lot to her, and being her first and then it ending like that has affected her. Because ...
A. 13 December 2010: Thankyou, but she hasn't replied.
Maybe in another few months we'll be able to talk again but having her not reply to me like that, well I don't know if I do want to talk to her anymore.
Thankyou both for the advice though, I did change the l... (read in full...)
How do I set things straight?
Q. Ok, I'll paste what's happened and then furnish it with details afterwards: Ok, so: I met this girl online years ago (Please let's not focus on the online aspect, it's all good) we fell for each other recently and I have travelled to her univ...
A. 13 December 2010: Wow, I wasn't expecting answers from this now. Thankyou for taking the time to do so though.
Me and this girl broke up about two and a half months ago, I can see now that basically the connection we had formed online didn't carry through to real ... (read in full...)
Parting talk...
Q. She now feels sickened to look back on our relationship. And whilst this hurts I can appreciate why this is. Being physically intimate with someone means a lot to her, and being her first and then it ending like that has affected her. Because ...
A. 10 December 2010: Thanks people. I sent her the email a few hours ago.
To be honest I'm not even expecting a reply, things just turned sour even though we never did anything to hurt eachother. It's odd.... (read in full...)
She wants to write off everything we ever had......
Q. I met this girl online 8 years ago, we have been friends since then up until now. 2 Years ago we started talking a lot more personally and soon fell into a mutual love. During the last two years me and her have shaped eachother's lives. I do not ...
A. 8 December 2010: We did speak about whether we were the same as we both expected the other to be, and we agreed that we were. I don't believe that it was a problem of truly getting to know eachother. (sure, there were some aspects that were new, but nothing that ... (read in full...)
Doubting what I had in the first place
Q. Ok, so two months ago I split up with the girl of my dreams. This post will be a bit long, but I need to include a lot of detail. Thanks in advance for reading. I think I know why it happened now, but when I asked some people for help they just t...
A. 28 November 2010: Thanks everyone, it's all been very helpful.
I was worried about whether she saw me as being confidant and I asked her about it when we broke up, she said that she's always seen me as confident and independent.
What I know I did wrong now wa... (read in full...)
Do I keep... or get rid?
Q. Dear Cupid, So im dating this black boy and my parents didn't know about it cause they would kill me if they knew. Well one day my mom wanted to look at my facebook and i knew he had posted comments and things on my wall, so i confessed. well ...
A. 28 November 2010: I'm sure you made the right choice! Good luck with everything. :)... (read in full...)
Doubting what I had in the first place
Q. Ok, so two months ago I split up with the girl of my dreams. This post will be a bit long, but I need to include a lot of detail. Thanks in advance for reading. I think I know why it happened now, but when I asked some people for help they just t...
A. 27 November 2010: Firstly, thankyou for replying.
The thing is that looking back, and in the first three days, it was easy. Our relationship has always been based on a brilliant friendship.
The reasons that I felt like that are complicated and unimportant. And... (read in full...)
Do I keep... or get rid?
Q. Dear Cupid, So im dating this black boy and my parents didn't know about it cause they would kill me if they knew. Well one day my mom wanted to look at my facebook and i knew he had posted comments and things on my wall, so i confessed. well ...
A. 27 November 2010: It all depends on how extreme your parents are. But first, congratulations are in order that you can still be open minded when being raised by racists.
You need to choose this one for yourself, do you want to cause trouble in the family, but at t... (read in full...)
I want to become an actress! How do I go about it?
Q. I dont know whether or not im posting this question on the right website but hey, i'll give it a try. The thing is when i was 14 i left school and became homeschooled, not the best i know. Now i have no gcses and i want to be an actress. How do i go ...
A. 27 November 2010: Best thing to do is to gain some qualifications. They'll help you with much more than acting and it's never too late to get some learning.
Once you have GCSE's look into a performing college of some sort and take it from there. Good luck!... (read in full...)
I need to really convice or scare him to quit!
Q. Hii This boy i really like we really get along in class , the thing i care about him too much and the other day he told me smokes weed 3-5 times a week , I need to really convice or scare him to quit! I know under the age of 18 the brain isnt f...
A. 27 November 2010: Any outright confrontation on the subject will only be met with equal resistance.
The best thing to do to make him quite is to use the fact that you're female. Perhaps if he found out that the opposite sex found it appalling then maybe it would gi... (read in full...)
Should I see her again?
Q. Ok, me and this girl have known each other for 8 years online. We fell in mutual love just over a year ago and found out 8 months ago, we had been dating since. I recently visited the city she lives in to work, however my VISA runs out in a we...
A. 4 October 2010: Yeah, believe me I've had much worse.
Also, the long-term aspect of it really isn't a problem, we've spoken about it a lot.... (read in full...)
I'd like to move closer to online girlfriend but she's afraid her family won't approve
Q. Met her online about 4 years ago, and have pretty much talked everyday since. We have both confessed that we love each other even though we're currently far away from one another. Would plan to go up to a college/univeristy close to her to really be ...
A. 4 October 2010: It's a great idea meeting her, but definitely don't make any decisions that affect the rest of your life based on this.
Meet her first, and take it easy, enjoy your time together and don't focus on winning over her friends or family. The best way... (read in full...)
Is a second chance possible?
Q. Me and this girl have known each other for 8 years now through contact over the internet. Earlier this year we found out our mutual love for each other, we were in regular contact and loved just taking to each other. After I graduated I decided to ...
A. 28 September 2010: Thankyou, but it really wasn't the virginity thing. It really wasn't, we talked about it and everything in that department was fine.
The problems started way before that anyway, she always seemed like she didn't want to wait a moment longer w... (read in full...)
Only 3 more weeks to win her back, what should I do?
Q. Ok, I'm going to leave out a lot of detail here because I don't want it to distract from the main issue. I have 3 more weeks to win this woman back, I originally put her off because she saw me as being needy when I really wasn't. (I mentioned joi...
A. 27 September 2010: Finally got some closure, I just got back from meeting her. It is over, but not for any of the reasons stated. I really wasn't clingy or needy, I may have made myself sound as such through the posts but I really wasn't (maybe a bit last weekend... (read in full...)
I was trying to change but he's not listening
Q. I need help getting over my ex. He just broke up with me. He was my first everything. But its my fault because I was stupid and constantly accused him of cheating when I had no reason to. I didn't clean or cook cause I didn't know how to and I ...
A. 24 September 2010: I'm really sorry to say this, but the chances are it's too late. I've been the guy in a similar situation, she accused me of seeing other women, she didn't do any housework etc. I could never go back to her.
But, look at what you've gained, ... (read in full...)
Only 3 more weeks to win her back, what should I do?
Q. Ok, I'm going to leave out a lot of detail here because I don't want it to distract from the main issue. I have 3 more weeks to win this woman back, I originally put her off because she saw me as being needy when I really wasn't. (I mentioned joi...
A. 24 September 2010: Cheers, I sure hope you're right.
I've been asking for advice from a few websites and the replies have varied from 'she just doesn't like you anymore' to what you said. Either way I'm pretty sure I'm going to hear from her again.
Thankyou for ... (read in full...)
Only 3 more weeks to win her back, what should I do?
Q. Ok, I'm going to leave out a lot of detail here because I don't want it to distract from the main issue. I have 3 more weeks to win this woman back, I originally put her off because she saw me as being needy when I really wasn't. (I mentioned joi...
A. 23 September 2010: Maybe I should add a bit more detail. Things started fine, but I think that when I mentioned my interest in getting a VISA to stay in the country she thought that I was doing it just to be with her, I wasn't, I was given an opportunity to get a work ... (read in full...)
Only 3 more weeks to win her back, what should I do?
Q. Ok, I'm going to leave out a lot of detail here because I don't want it to distract from the main issue. I have 3 more weeks to win this woman back, I originally put her off because she saw me as being needy when I really wasn't. (I mentioned joi...
A. 22 September 2010: Thanks! I'm still kicking myself from letting myself get so panicked and sending desperate texts to her phone, one of those things that just make you cringe in recollection. I just hope it's not too late to turn things round.
I've left her a me... (read in full...)
I proposed but she broke up with me!
Q. i had a relationship with girl,I have loved her more than any one can imagine,the greatness of that love has suffered me even i was with her, it was a love out of control,i can not really descirbe how it has been.I told my parents about fiancing ...
A. 22 September 2010: It's quite simple, she could tell that your whole life was dependant on her. That is not healthy.
You need to be able to support a girl, and they can sense whether you are able to or not. You need to strike out in your own direction, you will lov... (read in full...)
In love for years... is my timing off?
Q. [Mod Note: OP's Original Title] I am not sure what to do... Since I was young (11-12) I have felt a strong connection to my cousin (distant cousin), who is eight years older than me. She was in college when I first met her when she came over to ...
A. 22 September 2010: The truth is, she's your cousin mate. I'm going to be honest and say that she's never going to see you as anything more, she has a platonic healthy love for you that will not change.
You will have to move on.... (read in full...)
A question for the guys!
Q. I read about this "guy psychology" thing a bit ago, and I was wondering if it's true or just a load of crap.. So guys, please tell me this.... Lets say you have a girlfriend. She's amazing, sweet, kind, affectionate, funny, cute etc. B...
A. 22 September 2010: If I still loved the girl, well knowing what I know now I'd say that if I knew she loved me and looked like she was moving on that would be the perfect time to get back together. When you both have a mutual affection and no need or unrequited ... (read in full...)
Should I pull away to see if he has withdrawal symptoms from my affection?
Q. I sometimes find that in my relationship that I am the one that is the more affectionate in terms of giving more hugs asking for little kisses and he likes it, but I am growing tired of always being the one to initiate cuddling when watching tv, or ...
A. 18 September 2010: Don't pull away massively, but try avoiding hugging them for a while. Don't make a big deal out of it though, be prepared for them not to notice and don't let it make you come back and be even more affectionate.
Just see if they initiate the cudd... (read in full...)
I passed gas while on a date and now I'm embarrassed to see the guy!
Q. Hello, I'm 18 and I really like this guy who's 29. I ended up working in a physics department where he works as well. He's really sweet and nice, and he saw me looking at him continuously again and again, I just go red and turn my head the other ...
A. 18 September 2010: He's already told you that he doesn't mind! Just talk to the guy, have a laugh.
He's calling less because he thinks you aren't interested, not because you farted. Talk to the man.... (read in full...)
Truthfulness and difficulty with arousal...
Q. I recently begun having sex with my girlfriend, and although I am both physically and sexually attracted to her, I notice that I am not responding to full arousal by her body type (she has a more petite figure that I guess doesn't resonate heavily ...
A. 18 September 2010: I have this very issue, a petite body just doesn't do it for me.
I can't help you on the lying aspect, but I can offer you some advice: In bed, it's not how you look, it's what you do. Get her to do some of the things that drive you wild, and don'... (read in full...)
She insists on the same routine, even though it doesn't satisfy her
Q. When my wife and I have sex I try to give a lot of foreplay but she always stops me and rolls me on top of her(missionary position)and then takes over and does not let me move much. She rubs that sensitive area on me and I cum within a minute or 2 ...
A. 18 September 2010: Heck, try to not force it. Yet at the same time be in control.
You've known her a long time so you must know what turns her on by now. Just have fun exploring eachother and don't build it up into a 'we must do this, we must both orgasm' thing. I... (read in full...)
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