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writes:Right I'm in a pickle I can't get out of , when I was 17 I met a girl 1 year younger, who was amazing,she was kind, funny, didn't drink nor smoke, and well I loved everything about her!! And she loved me in an obessive way.. I always felt she could do better she did about me.. she wanted kids etc and to live together and I always thought I couldn't afford to give her what she deserved.. and slowly. Didn't contact her much and didn't sleep with her for 3 months ( after 4 years of been together ) she was buying a flat at the time..after this period I realised how daft I was and went to get things sorted went to her flat but there was a bloke there, any way she wouldn't leave me alone after and kept tellin me he was nothing compared to me but he scares her and can't get out of it. I waited around for 9 months been kind to her then gettin wound up and calling a slut and all. Sorts she was always nice to me though.. so I left it after that long and every now and then we talk they've split up and she says she's. Single and always talks about the past good times we had etc and that she wants to meet up, I say ok but then get worried that I'm trickinh myself that she likes me.. how can I tell if she just misses our friendship or us ? I don't ever meet girls and think your better than my ex silly I know. But I don't want to waste my life missing chances to meet a better women its been 2 years after the split now and we still contact each other
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for takin the time and replying, I do take it slow with her but can never be sure, I recently phoned her and asked in a calm way, just checking you want me to meet a new girl and fall in love don't you, she replied hmmm, I said that a yeah, she said well I don't want you not to fall in love again, then she said can I call you back.. hopefully a good sign. Lol
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reader, Itxi +, writes (20 June 2012):
 It sounds like you still like her and there's the possibility that she likes you back.
So why not give it a chance?
Meet her, keep things light and just focus on having a good time, if she gives you the right signals then ask to see her again. Let things build slowly rather than going straight for a relationship again.
If she just wants to be friends either let her know you can't do that or keep her as a friend and move on relationship wise. Either way nothing lost. :)
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